used to an sp

[sevenofnine]

its funny how you get used to an sp and comfortable with her.

i mean alot has been written about friends, love etc,

but im just talking sex here,

i have missed like three sessions, my regular sp is out of it for awhile.

and im in the need of a little loving shall we say


and sure i have seen this women alot, and were close we talk, i don't want to get into the dabate is friendship real when your paying some one like three an hour.

but im in need, ok,
and im not some thirty year old kid that can screw a knot hole in a fence

and i look at anything with bigger boobs then me.

first and formost i see my sp for sex. im familiar with all her little intimate bits and pieces and quite fond of them actually,

there was a thread awhile back about smells associated with certain body parts. and well i just enjoy this womens taste and smells, and her body.
when i think of sex. i think of her.

it just strikes me as amusing and interesting. how much, is involved in this hobby,\\

when i say i care. or am close to an sp, or even love her.
how much is it real emotional, or how much of it is,

well i rather enjoy all of her intimate little bits and pieces. it just does it for me.

some one or people want to say, this is just sex. emotions have no place in this hobby.

but, is it possible, that im emotionally attached to a certain womens, well what lies beneath her panties

 

[Big Dog Striker]

Lots of fish in the ocean. Nothing wrong with having more options. At first, Option B or C might not provide you that same connection as your favorite when you think of it BUT they might be able to rock your world in other ways than one as well, temporarily. :nod: Plus, it saves you from writing when your favorite is hibernating.

 

[PlayfulAlex]

I think it's very possible to have your favourite aspects of an SP...and, for some, I imagine they have a few favourites, so they can see one, when another is busy, as BDS mentioned, a plan B or C!

There are also other relationships, like FWB...you like each other for certain attributes, but you're not committed to each other in any way, and you may have your little-black-book available for variety, for whenever you're "in need of a little loving"!

Emotional attachments come in all varieties...it would be impossible not to look forward to some aspects of your favourite SP, be they her scents, her smile, the way she touches you, etc etc etc...perfectly normal and to be humanly expected, imho!

 

[newatit]

well, you might ask if she is as attached to you? I have been through a few of these attached relationships, and they are great while they last for all the reasons you state, but remember she is seeing several other guys a week, you are only seeing one gal maybe. Totally different perspective. My relationships, like maybe yours tend to be long term. I don't like this moving around and having to get readjusted to a new scenerio when one is found that works. Most of my relationships have been for a few years, often four to five years and one even longer. But the day comes when you see if for what it is, or something happens, or you just decide to move on.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

i've got one of those past 'relationships' going where she retired about 10 years ago. imo we had quite a thing going at the time, and we still exchange emails on hallmark occasions. however, when she needs cash for certain purchases, she's all lovey-dovey and can we get together again... this only happens every few years. i try to see her during these occasions, but sometimes i'm out of town or just depleted my pooning funds and i miss out on the opportunity to see her, but when i email a couple of weeks later, she won't even do me the courtesy of answering the email. so what kind of relationship was it really? i will still see her for the chemistry that we make, but it's with a jaundiced eye and heart for the former 'relationship'. i'm sure i owe her big time for keeping things strictly business-like

 

[sevenofnine]

im just talking sex guys

i know i pay her,
and i know im a good deal for her, an old guy, that likes long supper dates, and well, im not some thirty year old guy that is going to have long msog,

i am and escorts dream, well, i do want sex at some point, but, i am an escorts dream,
so im no fool,
well when my little male member gets a hold of me, im the biggest fool on the planet


but this is just about sex. i want some,, and she has got what i need, period.


an escort told me once,
there was this guy she knows, he would show up door and she would always let him in, and they would fuck all night long.
the guy was a jerk an ass, cheating on a girl friend, would fuck his girl friend then run down the street and fuck her,
he was just a jerk, easy on the eyes good in bed, but

but, there was something about his penis, that when it was inside her, it was just the best.
and she could never say no to this guy.
she wanted to, he had nothing to offer other then his male member, couldn't really hold a job, just an ass all around.
but she was struggling to get this guy out of his life.

and i know what this is, shit i have paid this women, alot over the past couple of years.
but i like fucking her. everything else aside,
i like haveing sex with her

 

[the old maxx50]

Yes I seem to get comfortable with my SP , any one that i see a few time means that they are doing some thing for me that i have to have more of .Some time it is great sex some time i just like there personality and being around them .. But weather i am paying for the sex or paying for other things i just find being with the person i know more comfortable then trying out some one knew .

Every thing does not have to be perfect , it usually isn't . there may be a boy friend or other complication , and some time they just are not into me sexually , which is ok too ,,then is just ,more of a friend ship . and two people caring about each other . I can't say it always goes that smoothly and there are things that have gone wrong , or a misunderstanding has ended some of my relationships with SPs But I still find that Escorts are the few women i can relate to and be open ,with out the whole judgmental thing happening ,, we can be critical of each other some times but it is because we care ...

I guess i just see them as a people i want to know .Not as SP's

I had one escort that i wish i still was seeing , that loved my cock , It fit her just right would make her come every time .. in fact it made her squirt mutable time when we were together... and she was the first women that i was able to cum with all most every time we had sex .She definitely helped me find my zone.:clap2: