Recently, I had a client who contacted me when he was first going through a divorce. He had never seen an SP before (allegedly). We saw each other for 1 year. Over the course of that time he lost the "depression weight" (about 40 lbs) some people gain during a divorce, and we talked at great length about his relationship, the demise of it, how he may or may not have contributed to that, and what he feels he may do differently in his ne t relationship going forward. After 1 year, he felt he was ready to get back into the "real world" and date civilian women again, and we stopped seeing each other. However, we have remained email buddies and he always maintains that the time he speant with me *obviously you can fill in any SP here* really helped him to not only regain his confidence and improve his bedroom skills while easing the pain and loneliness of divorce but helped him with a lot of self reflection as well. Everybody is different, but you might think about giving it a try with your favorite lady. Apparently it's highly recommended.