We need to smarten up

[ihatebullshit]

When I start getting PM's from Newbees that are scared to post a negetive review, because they see how we attack the poster. Their is something wrong, how do we get honest reviews if people can't post their negetive experiences as well.
If a negetive review is posted, it is ok to post your positive experiences with that SP, but it is not ok to attack the poster.
When a negetive review comes out on a SP all her supporters attack the poster.
I have learned over the years, since the Canbest days, their are very few posters that I trust, because they are getting something out of posting positive reviews.
We can mke this a great board if we just show a little common sense

Just my opinion

 

[Dr.Nick]

You are so right.
I don't post or participate anymore since I retired from pooning but I've been lurking a bit lately since I'm home after surgery and you can only watch so much daytime TV. I can't help that notice that if a newbie posts a good review they are welcomed (or sometimes called a shill). If a negative review is posted, especially on a lady who is a favorite of board members, they get shit on. It's especially ridiculous when the SP's get into the discussion only to promote their friends.
Last time I checked this board was called The "Pacific Escort Review Board" not The "Lets Promote Our Favorite Ladies And Shit On Anyone Who Disagrees With Us Board".
Everyone is entitled to their opinion.
Remember some guys like BUSH, some guys don't (and I'm not talking about the President)

 

[Avery]

Most bullshit negative reviews (and shill reviews) are easy to spot. They are nearly always very short, poorly written and completely lacking in detail.

If a newbie wants to report a negative experience with a lady who has been reviewed favourably many times, he needs to avoid coming across like a jealous competitor posing as a hobbyist, or as someone put up to it by a jealous competitor. For example, saying "Don't see so-and-so. I had an awful time with her. She's a ripoff", is bound to be viewed with suspicion and/or hostility by the more senior members if the lady has a history of good reviews.

What reviewers (newbies and more experienced reviewers too) need to do is provide sufficient detail to prove, first of all, that they actually saw the lady. They also need to state what happened, what didn't happen that they expected to happen, and what was wrong with the encounter, without attacking the lady personally. That takes a little time and work, and if the reviewer is pissed off, it would be wise for him to wait a day or two before posting his review. Sometimes, a cooling off period is required to put things in perspective.

Newbies who take the time to write a credible negative review aren't usually attacked by other reviewers. And, if a couple of the lady's friends (male or female) attack the newbie, so what? They then become the target of the other members. People need to grow thicker skins. A couple of years ago, I posted a lukewarm review of a prominent local SP. I was dumped on by her and a couple of her male fans, both on the public board and in PMs. I'm still here. The strange thing was that I received several PMs from guys who had similar experiences to mine, but they were afraid to post them. Afraid of what? Even some prominent Winnipeg reviewers who are far from newbies are afraid to post negative reviews. I don't understand it!

I have, on occasion, questioned some posts by newbies for the reasons listed above. IHBS, I presume the Cory2000/Jade situation prompted this thread. Even though Cory2000's experience was different from mine, I didn't attack him or question his credibility because he provided sufficient evidence in my view to substantiate that he saw her. He also didn't attack her personally. I might have worded things a little less harshly, but I still didn't see anything in his review that shouldn't have been said.

Newbies shouldn't be afraid to post legitimate negative reviews, but they should learn first how to do it right.

 

[SexyBoy]

I have posted a lot of reviews using mostly the L/A/S score system. I personally think my reviews are well ranged with neg and pos depending on the sp.

Unless I am wrong?

I still consider myself a newbie to this forum.

 

[Packet]

Smarten up

Just stealing this thread!
Guys, we need to smarten up on the Winnipeg board.

We should have planned ahead and "invited\try to convince" some hotties to come for a fun Grey Cup Weekend. Especially, the girls of Victoria, since, we have plenty of clean water!!!

On another note:
I seen a couple of sp this year, and expect it a lot better, body wise.
Serivice was good, but I was really diappointed with the attractive of their bodies. It was a personal preference, so I didn't bother doing a review.
Should\Do you write a review for everyone? (Knowing it could hurt their biz)

 

[insider]

My FIRST post here, and why I pick to reply to the "Winnipeg" posting here is because "ihatebullshit" and "Dr.Nick" are absolutely right. I have never posted because of being afraid of the negative repercussions.
I saw this sp in Surrey, BBW, who advertizes tons, posts a pile on here and the whole bit. I had a horrible time, she looked way bigger in person, thinks she's "all that", and was in fact quite boring. If I posted that on the Vancouver section, she would probably just start a big rant, and a whole chain reaction of posts.
I enjoy reading these reviews and have made decisions based on both the positive AND negative reviews given. They are both "informative" and always entertaining reading.
Just had to finally get that off my chest.

 

[skipper1]

So far I personally have not been blasted (touch woody), but I do see that happen much too often. That may work in the interest of some bad apple SP's etc but for the rest of us, it can only work against the primary intent of this forum -- just one e.g.: it encourages little PM networks instead of sharing with all.

Nothing else I really need to say here except count me in with IHBS, Dr.Nick, and couple others who've said it all very well, ty.

 

[runlong]

thanks for starting this post. i am not a newbie. i have beenusing htis site for a while. however i have only posted a few times because I have been slapped down as well. both from sp's and other posters, so i was really thinking, why bother? well maybe i will bother again

 

[Avery]

I saw this sp in Surrey, BBW, who advertizes tons, posts a pile on here and the whole bit. I had a horrible time, she looked way bigger in person, thinks she's "all that", and was in fact quite boring. If I posted that on the Vancouver section, she would probably just start a big rant, and a whole chain reaction of posts.

Gee, I wonder who that could be! LOL!!

 

[shedevil]

Bwa-ha-ha-ha!

When I start getting PM`s from Newbees that are scared to post a negetive review, because they see how we attack the poster.

Was this "Ringer" by chance? https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=560401#post560401

We can mke this a great board if we just show a little common sense

Just my opinion

Like imitating handles to retract a review?


SD

 

[ms.belair]

There will always be people who cannot be pleased, no matter the circumstance. Catering to the "glass half empty" crowd is pointless. "Ringer" aka. "Birdboy" is an example of a wasted drink, well, half of a drink.

 

[ihatebullshit]

Was this "Ringer" by chance?

SD

No, this thread was started a couple months ago when a newbie as me what he should do about a negetive time he had with a SP, it was not the person you were thinking about

 

[SultrySabrina]

Question, then?

I'm just curious. For the sake of all newbies to the board why not put some guidelines in place so both sp's and pooners are able to speak freely about there time together. For the sake of the pooners- to feel like they are at liberty to speak truthfully but with out haist and for sp's- so not to damage business nor lose face value.

I'm sure we could all learn a lesson from my first incounter with the board. For I being an sp- found descrepancy in what the review said and then stated that and was hung to dry. Then again i relized my wrong, however when one is personnally being attacked or publicly written in about haistely- it's hard not to say something back!

If there is some sort of bounery set that we can all stay within, i believe this board aka winnipeg portion could truly benifit. However, i also think that if a review is negitive the sp should be able to rebut the review. For the situation, could have been much different and we all maybe taking the side of someone, whos not credibal or someone whos taste- no one would respect.

Since, we all have different taste and likes and dislikes. It's important for us all to have an open communication with each other. Our expectaions and wants clearly stated(pre-seeing sp/pooner). If, when requesting an sp- make sure she's what you want; is she the body type you find attractive, the hair colour that u like, does she offer the services you like and is she available the times that you are, is she able to supply your demand??? By clearly telling SP's what you want, you'll be able to get exactly what you want and bad reviews can be a thing of the past....

****HAPPY POONING TO YOU ALL AND SMILIN' SP'S WE'LL BE*****

 

[Cowboygg]

No one ever told me this site was only for good reviews,I posted something like this before and it was erased.I realize some sp's pay to advertise on here and might stop paying if they get a bad review,but cmon now,is this site for good reviews only or not?Why should people who save their pennys to see one of our ladys not know she is not worth the fee and get ripped off?

 

[shedevil]

No one ever told me this site was only for good reviews,I posted something like this before and it was erased.I realize some sp's pay to advertise on here and might stop paying if they get a bad review,but cmon now,is this site for good reviews only or not?Why should people who save their pennys to see one of our ladys not know she is not worth the fee and get ripped off?

I don't think it's anything like that. Not everyone's experience will be that of the reviewer. People that read the reviews and book the lady need to remember this.

If say, she B&S 'd you, pics aren't accurate/ out of date, age isn't accurate, in call is dirty, she left you waiting outside, canceled at the last minute etc...

By all means, post it.

Tact is everything and most people that I haven't hit it off with is strictly chemistry and not all of the things that I have outlined in the latter( I go out of my way to make sure none of those things happen). Most people don't mention that maybe THEY were difficult, or they had unrealistic expectations and so on.

My worst times with people are the ones that lay there and don't put any effort into having a good time at all. They leave that up to me. I like to think I am good at reading people, but if they don't give me anything to read, well... It's not that great. I can admit that. I can also accept criticisms and bad reviews should it ever happen. Not everyone is going to like me. I wouldn't embarrass a man because he didn't enjoy his time.

I had a gent tell me a story about him not having a good time with a well reviewed SP. He told her he was going to write a bad review. (she misrepresents herself in photo's etc...) She basically threatened him with her "Lap Dogs"... He is a long time member and has reviewed several ladies. I think it goes both ways. This place is full of handles. They are just handles. They can get another one if they don't like it, or they aren't well liked. How do we know it's not some petty attempt against the SP because of something else?

It goes both ways, but unfortunately if WE say something about it, we are ridiculed. You're not. You can hide behind your handle and no one KNOWS you but the SP.

I know you guys work hard for your money and the thought of wasting it on a bad experience is frightening. I have given back donations because I feel it's not going to work and I would be wasting their time and they wouldn't enjoy themselves. Those I refused to see in my MP days have shown up at my door, and I have turned them away cash in hand.

SD

 

[Avery]

I had a gent tell me a story about him not having a good time with a well reviewed SP. He told her he was going to write a bad review.

That's a big mistake! He should have said nothing at all, and just posted the review.

She basically threatened him with her "Lap Dogs"... He is a long time member and has reviewed several ladies.

I don't understand why anyone is afraid of "lap dogs". This is just an internet bulletin board; no one knows who we really are unless we tell them. Besides, if he had the nerve to tell her to her face he was going to report his negative experience, why would he be afraid of a bunch of anonymous posters? On the other hand, if she misrepresented herself that badly, maybe he should have walked before paying her.

...most people that I haven't hit it off with is strictly chemistry...

The more experienced pooners can usually tell the difference between a lady's bad attitude and a lack of good chemistry, and post honest reviews acknowledging that. It's happened to me, and to just about all the pooners I "know". An inexperienced pooner might see such an encounter as negative, rather than something that just happens once in a while.

I have given back donations because I feel it's not going to work and I would be wasting their time and they wouldn't enjoy themselves. Those I refused to see in my MP days have shown up at my door, and I have turned them away cash in hand.

That shows you have class. And, no, guys, I'm not Kayla's lap dog!!

 

[shedevil]

That's a big mistake! He should have said nothing at all, and just posted the review.

That shows you have class. And, no, guys, I'm not Kayla's lap dog!!

Well, I did try to tell him that. He says it's becuase the need overrode his good sense.

No, I get myself in and out of shit ALL ON MY OWN.

It hurt to give a guy back 500$, but he was very rude and his sole purpose was to demean me and hurt me, I am not submissive.

I told him that no amount of money could make feel good about how he treated me. The look on his face was priceless, and worth it. Sadly, he got the 3hours and then some that he ''paid'' for. I did it to have him leave quietly and never come back. He hasn't. I was expecting that incident to be a bad review.

SD

 

[Avery]

It hurt to give a guy back 500$, but he was very rude and his sole purpose was to demean me and hurt me, I am not submissive.

I told him that no amount of money could make feel good about how he treated me. The look on his face was priceless, and worth it. Sadly, he got the 3hours and then some that he ''paid'' for. I did it to have him leave quietly and never come back. He hasn't. I was expecting that incident to be a bad review.

IMO, you should have terminated the session early and returned his money if you wished. Once you were sure his objective was to hurt and humiliate you, why continue to accept abuse?