Anyone who's looking for tall,dark, handsome, rich...or hot w/ perfect body should simply look at their parents....their mom and dad aren't the richest or hottest people around yet somehow they managed to hook up and make a baby (you). People need to get a grip on reality - real relationships aren't built on superficial shit.
Vancouver Province: B.C. women pickier than most in Canada
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Isn't what the women are reading, communication from Gay guys to Gay guys? I don't think that any of these guys is even interested in women. I suppose it was "let's humiliate some Gay Guys" day for the stars of this You Tube.
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These women should see if they can mine Pink Cupid for funny lines http://www.pinkcupid.com/
What they will find - - - according to New York Village Voice - - - http://www.villagevoice.com/2013-06-19/news/lesbian-on-line/
is a bunch of women playing "hard to get"
It seems to me that this You Tube demonstrates the essential reason that a lot of men have given up on "dating" women.
In Fact, it looks like women have given up on "dating" women, also. Men like to "score" a reasonable chance of having sex. Women like to "score" points of humiliation and see if the sucker keeps coming around for more punishment.
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That is funny stuff.
Before I went back into full time pooning I was in a LTR with a married woman. We got along amazingly for ten years and then it just ran out of gas. I then went on POF, Ashley Madison and Lavalife to see if there was a similarly inclined FWB type situations available. The interviewing list was long and arduous
ound:What I found with all of these 30 - 40 yr old somethings is they could not for five minutes stay off their phones. That was the singular key thing that turned me off the most was the constant checking text messages, Facebook etc etc. The other thing was excessive drinking and becoming nasty and jaded after two glasses of wine. Not happy people for sure.
I think that is why I grind my teeth now if a SP gets up to check her messages during our date. I have had a couple of Sp's do that during the date and one I requested half the money back so I could leave without any further discussion. She was like "be back in a minute babe" and I was "nah, let's call it a day, give me 1/2 the donation back and leave it at that". I got the $.
Though, with the effect it has on rewiring the brain with frequent usage, to suggest it is an addiction is probably correct. It provides similar chemical releases in the brain that other addictions do.
No, it's actually called being an "Appshole"
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=appshole
Had a date like that, she wouldn't let her damn phone down. About 5-10 min a phone call would ring. After I drop her off, about 20min later I get a thank you text and she wants another date. I was thinking to myself fuck no. How embrassing that was.
Gold!!!! I'm gonna use this one
I don't mind that women have 'raised the bar' in Vancouver. When I travel I see all sorts of mismatched couples or those women who are in it for just the money. Kinda gross.
Although I will say that it is tough to have a good career that pays well, have time for interesting hobbies, stay in shape, and have great work/life balance. Its tough to have the total package.
I dunno, are these people that want the total package people that are the total package themselves?Gold!!!! I'm gonna use this one
I don't mind that women have 'raised the bar' in Vancouver. When I travel I see all sorts of mismatched couples or those women who are in it for just the money. Kinda gross.
Although I will say that it is tough to have a good career that pays well, have time for interesting hobbies, stay in shape, and have great work/life balance. Its tough to have the total package.
Most definitely not. But that's basic supply/demand... us dudes have 2 heads that often conflict with each other. Its just that some girls have stopped trying hard, unlike the olden days.
Some of us have to raise the bar too! No matter who the girl is what she does or looks like, she will have suitors. Especially in this digital era where people can carry multiple personas at any given time.
Absolutely not. Just last week a girl was telling a friend that her early 40's cousin is looking for a guy but not just any guy, he has to be younger and built athletically. I know this cousin and I was shocked to learn she's only in her 40's, I would of guessed mid 50's. And although her guy has to be a physical specimen she looks like she's spent a lifetime being allergic to any sort of exercise but definitely not allergic to desserts. Or in other words she's delusional.
I wouldn't even mention this if it was a one-off but in the circle of people I know I hear lots of stories like this.
Uhm, why would you want to pursue someone like that though? Isn't that a bad choice for either of your heads?
Well, maybe she could advertise on a feeder board or find an athletic dude with a mommy fetish? There's interesting potential ways around that for someone that looks like that perhaps?
It's not a one-off situation. People need a reality check as to where their realistic dating window looks out to. We think we've come so far but in the end, what you witnessed in high school where the smart jocks and cheerleaders all ended up together.....well that's a reflection of what is to come in the real world. Women want men to be physically well built (good genes for offspring), be well paid (security and being the provider). While men are always looking for the next hot girl (good breeding genetics) because we are hardwired to procreate and have our genetic material be the dominant population in the tribe. If you are anything less than "perfect", you will get the next lower echelon of potential mates. That's simply a fact of life. No matter how awesome a person my friends think/say I am, I know I don't have the genetics or the wealth to pull an 8 or 10.
None of this is a surprise. I have not wasted my time trying to date women here. Why bother? You could give them the world and it would never be enough. I'll take a simple southern woman who wants to do crafts and bake a pie just for me any day
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Good relationships are just the pure dumb luck of finding someone who shares the same outlooks, goals, and general stage of life, combined with complimentary temperaments.
People are not just the sum of an arbitrary checklist. Fulfilling a greater number of imaginary ''points'' does not magically result in an SO who can also mark off an equal or greater number of these. Deciding that, mathematically, you are entitled someone who correctly matches your own (objectively, I am sure) determined score is a recipe for malcontent and bitterness.
The sooner people of both genders can figure this out, the better.
People are not just the sum of an arbitrary checklist. Fulfilling a greater number of imaginary ''points'' does not magically result in an SO who can also mark off an equal or greater number of these. Deciding that, mathematically, you are entitled someone who correctly matches your own (objectively, I am sure) determined score is a recipe for malcontent and bitterness.
The sooner people of both genders can figure this out, the better.
Some people will probably say that the checklist is there to increase the probability of who they will find compatible. Also lots of people don't really know what they want or need in a partner, they go through life dating the wrong people and then they compile a list of what they don't like and then make a list of what they think they need.
Maybe people just need to be more honest with their lists and someone that has same outlooks, goals, and general stage of life, combined with complimentary temperaments is a good list. But what everyone really wants is just someone that loves them and believes in them. So... honest lists are good lists I think.
The woman I was referring to isn't even remotely close to having an average body. Think of Ron Jeremy wearing a pair of mom jeans and hair died purple.
