Unexpected meeting

[JoeyD_01]

Just a random question, but, one I am sure will/has happened to a few people.

It doesn't matter if you're single, dating, engaged or married, and it also doesn't matter which sex you are, for the ladies or the clients.

Have you ever just been out on any given day, any time of day or night, doing whatever you do, wherever you may be, and suddenly you see someone wave at you, and you recognize them as being someone from one of the escort sites, or on the flip side for the ladies, someone you have seen once, or more than one time?
He or she waves at you, you are either by yourself or with friends/significant other, and if you are not alone, you are asked "Who is that?"
You have to feign ignorance, and say nothing, or maybe say she is girlfriend of someone at work, or something?
Or, if you are by yourself, depending on how the encounter was, do you wave back, walk up & start a conversation?
Any really...REALLY bad experiences?

 

[westwoody]

I always tell ladies they can approach me anytime, I'm not answerable to anyone.
They often do.

But I never ever approach them.
Did that a few times long ago and it was pretty embarrassing.
Learn from my mistakes guys!

If a lady approaches you, fine. But do not approach her.

 

[jgg]

I posted this previously....

Ran into a favorite at the check in desk at a hotel I was staying at for a conference. She steps away from the desk and waits for me and she asks "will I see you later?" I said "of course." "Great." she tells me,"help me with my luggage."

 

[Jethro Bodine]

Hell my own family members won't acknowledge me publicly let alone some woman I've paid for sex.

 

[jgg]

Tell them you have oil Jethro.

 

[Avery]

This has been discussed multiple times on PERB. The hard and fast rule is, unless you are absolutely certain both of you are alone, you don't know each other and you don't acknowledge each other at all.

If an escort actually did that to you, she is an idiot or someone who doesn't give a shit about discretion. You should never book her again.

It cuts both ways. Several years ago, a Toronto escort told me she was having dinner in a fancy restaurant with her mother and sister. They were unaware of her escorting activities. A client of hers saw her and approached her at her table and addressed her by her working name. She tried to blow him off by saying he must have mistaken her for someone else, but he insisted loudly that she was (her escort name) and wouldn't go away. She finally got rid of him, but she had a lot of explaining to do.

 

[Jackleon]

they are free to approach me but i will not approach them. It is just a job, not difference than any other job. I have full respect to the ladies. Normal relation can be developed beyond the "professional" relationship.
actually one lady even become a normal friend of mine and the friendship has been very well for almost 3 years already. After we become friend, I never touched her. It just felt very wrong to put my hand on a female friend.

 

[ezish12]

I don't see the big reason that I need to say hi if I see a her or my fav. If I want to see her again, I know how, send an email. But never in public. What is the point? just saying hi. I don't get it.

and I expect the same from them. Don't approach me. if you want to see me, send me an email

 

[JoeyD_01]

This would also count, in a sense, to seeing an SP or client in public.
Being in a busy restaurant, with friends/significant other, enjoying the time so far.
You glance around the restaurant, briefly locking eyes on an SP who is already looking at you.
A knowing smile curls up at the edge of your mouth, followed by a quick hello nod, and you get the same in return...and then you continue with your evening at your own table.
A couple of weeks (or however long) later, you see the SP for another arranged encounter and the restaurant sighting is not discussed during the encounter.
That has happened to me, but for the safety & privacy of the SP involved, I won't say who it is/was.
Yes, if that scene sounds at all familiar, it was just like the end of the movie "The Dark Knight Rises", where Alfred & Bruce Wayne spot each other across the French cafe.

https://i.makeagif.com/media/8-22-2016/g_P1e3.gif

 

[FranksWildYears]

Twice I have run into an SP in public and both times it was clear from the look I got that she was saying "you don't know me and I don't know you".

That was helpful for both parties.

 

[MRGREEN]

Out for a dinner with a very large group of folks, long table. A couple arrived a bit late and sat right across from me and my partner, looked up from the menu and saw it was the provider I'd seen for the first time about 3 hours earlier and had a great time. I introduced my self and partner so there would be no name confusion. We were cool as cucumbers...

Peace
MG

 

[JoeyD_01]

A couple arrived a bit late and sat right across from me and my partner, looked up from the menu and saw it was the provider I'd seen for the first time about 3 hours earlier and had a great time. I introduced my self and partner so there would be no name confusion. We were cool as cucumbers...

Did the lady say who her partner was to her? Boyfriend/date for the evening/husband?

And, was the reason you were there was a friend of yours, your partner's/mutual friend? What about her?

You were cool as cucumbers, but that sounded like it could have gone wrong, depending on how many people knew the SP's profession.

 

[ezish12]

Out for a dinner with a very large group of folks, long table. A couple arrived a bit late and sat right across from me and my partner, looked up from the menu and saw it was the provider I'd seen for the first time about 3 hours earlier and had a great time. I introduced my self and partner so there would be no name confusion. We were cool as cucumbers...

Peace
MG

wow! just 3 hours earlier and the same day. What a coincidence

 

[ATM]

In my very long career of pooning I have had a few unexpected encounters. Most times we both just go about our business. Sometimes I would get a text later saying sorry didn't know if it was okay to chat or not.

 

[MRGREEN]

A couple arrived a bit late and sat right across from me and my partner, looked up from the menu and saw it was the provider I'd seen for the first time about 3 hours earlier and had a great time. I introduced my self and partner so there would be no name confusion. We were cool as cucumbers...

Did the lady say who her partner was to her? Boyfriend/date for the evening/husband?

And, was the reason you were there was a friend of yours, your partner's/mutual friend? What about her?

You were cool as cucumbers, but that sounded like it could have gone wrong, depending on how many people knew the SP's profession.

Don't recall how the partners were described at the time.

A large New Years Eve function many years ago about 40-50 people, some connected some not. A mish mash of friends, friends of friends kinda thing. She knew fewer of the attendees than we did.

Big house party after and we were in and out of group conversations, no nods, winks or knowing smiles. We acted like we'd never met before.

We'd had a great session and clicked and when seeing her a few weeks later we were amazed at the coincidence of it and how we managed it all. We carried on til she retired.

Peace

 

[ShayRubsYouDown]

As an SP, I would never wave or acknowledge someone in public, and would hope for the same courtesy!