Actually, I've been extraordinarily lucky with almost all the lovely women I see. Firstly, I only go with premium providers. Second, I am courteous and clean and make a point of trying to match their level of energy.
It sounds like I'm bragging so I hesitate to mention but I feel like the women I'm with always enjoy being with me. And yes, I know I've been played and I've definitely had sessions that were terrible or where the girl did her job but was clearly just going through the motions with zero chemistry.
I'm reasonably fit, toned, and clean shaven etc.... but I'm no stud. I do OK with the ladies outside of the SP world but nothing to brag about - no bar star or club stud especially with the young ones. That said, I've been lucky. I think for a lot of SPs, once they assess a client and determine that he's clean, has FRESH BREATH - this is a huge one, pleasant, decent looking etc. they can relax and enjoy themselves. I know I'm not alone in being lucky this way. It's one of the reasons I recommend pooning when you are younger and it's not out of the question that the SP might actually even find you attractive. Some of the most amazing sex I've had has been with SPs. The trick of doing it when you are younger is being able to do it without being a douchebag (i.e. exuding a lot of ego, attitude, narcissism, trying to bargain for extras or trying to re-enact your favorite gonzo pornos). If you can avoid those pitfalls I'm convinced there's a kind of eroticism in the relationship with an SP where it can turn them on to do something for money that they wouldn't really mind doing anyway. For one, it completely removes the power politics from the situation. Basically its: "I know what you need, you know what I want - now let's have fun doing it". No complications, no ambiguities, no unknown expectations, no conflict, no misunderstandings, no power dynamics. And I think on a deeper level there's an compelling and empowering dissociation for the SP that she is free to engage in random and illicit sex with no consequences and a clear financial benefit. The relationship dynamic is completely flattened by the injection of a precisely determined and agreed upon amount of money. It's that simple.
I would say I've had stellar sessions and mutual enjoyment (i.e. where they really did seem to enjoy it or even come hard without faking) with all of the following on top of the ones that I've mentioned above:
1) Shelby Luxx
2) Claire Monet
3) Lavinia
4) Natlia Bijoux
5) Volpina Vance
6) Daria Fox
7) Odette Harlow
8) Blonde Brynn
9) Talisha Cruz
10) Various other girls from the FoxDen
12) Reiko Love
13) Sheila
14) Serina Treat
15) Cami Parker
Of course maybe they are just consummate professionals and I'm delusional and they roll their eyes and sigh once they shut the door behind me. But I don't think so. And besides, if that's the case I don't care anyway, I'm usually happy and delighted after a session.
Just my thoughts.