What’s your attitude toward group sex? And your experience with it?

[jesuschrist]

Foursomes are fun especially if we can switch it up

Been in a couple situations where the male partner who claimed to be straight got caught up in the moment. hmm? What's that about? All of a sudden needing to suck cock? Weird.

First of all what is your Dick doing even near the vicinity of another guys mouth?
That should never happen if you're completely straight, and I speak from experience.

 

[badbadboy]

First of all what is your Dick doing even near the vicinity of another guys mouth?
That should never happen if you're completely straight, and I speak from experience.

Ah no thanks dude, only want female lips on my cock. But good luck to yah. ound:

Seems others in my past needed a reset in mid session is what I am relating.

 

[jesuschrist]

Ah no thanks dude, only want female lips on my cock. But good luck to yah. ound:

Seems others in my past needed a reset in mid session is what I am relating.

You could make the smallest effort to be more clear so that others don't mistake your comments for you being gay.

 

[jesuschrist]

I'm curious if any of the females here have partaken in orgies...?

 

[blazejowski]

I believe Lt. Frank Drebin put it best....

"I like my sex the way I play basketball, one on one with as little dribbling as possible..."

 

[PlayfulAlex]

Thanks to all who participated in my poll and helped make it scientific!

Makes one realize yet again—different strokes for different folks.

Special thanks to lenny, Playful Alex, Sonny Burnett & satinguy, for making informative or amusing comments. LOVED your clip, Sonny. One hell of a hot blonde for an all-night 3-way!

As usual, PlayfulAlex takes the cake for her input. The world needs open minds like yours—though I'm not sure it's accurate to say that "those that want to use condoms, generally aren't too popular at swingers parties..."

At swinger parties I've attended over the years (dozens), most guys—as far as I could tell—used condoms, except with their own partners. In fact, at clubs like katsfantasies, that's an explicit requirement. I've always used condoms myself, and made damn sure other guys did with my partner.

Never made me unpopular in the least.

My statement was perhaps too general but, in my limited experience, I've seen only BB. And I've been unpopular for using my favourite flavoured condoms for bj's but there's lots of fucking and sucking going on, so I just feel safer and cleaner this way!

 

[badbadboy]

You could make the smallest effort to be more clear so that others don't mistake your comments for you being gay.

tick tock tick tock to your next timeout.

Welcome to my ignore list. Zero interest in reading your posts fuckstick.

 

[tantalizeme]

Why so few pooners enlist SPs to fulfill group-sex fantasies involving another guy

I'm now much clearer about the answer.

•I suspect quite a few fellow pooners fantasize about MMF 3-ways or MMFF 4-ways but can’t find a congenial pooning buddy.

•Pooners often don’t know how to locate willing SPs for this—or are just shy asking their favorite SPs about it.

•Organizing a MMF 3-way or MMFF 4-way is far more complex—and generally more costly—than just going for one-on-one sex.

•Lots of guys seem amazingly phobic about seeing another guy prancing around with a hard-on, or accidentally rubbing up against it, or going where the other guy's cock has just been. (You won’t die, trust me.)

 

[jesuschrist]

tick tock tick tock to your next timeout.

Welcome to my ignore list. Zero interest in reading your posts fuckstick.

Well I was actually being congenial about it. I wish you all the best in your adventures, just try to make sure some guys mouth doesn't go near it if that's not what you intended. Good luck.

 

[Pillowtalk]

"Overrated" should be on there, its part of a bucket list kinda thing something to try but other than that the fantasy seems better than the reality!

I agree. Same with any multiple person encounter, the reality doesn't play out as well as the fantasy.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

meh...

i've had a few experiences over the years

did a ffm threesome with an sp i'd seen once and her partner who i'd never seen before. first off i was unpleasantly surprised by their rule that i had to change condoms for each change of women - WTF was that all about?? was my reaction... so we didn't get off to a very good start. second off, the one i had seen before (and had a good session with) turned into the queen bitch in the presence of another woman - WTF was that all about?? was my reaction... so things went downhill. the previously unseen partner was a HOTTIE, so after a bit i switched to her and was starting to chow down at the Y, when out of the corner of my eye i spotted queen bitch directing the action from behind me using hand signals, thinking that i couldn't see her - WTF was that all about?? was my reaction. so finally i told the queen bitch that i was having troubles performing in front of an audience, so if she didn't mind i'd like to carry on alone with her partner. she grumbled but fucked off and i carried on famously with the hottie! kinda put me off threesomes after that

been to a few gang bangs. two where the lone female was servicing multiple males. at the first one a good time was had by all, but the multiple action left me unsatisfied, so my finishes were when i got to engage with her one on one - which was allowed as well. at the second one the audience made me so nervous i couldn't get wood! WTF WAS THAT ALL ABOUT?? was my reaction to that! but interestingly enough, she had incredibly developed kegel skills and managed to suck my limp cock right into per pussy and pleasured me that way - that was kinda interesting and fun too!

two other 'sequential' gang bangs where the lone female was servicing a series of males individually - i quickly learned to go last, that way nobody's tappin' you on the shoulder, lol! ound:

so my conclusion is that the female(s) has(ve) to be very experienced, and very good, for me to get much out of it. i wouldn't seek it out, but i would do it again with the right female participant(s)

 

[blazejowski]

first off i was unpleasantly surprised by their rule that i had to change condoms for each change of women - WTF was that all about?? was my reaction...

Seriously????

 

[Jason_96]

I've had a few MMF threesomes. It was never with a girlfriend. But I didn't really like it. It was alright but I much prefer one on one action.

 

[tantalizeme]

I agree. Same with any multiple person encounter, the reality doesn't play out as well as the fantasy.

Wow, Ms. Pillow—sounds like a whopper of a sweeping generalization, and not what I'd expect from a vibrantly sex-positive woman.

Honestly, many of my non-dyadic encounters exceeded my expectations, and a few even surpassed my wildest fantasies.

You think I'm the only person in the world who can say this?

 

[PlayfulAlex]

I agree. Same with any multiple person encounter, the reality doesn't play out as well as the fantasy.

"Overrated" should be on there, its part of a bucket list kinda thing something to try but other than that the fantasy seems better than the reality!

Wow, Ms. Pillow—sounds like a whopper of a sweeping generalization, and not what I'd expect from a vibrantly sex-positive woman.

Honestly, many of my non-dyadic encounters exceeded my expectations, and a few even surpassed my wildest fantasies.

You think I'm the only person in the world who can say this?

Honestly Tant, I believe that most people with any 3-4-some experience would echo these sentiments. You mentioned earlier that it's quite a bit of logistics to get 4 people together in the same room at the same time. Well, it's also hard to find the right chemistry, willingness, attractiveness, enthusiasm with that many people.

With 2 couples (MFxMF), there's often more attraction between 2 of the parties, and the other 2 just cooperate.

With married couples inviting in a 3rd, there's a whole lot of opportunity for jealousy. M has played with his SO(F) so many times before, that he tends to focus on the new F, leaving the SO(F) out of the picture, just watching the action.

Two couples I know did a MFxMF swap (the two guys were best friends) and, for the next 5 years, the M from one couple and the F from the other couple had a secret affair. She preferred to fuck her husband's best friend.

One couple I know invited in a 3rd (a M) to spice up their dismal sex life. The husband gave the wife quite a lot of permission to go off with the 3rd on her own, and then talk about it together later. This was a successful relationship for 9 years, until the 3rd moved to another city. After the 3rd left town, the couple's sexual relationship went back to barely there.

Anyways, it's hard enough to keep 2 people happily sexually engaged; adding a 3rd or 4th (in real life anyway) isn't a guaranteed fun night!

 

[tantalizeme]

Excellent contribution

Two couples I know did a MFxMF swap (the two guys were best friends) and, for the next 5 years, the M from one couple and the F from the other couple had a secret affair. She preferred to fuck her husband's best friend.

One couple I know invited in a 3rd (a M) to spice up their dismal sex life. The husband gave the wife quite a lot of permission to go off with the 3rd on her own, and then talk about it together later. This was a successful relationship for 9 years, until the 3rd moved to another city. After the 3rd left town, the couple's sexual relationship went back to barely there.

Anyways, it's hard enough to keep 2 people happily sexually engaged; adding a 3rd or 4th (in real life anyway) isn't a guaranteed fun night!

Hey Playful,

Stories are always best, whether first- or second-hand—and crash-and-burn stories are usually more interesting than success stories.

My comment is, your acquaintances obviously ain't doing it right. They don't have the right attitude for non-dyadic sensuality. They haven't yet let go of the unhealthy idea that love has something to do with owning monopoly access to their partner's genitals.

I agree, there're no guarantees in life, whether you're talking about fun with group sex or anything else.

Like most things, relaxing in 3-way or 4-way situations is largely a matter of getting used to them. Some people are slow, some are quick, in this respect.

I've spread my partner's pussy with my hands to allow another guy's cock to slide in. She requires plenty of lube (Asian and tight), and I often get asked to pour more lube on her, or on the cock of the guy who's nailing her.

No sweat.

 

[PlayfulAlex]

...My comment is, your acquaintances obviously ain't doing it right.

I guess that's the whole point, Tant, there is no right way to do this...and, for most people, they never find the way that works for everyone.

It's great that you and your lady have found a way that works for you both. Honestly, that's the ideal situation, and what every couple hopes for at the outset. Generally, it's a matter of testing the waters.

If the people involved are strictly focusing on the sexual act(s), ie. pussy + cock + hand + mouth + etc = engaged, that's one thing. But most people are more complex than that. They have these nasty little things that rear their ugly little heads...they're called feelings, and they're not just related to their genitalia.

One time, my partner and I were cruising the swingers house, checking out the scenery. We decided to hit the hot tub, and discovered a lovely young lady sitting alone. We offered to join her and, as we enjoyed our drinks and conversation, she opened up that her partner was somewhere in the house, and she'd misplaced him. This was causing her quite a bit of concern, and she'd become embarrassed wandering the house, looking for him. We attempted to engage in some 3-some frivolity in the hot tub and, while she was interested, it was clear her thoughts were elsewhere. In short order, she decided to leave the hot tub and try to find her partner again. As she was towelling off, he showed up, saying "Oh honey, I've been looking for you everywhere", to which she barely replied and they left to discuss whatever.

Communication is essential to success in non-dyadic sexuality.

I don't intentionally lean towards horror stories vs. successful play-romps. I assert that there are way more horror stories out there, that's all!

But, just to even the score, here's a success story:

One time, I walked into the group room with my partner at the time, and we came upon 2 fellows drinking beer at a table. They were in towels, relaxed, and having a great old time. As people in these situations will often do, they decided to tell us their story. Both of them were happily married and their wives had discovered each other at this swingers venue. Both couples made every effort to come to the venue once or twice a month, so that the ladies could play with each other in private. The fellas pointed out their female partners, happily engaged with each other. And the fellas continued to enjoy their beers!

It takes all kinds, my dear. Non-dyadic play isn't for everyone. Most people have some curiosity but most couples just can't seem to navigate the murky waters...

 

[the old maxx50]

I resiliently had a three some and the next week a four some .. with a lone time friend ( escort) and a friend that she had been playing with .. It was the best encounter i have had in group sex .. They were comfortable with each others , very vocal and i just loved it , I had no problem getting into it , and no apprehensions It helped that i had meet with the other woman a few times on a casual bases and she was wanting to see me ( she had been and escort at one time and a swinger open relationship ) It takes a lot to make some things work out great.. I had no problem keeping it up and pleasing both and managing to happily cum too.

Now the four some went good too , the other girl that was there .. i allso had meet socially a few times before ,, and i wanted to F*** her .. she was young, thin and sweet .. and the ladies were very comfortable with each other.. But it was a little harder to decide how to spend the time with each ,I wish i had spent more time playing .. but i think i hurried through it to climax which I then lost just with some one saying the wrong thing. I was trying to hard to impress the new girl LOL...

Yes changing condoms was the what we did to . and I just assumed the right thing to do .. unless the woman said others wise ... I think to be safe with out changing condom they would have to know each others sex habits and STD statues . I found it well come that they thought about each others safety .
I don't think of it as a biggy because quit often even with one girl there is a condom change

I was hoping for another when I was up north a weeks a ago , but we just could not arrange things and get together .