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[cowboykiller]

Sorry if this is the wrong forum, mods please move if necessary.

Had a question for everyone. My experience is not that extensive so maybe my sample size is too small but I have started to notice that many providers that have given DFK to others or even say it's on the menu, but don't offer that service to me. I know ymmv but I'm wondering from their perspective, why?

I'm young, mid 20's Asian who's maybe slightly above average looking (I get a lot that I'm cute). Fit body, clean, always shower before going as well as there. Don't have bad breath, don't smoke, etc.

Is there something that I'm missing?

Thanks =)

 

[felixthecat]

Don't panic. Bad breath is really the only big reason why somebody wouldn't want to kiss you. Not saying you have it, all the same it makes sense to brush your teeth, clean your tongue, and use mouthwash before you go. Then you can use mouthwash in the incall as well just to be sure (and/or use gum/mint minutes before). I didn't mention floss because it's safer to floss hours before (as any other activity that can cause bleeding, like shaving).

Don't necessarily trust the ads promising DFK and reviews, unless you trust that particular reviewer from his history. Some people seem to say DFK when they could get light pecks on the lips. Some SPs take time to get to know you, possibly with repeats.
On the other hand, there are girls who love kissing and will readily shove their tongue in your mouth. Maybe not to that degree and still YMMV, but get some ideas in Who-is-the-best-dfk-year-of-2017 thread.

If you are polite, have positive attitude, maintain hygiene, and do your research, you can get a good mileage.

 

[cowboykiller]

In most cases I haven't really minded as I never explicitly asked if it was on the menu. It was more when it was stated it was and/or there have been multiple reviews where it's been reported.

Can you explain your approach to kissing and what you're doing?

Unfortunately some guys think DFK means they can do all or any of the following:
Hold our face really hard in their hands No
Pull at our lips with their teeth and suck really hard or bite down on our lips Nope
Shove their tongue really hard/deep into our mouth No =)
Drool into our mouths

Some also don't realize they do have bad breath/unappealing kissing technique. Some guys smoke right before coming up, or may have brushed their teeth recently but still have really bad halitosis and missed their tongue and cheeks.

If it's not that, are you really passive and waiting for her to kiss you? Some clients actually don't want to kiss so if they seem timid or to wait I make sure to ask them first before I go ahead and kiss them as some prefer to only kiss a significant other for instance or worry about STI's and forgo kissing.

I'm 99% sure it's not my breath so maybe it's my approach? Who knows. My approach has always been as I would with any other gf. Take it pretty slow, maybe after some conversation in the beginning, once things start to get physical, progress from lfk to dfk.

Could it be an age thing? I'm at worst, similar in age and most times, younger than the Korean sp's I've seen.