Sorry to hear you were outed. I read the other thread and wont comment on it. I will however say that our sometimes unwise and careless behavior has a long reach, and hurts many people.
Someone claiming to be the wife of a black magic escorts client posted here and on Craigslist threatening to post pics of clients coming in and out of the old BME incall location. Nothing ever came of it, no pics were posted that I saw.
