Welcome rookie-things you should know

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Gentle-man

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This may be too big for 1 thread but wanted to combine a few recent threads and hopefully it can grow to be a valuable sticky for newer Clients and SPs

Topics
1 Discretion and Privacy, why it is of upmost important to keep details private!
2 (Related to 1) Public chance meetings... Why you DO NOT acknowledge one another outside of set appointments!
3 References, why they are required by some, what can I do if I don't have one? Why do they want my cell number? Hotel number(with full name)
4 Tips for your first meeting, what do I do, what should I expect?
5 Safety tips (personal physical safety)
6 Donations what is included, gifts are they expected.

The can of worms is open... Discuss!
Write as if writing to a complete rookie with no experience!
For the rookie reading it, welcome to the Show! Learn from the veterans and you will have a long and happy career in this league!
 
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Gentle-man

The true gentle-man
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To get the ball rolling (now that I am not typing on my phone)

Topics 1 and 2... Keep things to yourself, most participants have something to lose if the information gets out, many have family, friends, co-workers who do not know that someone is a SP (or pooner) if you happen to find someone in your private life also participates in the hobby, keep it to yourself. If you don't you could cost that person, a marriage, their kids, their family, their job etc... The same can happen back to you so give the same discretion that you expect in return. For this exact reason, if you happen to see someone in public that you have met in private, whether or not they are alone or with someone... do not approach, do not engage in conversation, do not wink, nod or smile... They may well have friends rejoining them who are walking right behind you who will ask who is that guy, why did he call you that name?, they might be with a coworker... Best advice is to Cross the street, Walk by, pick up a magazine/menu and read... send them a message or e-mail later saying you saw them... your discretion is likely to be rewarded the next time you meet!
 
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nickcan

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alinburnaby said:
Actually, like anything else male and female, there is "Guy Clean" and there is "Girl Clean". So, sending the guy off to the shower without joining him to use the washrag where he thinks a soapy hand is adequate, is only going to result in continued odour.

:D Besides, if the guy has washed various curvy bits as she made sure he was really clean - he's really ready for action by the time they leave the showers :D

Hint, brush teeth before showering together. Horny Guy + Hot Clean Girl = no time after the shower

The well prepared pooner has the same things he needs if he goes to the gym. Toothbrush, Toothpaste, Deodorant, Razor if his beard grows rapidly and shaving soap. A clean mouth and a smooth face means that the ymmv regarding daty has had a couple of speed bumps removed.
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It's actually best to floss and brush your teeth a few hours earlier meeting with a SP because of the possibility of gums bleeding and higher possibility of transmission of viruses.
I always use mouthwash just before instead.
 
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sevenofnine

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respect,
for the lady.

its funny but the older i get, the more the only thing that matters in life, it seems to me is respect and charecter.

you find it in your self, and you share it with everyone you meet.
 
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Gentle-man

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When searching for your first experience... search reviews and read multiple reviews of those on your list. Look for common reports across multiple reviews to get an idea of what she is really like.

When you do decide, contact her with a little detail about yourself (nothing too personal or private) but I am new to this... I am looking for something soft/romantic/girlfriend like or I want to explore a wild side etc... Something a little more than your pics are hot can we hook up? She may suggest that she isn't the right choice for you if what you want is something that she doesn't offer which is better for both of you to seek another option at that point. The more information she can have, the less nervous she will be, the better time you will have.

When you do set up your first apt... confirm it the day before or morning of for evening apt.... She is likely to give you a vague location/general neighbourhood... when you arrive in the area you will call/txt, whatever you've arranged and she will give you the actual address/buzz number etc... be very discreet when making this call.

Don't be eager and arrive early, she is getting ready for you and a call 10min before she is ready will likely take her out of the mood she is getting into for you and cause frenzied worry of, do I have everything taken care of. Let her be ready for you.
 
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Papa Chongo

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My two cents

Rookie,

Remember that you are paying for a fantasy, if your SP makes you feel special, talented, out of this world, if you make an amazing connection ..... it is still a fantasy, when your time is up you have to let go, there is the extremely rare occasion when "Pretty Woman" Scenarios work out, but for the most part you are her client and she is the Service Provider!

By all means see her again, the connection may have been amazing for her as well, but to her your pleasure is her business.

Have fun and don't take it too seriously!
 
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uncleg

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Papa Chongo said:
My two cents

Rookie,

Remember that you are paying for a fantasy, if your SP makes you feel special, talented, out of this world, if you make an amazing connection ..... it is still a fantasy, when your time is up you have to let go, there is the extremely rare occasion when "Pretty Woman" Scenarios work out, but for the most part you are her client and she is the Service Provider!

By all means see her again, the connection may have been amazing for her as well, but to her your pleasure is her business.

Have fun and don't take it too seriously!
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There is the crux of the matter, and if you are also living another fantasy many guys seem to have, just remember.....................











 
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westcoastjoe

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Advice given to me by a veteran boat captain.... never be afraid to give it a "big shot of Reverse".....coming in too fast docking,current, wind etc....REVERSE HARD... get yourself out of there before a collision happens.

Translated to SP`ing.... NEVER be afraid to just walk away....remind yourself of that as your walking up.... bait and switch/signs of drug use/ others lurking in background/ filthy surroundings, etc
If you want , make an excuse like "work just texted me" ...etc
If you want drop the girl a twenty or something and say sorry.

If you arrive and think its not going to go well, its almost a guarantee it won`t .
If you think your going to hit the dock/pier.....you likely will

REVERSE....get yourself out of there!!!
 
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Ravenor80

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Question - What's the protocol for the "Oh crap I dropped my (keys, watch, blah) at the incall" after if it's a fair while (2 hours later?) after you realize that you're missing something?

... no it hasn't happened yet but I'm guessing it has happened to someone.
 
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Jessikaxxx

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Ravenor80 said:
Question - What's the protocol for the "Oh crap I dropped my (keys, watch, blah) at the incall" after if it's a fair while (2 hours later?) after you realize that you're missing something?

... no it hasn't happened yet but I'm guessing it has happened to someone.
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Ive had clients leave behind their personal things,
eg; eyeglasses, money clip, watch, necklace, hat, umbrella, wallet, passport, drivers licsence, even a bag of cocaine once!
If its someone that I am positive I can discreetly text or call, Ill let him know right away.
Some clients Im not sure if I can get the info to them an be discreet.
Ill simply wait for them to contact me, or if I know their handle here, send a pm.
I make sure to be close to the phone if theres a forgotten item
I put the items away in a safe place out of sight and out of harms way.
 
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diesel73

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Wherever the fuck I like.
Above all else, Treat her like a lady, and use some common decency. After all they are still a lady no matter what career they decide to pursue. I know too many people that treat the ladies badly, I ask them why and the usual reply is " Thats what shes paid to do".
My point is you will get alot farther ahead when you treat the Ladies like a Lady. If who you meet is not what or who they said they were, just leave, its not the end of the world. No point in making them sour for the next person that might enjoy there company .
 
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