With the rash of posts about fake / flaky SPs recently I thought it about time we spun the camera for a second. There are way more fake / flaky John's than there are SPs, yet they don't get to have a forum about us, so lets call out a bit of the behaviours that some of our crowd could stand to work on.
First there is the "Looky-Lu John" that can never make his mind up. The amount of time SPs spend with gents actually making money is small compared to how much time they have to spend trying to arrange those dates. The gents who text and text and text asking questions and end up never booking a date is a huge time sink for them. The good SPs spend a lot of time on their websites for a reason, they attempt to cover all the common questions they get asked. Sure it's fine to contact an SP and ask questions, but there is no good reasons for long strings of texts. Figure out what you want to ask, ask, and make a decision. And don't leave them hanging. They spent their time talking to you, so even if you decide not to see them, have the common curtesy of giving them some closure so they are not left wondering if you are still thinking about it. You could even be helpful with some feedback and let them know why you decided not to see them. Don't offer the service I was looking for, not available during my play times, just not my body type etc. Bottom line their time is valuable too, don't waste it.
Second there is the "Last minute cancel John". Sure, shit in real life happens, and you occasionally need to rebook a date, but 99% of the time that's not the case. This class of John is "last minute nerves" gents who decide they can't go through with what sounded good in advance but when it becomes real suddenly have a "sick mother they need to go take care of". To this group I say "be a man". Book a date or don't book a date but don't book and bail. Many SPs keep separate incalls from where they live, and need to take buses or cabs to get there, so this actually costs them money as well as their time. If you have to cancel very last minute you might even consider paying them anyways. It's not their fault you had to cancel, and they may have had to pass on another client in the time they had booked with you. Bottom line "be a man" if you book a date, show-up, or immediately reschedule or compensate them for their time.
Third there is the worst culprit the "No show John". This is the worst offender of them all. The SP takes all the time to primp and preen to get ready to show their client a great time and the gent never shows. To this group I say "remember these SPs are real people with real feelings". Not only does this waste their time and money, it doesn't feel good either. To this group I say "shame on you, never, never, never do this".
This rant was brought to you by "the equal airtime" party - each time we read about a bad or flaky SP let's consider our behaviour as well....
First there is the "Looky-Lu John" that can never make his mind up. The amount of time SPs spend with gents actually making money is small compared to how much time they have to spend trying to arrange those dates. The gents who text and text and text asking questions and end up never booking a date is a huge time sink for them. The good SPs spend a lot of time on their websites for a reason, they attempt to cover all the common questions they get asked. Sure it's fine to contact an SP and ask questions, but there is no good reasons for long strings of texts. Figure out what you want to ask, ask, and make a decision. And don't leave them hanging. They spent their time talking to you, so even if you decide not to see them, have the common curtesy of giving them some closure so they are not left wondering if you are still thinking about it. You could even be helpful with some feedback and let them know why you decided not to see them. Don't offer the service I was looking for, not available during my play times, just not my body type etc. Bottom line their time is valuable too, don't waste it.
Second there is the "Last minute cancel John". Sure, shit in real life happens, and you occasionally need to rebook a date, but 99% of the time that's not the case. This class of John is "last minute nerves" gents who decide they can't go through with what sounded good in advance but when it becomes real suddenly have a "sick mother they need to go take care of". To this group I say "be a man". Book a date or don't book a date but don't book and bail. Many SPs keep separate incalls from where they live, and need to take buses or cabs to get there, so this actually costs them money as well as their time. If you have to cancel very last minute you might even consider paying them anyways. It's not their fault you had to cancel, and they may have had to pass on another client in the time they had booked with you. Bottom line "be a man" if you book a date, show-up, or immediately reschedule or compensate them for their time.
Third there is the worst culprit the "No show John". This is the worst offender of them all. The SP takes all the time to primp and preen to get ready to show their client a great time and the gent never shows. To this group I say "remember these SPs are real people with real feelings". Not only does this waste their time and money, it doesn't feel good either. To this group I say "shame on you, never, never, never do this".
This rant was brought to you by "the equal airtime" party - each time we read about a bad or flaky SP let's consider our behaviour as well....
