I have never seen a suntan bed business in Asia. If there exist one at all.
What age range do you consider someone a 'mature provider'?
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Being a natural red head means the sun is my frenemy. I’ve tried to get a nice tan going through the help of tanning beds (in the 2000s), but my darkest tan is your average girls white haha. While I don’t avoid the sun, I definitely don’t spend any time trying to tan. And I’m really anal about skin care. What I put into my body as well as what I put on my body. As well as exercise and allowing my body to sleep when it wants to is key to looking your best. I think people can be attractive at any age. I will probably be hot forever. Age is nothing but a number anyways 💕
with more votes submitted, seems like the numbers are setting at about 60% determining 40+ would be mature. I would imagine most guys under 40 would see it that way. and then also a segment of dudes 40+ would think that a female matching their age or older would be seen as mature as well.
i couldn't agree more. having grown up with a sister, I probably put a greater focus on skin care compared to most. that's really paid off from my 30s onwards. people guess my age anywhere from 5 to 10yrs younger
. if i didn't neglect my sleep as much as i do...i'd probably be hot forever too .Age is a funny thing in this hobby. As men, we're all susceptible to being overly focused on it. but to be honest....a young girl with a grumpy attitude and moderate looks can't compared to someone that's maybe 10yrs+ older that has a youthful way about her and takes good care of herself.
i've been watching Nikki Glaser interviews a lot since the Golden Globes and she's well presented, smart, and 40yrs old. that's a "mature" woman that i wouldn't say no to, haha
I'm happily surprised at the results. I guess the minority had been quite vocal because it seemed as if Perb was going by the "porn rules" in which a 25yr old could be cast as a MILF is she had the right energy 😂 Playing as a teen one day, as a MILF the next.
Thank you to the lurkers too for restoring some faith in humanity here 🥰 My friends also said "at least 35" and that it's more of a style/vibe thing than an age thing.
Honestly, I'm worried that when I do go into my 30s, people will assume I'm in my 40s because of the Asian ads vs Asian age estimate that people that people talk about here (+10-15yrs). The options are to be honest and not be believed, or go by the Asian estimate and be called deceitful. There's genuinely no winning when this system is already set in so many minds.
A friend of mine went to work for a few days in a parlor on Kingsway. All the women there were 25 to 40s. And all the ages on the website was 19 to 21. My 40 year old friend was 21 on the website. I found that really funny and really irritating lol. The owner was sooooo agist.
I look at Cher and think I can keep it going forever! Hahaha
In my 20s, I could be a total asshole and unreliable to everybody and my phone still rang off the hook. My 30s, I was growing up and becoming more reliable and professional. My 40s, I have lots of really awesome regulars that love me and have stuck with me for years. I attract clients that I want and I’m ok with saying no to people who I think I won’t click with. I still have pretty privilege which affords me the flexibility to be choosy. I’m grateful for the life I have
Yeah, I've tried imagining what a nightmare it would have been if I had started at 21 - I would not have lasted 😂 I just hope people don't assume that I'd ever become motherly/maternal at all for when I'm no longer in my 20s. I get grossed out when people try to put me into a "mother" role as much as I am bothered when they ask me to act as if I'm barely legal
Asian Fever has their 'Forever 21' and I think that this is a good approach. People get hung up over age. Some of the best looking women I have seen both in the hobby and at work have been 40+. One point I would mention is avoiding excessive tanning. Having previously lived in California you would see younger women destroy their skin with excessive tanning. During my vacation in Europe, I noticed a mother and her daughter who were both destroyed by tanning. It isn't just looks, it is also about health and avoiding cancer.
Me too. I’m open to some role playing but I won’t do age, family, or race play. No no no. Not to ick anybody else’s yum but I just can’t. No I won’t be your mother, aunt or your step mom, or even your baby sitter🤢. And I won’t be your racist white girl either. I had hippie parents. I just can’t.Yeah, I've tried imagining what a nightmare it would have been if I had started at 21 - I would not have lasted 😂 I just hope people don't assume that I'd ever become motherly/maternal at all for when I'm no longer in my 20s. I get grossed out when people try to put me into a "mother" role as much as I am bothered when they ask me to act as if I'm barely legal
Yes. I’ve been asked to do all kinds of things. I have a bit of phone ptsd these days lol. I’d rather say no thank you, we’re not compatible over text or email than over the phone
Culturally it's also interesting how people are viewed. For some of the Asian providers, so many guys will comment and mention in a review she's in her late 20s....but then I find out the girl is actually in her late 30s 😂
But that's also further evidence that once you're in the company of someone, and you feel a connection.... Your brain will just accept whatever age you're hoping for. Lol
But that's also further evidence that once you're in the company of someone, and you feel a connection.... Your brain will just accept whatever age you're hoping for. Lol
I thought Michelle Pfeiffer's beauty peaked in the movie " One fine day" she was in late 30s. So there you go.
I have no defined age for that. And for me it's really irrelevant, I'm attracted to women of various ages, body types, look. And I'm, ahem, not looking to sit there for hours and gaze into the lady's eyes. If the service is good, life is good.
However, I really don't like posted ages that are not remotely true. I like that as much as blurry, obscure, outdated photos.
However, I really don't like posted ages that are not remotely true. I like that as much as blurry, obscure, outdated photos.
Many like maturity with some immaturity thrown in but what the words actually mean is open to individual interpretation!!
the sample size finally hit over 100 people , and the results have settled at about 60% of people deeming 40yrs+ would be considered mature.
for the members in their 20s, i can see how a woman in her 30's could be viewed as 'mature'. a lot of fair points/opinions have been shared. hopefully gives some helpful insights to men & women on this forum.
ultimately i feel that.....
for the members in their 20s, i can see how a woman in her 30's could be viewed as 'mature'. a lot of fair points/opinions have been shared. hopefully gives some helpful insights to men & women on this forum.
ultimately i feel that.....
- self-care, a youthful approach on life, and a healthy amount of confidence will trump your actual age whether you're a man or a woman
- prime youth & beauty for a female will reap more attention & potential opportunities than a male can ever dream of
- men have a longer runway when it comes to aging and not facing potential discrimination versus women. societal pressures on woman can be harsh as they age and are valued differently by some.
An honest age? 40+. Providers can’t be honest for the most part but that would be my definition. I would and have seen them because I’m of that age if not slightly older. I’ve also spent time with women in the 30+ range. My concerns aren’t being too old, but being too young. It’s not that i don’t appreciate the absolute beauty of women in their physical
Prime, it’s that I rather enjoy women in their actual, mental, maturity prime. They don’t call them the dirty thirties for nothing😂
Prime, it’s that I rather enjoy women in their actual, mental, maturity prime. They don’t call them the dirty thirties for nothing😂
