What are the main differences between low and high volume SPs in terms of service?
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I feel the providers with better reviews and services are the ones that are better. You see an ex dancer who is known a sexy lap dance or striptease, or has a stripper pole in her place its going to enhance the session.
Of if you see a provider who has a massage table and has good skills, or has a nice collection of costumes for roleplay, or based on what services they give in the bedroom.
A lot of people have this stigma that if a woman is high volume she's going to be seeing you after seeing like 4-5 clients in one day, and she'll be sloppy and give you a bad time. But I would imagine a more professional provider who is not up for the meeting would rather cancel and raincheck than take the client's money when she's not as her best. I remember a review where lady was very high volume according to the reviewer, and she offered him the last guy's half a bottle of water and was almost asleep during the sex.
Providers who say they are 24 hours or don't manage their time well are the ones who see too many in a day and end up burning themselves out. You see a reputable provider with good reviews and you end up with a higher chance of a good time, in my opinion.
Of if you see a provider who has a massage table and has good skills, or has a nice collection of costumes for roleplay, or based on what services they give in the bedroom.
A lot of people have this stigma that if a woman is high volume she's going to be seeing you after seeing like 4-5 clients in one day, and she'll be sloppy and give you a bad time. But I would imagine a more professional provider who is not up for the meeting would rather cancel and raincheck than take the client's money when she's not as her best. I remember a review where lady was very high volume according to the reviewer, and she offered him the last guy's half a bottle of water and was almost asleep during the sex.
Providers who say they are 24 hours or don't manage their time well are the ones who see too many in a day and end up burning themselves out. You see a reputable provider with good reviews and you end up with a higher chance of a good time, in my opinion.
That is the essence of the topic.
Many will advertise limited availability which in turn is perceived as an exclusivity which may or may not be the reality. It's how they want the public to perceive exclusivity.
Interesting reading a few reviews couple years back about an SP I was seeing at the time. Two different threads and both made mention of the SP was accommodating with her schedule; one mentioning the day that week and the other described a dinner date scenario.
My interest was picqued because that was the day I met her for a nooner.
So the advertised "see one gentleman" on any given day was not in this circumstance the reality. It was no problem for me, I just smiled knowingly.
Besides, these girls mostly have an end game strategy and they've got to make hay while the sun is shining.
On a lighter note, a quote from my Twitter feed and I wish I could remember who said it .....
"Low volume escorts eat full meals while high volume ladies are on liquid diets"
Maybe I'm being biased being in Vancouver and sometimes Toronto, but as badbadboy mentioned and many others, I find that the girls that list their numbers seem to be more "on-call" as opposed to low volume through the process of email filtering. Texting a provider just seems more like a quickie thing to do when you're lonely on a night on backpage or craigslist. Again, I mean no offense if you're a provider that puts their number out there with great regulars. Just that from my experience in the two major cities, the low volume high-end girls never listed their numbers - always took 1-2 days to respond, screen another couple days, etc.
shyguy100 I think you are being biased and maybe missing opportunities doing so, and creating misinformation regarding booking preferences by sp's.
I used to do email only but many many people prefer to at least have a phone # to contact for last minute confirmations/details as email is not always reliable. I think the email-only type ladies are mostly for discretion rather than them being a higher class etc or better/lower volume providers. I have seen high quality ladies only book via phone call, while others are text-only to weed out and screen clients before actually conversing with them, others email who need discretion due to their personal lives ie husbands or kids or day job... The last thing I want to do is take days to book a 1-2 hr session. Seems like a lot of messaging back and forth to spend an hr or 2 of time imo, but to each their own! Yes, I also advertise on Backpage as well as Leoslist, and Perb.cc and also on Canada Adult Fun, along with other great sp's out there, low and high volume, I've seen most ladies advertise on multiple websites with nothing to do with the amount of people they see per day. I've had so many times when I have no appointments for 2 or 3 days+, and then I get a string of gents asking me to do 100 specials and I never do it as that is not the type of element I enjoy, I prefer longer visits that are appreciative of the level of intimacy provided by offering the correct donation. I'd rather see one gentleman for 1 hr @ 300 rather than 3 @ 100... Does that make sense? Sure I could choose to see all of them and make 600 but that demeans what I stand for, and the type of sp I am. It's not that seeing a lady for 100 is incorrect or wrong for either the sp or the client, but I find gents who offer less of a donation seem to not respect the lady as much in my experience. I tried doing it a couple of years ago for a month and I realized I'll never be a high volume sp and prefer longer dates which are a better quality experience rather than feeling like I'm giving it away or being used as I said before. Hopefully that clarifies the type of communication has absolutely nothing to do with the volume an sp does per day.
I used to do email only but many many people prefer to at least have a phone # to contact for last minute confirmations/details as email is not always reliable. I think the email-only type ladies are mostly for discretion rather than them being a higher class etc or better/lower volume providers. I have seen high quality ladies only book via phone call, while others are text-only to weed out and screen clients before actually conversing with them, others email who need discretion due to their personal lives ie husbands or kids or day job... The last thing I want to do is take days to book a 1-2 hr session. Seems like a lot of messaging back and forth to spend an hr or 2 of time imo, but to each their own! Yes, I also advertise on Backpage as well as Leoslist, and Perb.cc and also on Canada Adult Fun, along with other great sp's out there, low and high volume, I've seen most ladies advertise on multiple websites with nothing to do with the amount of people they see per day. I've had so many times when I have no appointments for 2 or 3 days+, and then I get a string of gents asking me to do 100 specials and I never do it as that is not the type of element I enjoy, I prefer longer visits that are appreciative of the level of intimacy provided by offering the correct donation. I'd rather see one gentleman for 1 hr @ 300 rather than 3 @ 100... Does that make sense? Sure I could choose to see all of them and make 600 but that demeans what I stand for, and the type of sp I am. It's not that seeing a lady for 100 is incorrect or wrong for either the sp or the client, but I find gents who offer less of a donation seem to not respect the lady as much in my experience. I tried doing it a couple of years ago for a month and I realized I'll never be a high volume sp and prefer longer dates which are a better quality experience rather than feeling like I'm giving it away or being used as I said before. Hopefully that clarifies the type of communication has absolutely nothing to do with the volume an sp does per day.
Apologies, I did not mean to offend any of the providers here on this thread and board in general. I admit I was being a bit crass about what a high end or low volume versus a high volume provider might entail. I have reviewed girls on TER and usually they were the ones without a phone number and charged in the 400+ range since I too, prefer longer encounters with providers. I am all for discretion so maybe seeing an email made me feel better? Again I am really sorry for offending anyone on this thread... please forgive me.
Hey shyguy! No worries luv, it's just a conversation to share insights. The only way you gents will know what goes through our minds as well, then you can have more empathy with the lifestyle we lead. Maybe it will encourage you guys to do more advance bookings instead of last minute and rushed encounters...
Basically, it all goes both ways, so booking in advance, being on-time, and being generous so your provider does not have to see so many gents to pay her expenses. Booking longer dates whenever possible so you can spend a session at a more leisurely pace if you prefer that. Yes, there are definitely perks, and I'm sure there are also sacrifices some of us make to keep your experience amazing, and share intimately with you and still maintain the same zest and enthusiasm. It's definitely a fine balance, and for every provider it is different what works as well as for all you guys. There's no right or wrong, in the grand scheme of things, only your preferences from both the gents and the sp's. If you have a good experience with a lady whatever her rate, she's a keeper, if you don't vibe well or find a lady who is higher volume and it's not your preference, or badly reviewed then you have fair warning.
Basically, it all goes both ways, so booking in advance, being on-time, and being generous so your provider does not have to see so many gents to pay her expenses. Booking longer dates whenever possible so you can spend a session at a more leisurely pace if you prefer that. Yes, there are definitely perks, and I'm sure there are also sacrifices some of us make to keep your experience amazing, and share intimately with you and still maintain the same zest and enthusiasm. It's definitely a fine balance, and for every provider it is different what works as well as for all you guys. There's no right or wrong, in the grand scheme of things, only your preferences from both the gents and the sp's. If you have a good experience with a lady whatever her rate, she's a keeper, if you don't vibe well or find a lady who is higher volume and it's not your preference, or badly reviewed then you have fair warning.
No offence taken, was just curious about your logic. Interesting perspective.
Personally it makes good business sense to have both email and phone available for contact as clients are just as diverse as providers; everyone has their preferred method of contact. I prefer email introductions where a gent can write more than a quick one-liner text and also because my work phone is generally off when I'm at home or out. I also prefer pre-booked liaisons as opposed to last minute rendezvous and email can allow for some rapport and schedule coordination before the main event.
I do agree on a certain extent.
However sometimes chemistry comes into play. I've seen some "low volume" SPs that are well reviewed but the experience was kinda lackluster.
This is the post I've been looking for, reading this thread...
I agree re: booking over email - the back and forth allows to start gauging chemistry and building excitement over meeting the person soon.
My belief is that the connection shyguy100 mentions is a possible difference between an experience with a low volume provider and with a high volume provider. When I tour and I am more busy, I do sometimes notice the strength it requires to maintain my standard and remain genuinely curious about a person's day or to keep working on building our friendship - as I mostly have regulars in the cities I visit. I can do it a week a month, but I'm not sure I would have the resources to provide that level of connection and enjoyment of each other's company if I were high volume.
Interestingly enough, I have also noticed working in other cities that the ladies with a higher price point were getting more "social-only" jobs such as lunch, going for a run or seeing a show together than ladies with a lower price point. That may go back to the perception that a companion has priced her time high because she is able to deliver in more ways than just physical way.
