I like variety, but two things I definitely don't like - a hairy vagina or hair outside the bikini line. Other than that, A full top bush, landing strip, chaplin (I refuse to call it the H word) or bare = all good. But it has gotta look nice and like you had a plan for it all. For a while my ex would never quite get her shaving right - there'd be hair (not missed hair, but clumps) in the weirdest places or shapes or what have you, and it was just very confusing whenever I went down on her

I'd spend way too much time in my brain trying to figure out what the fuck she was trying to do, instead of working on technique. Hey, I'm an artist, and I like symmetry.
I started manscaping myself about a decade ago. Purely for personal reasons - it was fucking tundra forest down there, with no rhyme or reason to how things grew or where it was thick or thin. Really did it the WRONG way in the early days and ended up causing one of those skin tags (don't google that, and I know TMI, but I feel like sharing this eve hehe) on an undisclosed location. Not my dick. Okay, my ball sack, right side. Very tiny though. I'm deathly afraid of getting it removed or doing it myself (yeah, definitely TMI). I'm not shaved bald above the dick, but have a nice symmetrical patch hehe.
One downside for me on manscaping is something Missy Mariposa has written about - I got weird breakouts here and there in the shaved parts on my frontal (not dick or balls) area. But I use this german skin conditioner I bought from the awesome MAN STORE Fendrihan, and it has made those go away. Anyway TMI TIM MIT I know.
Back to the better sex - like I said, I like variety, but definitely prefer the area around the lips and such to be clean and hair free. Same for everything past that (ie, anal area etc). But up front, as long as there's some symmetry and it isn't growing on the thighs (or stomach! ewww!) I'm good with anything there. Or nothing at all.