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What are you missing in your sex life?

johnsmit

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What are you missing or what would you like to include.
Now I never had a sex life until I got 50 and started seeing escort. And that has been my whole introduction to real sex compared to watching porn.

Now I have not found many girls that adventurous nor do many like to watch porn .There were a few that I did picture with ,maybe a video or two and then there were the 2 does and three some a few time ..
But there is some things I would like to do I love to watch girls playing with then selves if I can play too .And watching and parting with couples ,whuchbin have not done or even know how to approach.

These day the girls I saw are out if the business or not really want to see me for sex ,just as a friend ..Of course I need the money ,which some times I have. Now that I am well again and not put g out money to try different treatments or seeing doctor is so much ,I can start spending money on other things..
I hope it is a little more sexual adventure.
 

jamasianman

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Frequency. It is said that married life yields more sex overall, because you and your partner will both get better over time, develop tastes and timing and fetishes, and therefore will have more. But the pluses of seeing providers switches it up in a variety of ways, such as different races, more variety, erotic massages, skill set, etc. But then there are more intimate things you can do with a SO.

If I got a SO that gave me lots of sex, I would not see providers. I see providers for sex, if I get that somewhere else than I am satisfied.
 

badbadboy

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Spontaneity I guess.

Seeing great escorts two hours at a time has sort of made me become more into edging. That's not a bad thing at all and I quite enjoy it.

What I miss from GF LTR days is:

A quicky at any random time be it in the kitchen, the bathroom counter or shower or jumping into the back seat in a parkade or morning sex before heading out for the day. Randomness is a lot of fun that I now miss. Oh well.
 

UhOh

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Spontaneity I guess.

Seeing great escorts two hours at a time has sort of made me become more into edging. That's not a bad thing at all and I quite enjoy it.

What I miss from GF LTR days is:

A quicky at any random time be it in the kitchen, the bathroom counter or shower or jumping into the back seat in a parkade or morning sex before heading out for the day. Randomness is a lot of fun that I now miss. Oh well.
Sex with a SP doesn't compare to sex with a girlfriend. Also sex with a wife doesn't compare to sex with a girlfriend, unless its someone else's wife.
 

islander1-1

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Hmmmm. Interesting question you pose.

Sex. What's missing is Sex at home. This is why, and only why, I am here.

What am I missing??

Love? I don't think this has to be related to sex. Nice if both go together but in our case seeing an SP for sex and falling in love with them.. it's dangerous territory to tread on.

Lust. This is more likely what we as pooners are into. Yes I lust after several SPs of many different types and descriptions.

Frequency. This I find is not really missing but I just can't get enough of it due to time and money restrictions. I must say that I am glad to be fortunate enough to be one of those guys that at my age (mid 70s), the little guy can still get it up (not as big as he used to) and perform his duties.

Spontinaity. Yes I suppose this is missing. For scheduling reasons, family, and monies, I have to plan events well in advance. I have been put off by several SPs I have tried to book with because they only do same day appointments. When I have to go to Victoria or Nanaimo for a medical appointment I like to have a nice romp with an SP as a self treat.

But. When I hook up with one of my fave SPs who I have been with for many times and she knows what I like, and how I like it. WOW. All the rest goes away. I am such a "Lucky Man". ELP.
 

BIGOZZIE

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I need kissing or I can't get hot. If she doesn't kiss I never see her again or at all. Kissing makes the lovemaking personal.
 

sevenofnine

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in some ways I have been doing this too long,

for me its the adrenalin rush, the notion I have been bad,

one of my sayings is
if no one is mad at you, your not having fun.

in my youth, seeing strippers and lap dancers there was a feeling I was doing something wrong, I was this bad ass kind of guy.
some how I was pushing the boundaries,,

A buddy at work we would go out drinking
and the next day at the water cooler I would be dragging my ass don't fucking talk to im hung over,
he was as happy as a pig in slop loud talkative a big smile,

I have some how lost that feeling that adrenalin that notion Im doing something I shouldn't that excitement
 

LM987

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Oral, giving & receiving.

I was extremely luck to be invited to watch a couple have sex while I sat and watched. An amazing experience. Was also the first time I ever pleasured myself in front of someone. My O was intense and I managed a second one in very short time. I'm no spring chicken any more, so that was surprise I could perform a second time, again while 2 strangers watched me.
 

sevenofnine

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you know im kind of in a rut,
it would be fun to have a sex party I mean throw one that would be fun.
though I think it would be tough,
there is always some ass hole right, or drama queens,
so it would have to be close friends only, that I have known for twenty years.

and several sp's that are bullet proof,
in my younger days a guy would try and hold a Monday night football party he was the fucking ass hole. pissed the girls off even before we got going,
and the girls would hold the guys that showed up for ransom,, well if you want to see my tits, I need more money, that kind of thing,

and even recently I saw a lady who would organize them and she was shaking her head telling me she needed a long vacation,
the fucking drama she said, and the girls more then the guys,

the odd party I read about it, guys and girls would fight on the board for months after ward,

it would be tough to have a successful one but it would be nice,
a sex party I think
 

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Addison Cortez

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you know im kind of in a rut,
it would be fun to have a sex party I mean throw one that would be fun.
though I think it would be tough,
there is always some ass hole right, or drama queens,
so it would have to be close friends only, that I have known for twenty years.

and several sp's that are bullet proof,
in my younger days a guy would try and hold a Monday night football party he was the fucking ass hole. pissed the girls off even before we got going,
and the girls would hold the guys that showed up for ransom,, well if you want to see my tits, I need more money, that kind of thing,

and even recently I saw a lady who would organize them and she was shaking her head telling me she needed a long vacation,
the fucking drama she said, and the girls more then the guys,

the odd party I read about it, guys and girls would fight on the board for months after ward,

it would be tough to have a successful one but it would be nice,
a sex party I think
that's a fantasy of mine
 

Big_Guy_Rye

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Nothing in my sex life is 'missing' per se, other than I wish to consolidate the skills and sexual attitudes of the several women I've met, into that one ideal woman.
 
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