Dude,
The whole point of this board is to provide exactly the information you are looking for. The catch, of course, is that you have to actually read the posts to find what you want. AFTER you have done your reading and research, then it is perfectly OK to post specific questions. I think people will be happy to answer those as long they realize that you have done your part.
Cheers
P.S. I know I have only 4 posts here, but I have mongered in many countries and post quite a bit in another forum dedicated to international sex.