Age always seems to be a polarizing topic. Just curious what current sentiments are on this forum when it comes to how we define a 'mature' provider.
What age range do you consider someone a 'mature provider'?
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It's a very subjective subject as our own age is thrown in the equation. In my early 20s my then 30 year old girlfriend looked and behaved in mature manner. By my 30s it was someone in their 40s .
Now that I'm older than that.... I'd say someone in their 40s would be mature or mature enough to be described as mature.
mature by looks? or mature by level maturity?
age doesn't equal maturity
age doesn't equal maturity
very true. i'd say more so from a looks perspective i guess.
i've been fortunate where i haven't encountered any SPs that were immature in a bad way.
Most of the SPs i seek out are typically Asian and i feel the age factor comes up quite regularly because no Asian SP ever advertises a realistic age. i've been in this hobby long enough to ignore the posted age. but i do find it entertaining how some people will so easily slag an SP for being 'too old' and then turn around and praise another SP that's actually very similar in age. ultimately leads me to believe it's often not age, it's just whether you dig their look or not.
I think I've been getting your SPs.
I am around 50, and I have no interest in paying to see someone my age, unless they fulfil some very particular desire. Generally, I prefer ladies in their 30s because they (often) have a certain level of maturity, life experience, tend to be more open minded, and look great. The same can be said for some women in their 40s, depending how far in they are and how lucky they are with genetics and how much effort they put into it. I’ve never knowingly paid to see anyone over 50, and that is roughly where I draw the line in terms of “mature provider”. Totally subjective 🤣
I won’t see an SP that advertises or apprears to under 30 anymore. Part of that is because of my own age but also I prefer the outlook of people at least in their 30’s. Imho an SP is mature when they are at around 35+ y/o or older. It has been my experience that by that age most SP’s worldviews are more in line with my own. Age-wise I am definitely mature. (Emotionally maybe less so)
Whenever anybody contacts me to say they’re reaching out to see a mature provider, I always have to bite my tongue from replying “I’ll have you know, I’m very immature”. Just to be silly hahaha.
It’s a weird topic because I don’t consider myself old or mature or anything. Although when I was 25, I would have considered someone my age old. And I would have never dated my current age. Seeing too young, weirds me out. But I’m ok seeing anybody over 21 as long as they’re sweet and respectful. Prefer over 30 but some young guys are great. So I don’t put an age limit on my site.
I’m quite curvy fit. My skin doesn’t sag and all I really have on my face is a few crows feet that I actually enjoy having. I can be silly and fun. And I let my inner child out to play all the time.
I’m not as reckless as I was in my youth. I’m smarter and wiser and pretty zen these days so maybe that’s mature. Who knows lol.
It’s a weird topic because I don’t consider myself old or mature or anything. Although when I was 25, I would have considered someone my age old. And I would have never dated my current age. Seeing too young, weirds me out. But I’m ok seeing anybody over 21 as long as they’re sweet and respectful. Prefer over 30 but some young guys are great. So I don’t put an age limit on my site.
I’m quite curvy fit. My skin doesn’t sag and all I really have on my face is a few crows feet that I actually enjoy having. I can be silly and fun. And I let my inner child out to play all the time.
I’m not as reckless as I was in my youth. I’m smarter and wiser and pretty zen these days so maybe that’s mature. Who knows lol.
But to answer the question, I can’t choose a poll option because I’d say anybody over 40 falls into mature. Although when I was in my late 30s some people thought that was a mature age for a provider. But I’d say over 40 and it’s not an age range.
Race and lifestyle play a huge role too.
Example, Western ladies and that includes CBC/ABC like to tan so they potentially age faster.
Versus Asian ladies raised in Asia avoid the sun like the plague so they age a lot better.
This also applies to diet as the traditional western diet is terrible too but all that processed junk is going overseas too.
Example, Western ladies and that includes CBC/ABC like to tan so they potentially age faster.
Versus Asian ladies raised in Asia avoid the sun like the plague so they age a lot better.
This also applies to diet as the traditional western diet is terrible too but all that processed junk is going overseas too.
yeah Mature vs the other thing
As a legacy guy I recall saying to someone way way back, "when I was your age, I was older ..." And that was when I was in my early 20's. So was I mature back then?
Re pooning and maturity, the dynamic range is so great I don't think I could give a valid response to this question. It is so relative to the individual, the definition casts so wide a net and so on. But to the OP's point, I have met 20 year olds who were emotionally and socially mature in my view and I have met 50 year olds who embarrass anyone by their immaturity. I don't think you can just say age is the issue. If however we are talking great sex, sure the allure of the youthful body is there, but great sex is so much more than the perfect body, and knowing what to do with that bod is everything in my opinion. THAT is maturity.
Happy Pooning in 2025, MPH out
As a legacy guy I recall saying to someone way way back, "when I was your age, I was older ..." And that was when I was in my early 20's. So was I mature back then?
Re pooning and maturity, the dynamic range is so great I don't think I could give a valid response to this question. It is so relative to the individual, the definition casts so wide a net and so on. But to the OP's point, I have met 20 year olds who were emotionally and socially mature in my view and I have met 50 year olds who embarrass anyone by their immaturity. I don't think you can just say age is the issue. If however we are talking great sex, sure the allure of the youthful body is there, but great sex is so much more than the perfect body, and knowing what to do with that bod is everything in my opinion. THAT is maturity.
Happy Pooning in 2025, MPH out
well said. i generally wouldn't seek out someone my age whether it be an SP or dating. There have been some that just happen to be older and amazing at what they do, so age becomes irrelevant. from my own experiences, around 30 is often the sweet spot. some of the best relationship sex i've ever had was with women 28-32. in the SP world, there have been some providers 35+ that blew my mind and had me hooked. since then, i've cared less about age and more so about connection.
i think some of the ladies at AMPs that have helped me out in the past were pretty close to 50 ...felt weird when they started talking dirty to me
I like ladies in the 30 to 55 range. I have done younger and older.
I have done younger and older.
Since I started seeing SPs, age has not been as important as I thought it would be when I started. If someone looks great, has great reviews, and seems like my cup of tea, then I’d still book regardless of age. It’s just unlikely someone my age would meet that bar and that’s fine.
