Unbelievable that such a beauty was bullied in High School?

[tokugawa]

Unbelievable that such a beauty like Sahar Biniaz was bullied in school? Even if she wasn't wearing designer clothes, her true beauty is still there!

Read more: Bully victim turned beauty queen: Richmond woman wins Miss Universe Canada

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[Sleepmonger]

The shy loners who were also pretty were picked on, by the other girls, more than anybody else in my highschool. Sad how mean kids are.

 

[Tugela]

You are assuming that she actually WAS bullied of course. She may just be haming it up for the image or not understand what bullying is. Having someone dislike you or be less than kind to you at some point in your life is normal and happens to everyone, it is not real bullying. People who have never really been bullied don't know that however. For them, any sort of negative attention being directed towards them is being "bullied". Real bullying is constant, threatening and usually involves physical stuff as well.

 

[Dgodus]

You are assuming that she actually WAS bullied of course. She may just be haming it up for the image or not understand what bullying is. Having someone dislike you or be less than kind to you at some point in your life is normal and happens to everyone, it is not real bullying. People who have never really been bullied don't know that however. For them, any sort of negative attention being directed towards them is being "bullied". Real bullying is constant, threatening and usually involves physical stuff as well.

This was my first impression (I can be a bit cynical) so I read the first article and noticed "being beaten in the washroom enough so she was sent to the hospital". yea that qualifies as bullying (unless it was just once or twice)

Personally i dont find her attractive, maybe the face, but the body no, I'd rather a more athletic "healthier" woman. But that's just personal preference you know.

As to your confusion about someone "so beautiful" being bullied, she's not caucassian (spelling?) and was born/lived elsewhere (omg she's different than us!!), do I need to say more? Well I will, ignorant people are ignorant ya know.

 

[tokugawa]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and wether that beholder thinks your pretty or not, NO ONE deserves to be bullied not matter what they look like.

Kisses Melina*

Absolutely agree with you there. NO ONE deserves to be bullied no matter what they look like. I am just kinda surprised that even a girl like her was bullied in high school. I just don't see a reason why it would happen.

But then again women can be 'catty' according to one provider. I remember her saying that when I mentioned to her that an acquaintance (another provider) of hers was literally attacked outside of the F Den. Guess some of the girls were jealous of the acquaintance's popularity.

 

[jesuschrist]

I was bullied in junior high school, but when high school came around those bullies were in turn bullied by me. I believe payback should always be 3X worse.

 

[steverino]

Based on your response JC, I sense some irony in your selection of your handle.

 

[Big Dog Striker]

Looking forward to the next storyline: Bully victim becomes Miss Universe. :thumb:

 

[bcneil]

When I went to grade 11, 3 grade 12s tried to bully me. I found out where one lived and followed him home.
Beat the shit out of him in his own driveway with his mom crying for me to stop.

Then since I was already 6'7" guess who gets called the bully.

A couple weeks later, me and a buddy got the other 2. In a mall food court.

If you're bullied isolate them, then fuck them up.

If you're not my size, use your mind, shove them down stairs or whatever. I say if someone starts shit, anything goes.

And I am the furthest from being a violent person you can find

 

[Papa Chongo]

I was also bullied in high school, really badly. Pretty doesn't mean you don't get bullied.

What !! Who ??

If those asses could see your curves now!

 

[Sleepmonger]

I was somewhat of a loner and tended to hang around with "nerds," but was never bullied. I was lucky I suppose... I grew up early and was 6 feet and pretty strong by grade 9. Back then I pulled a bully off one of my friends and tossed him into the lagoon behind the school. The other kids never really messed with any of us after that, not even after I started dating a nerdy goth girl that was seen as a total outcast.

I think girls are bullied by other girls a lot more frequently and its a lot harsher than what guys experience.

 

[thebuttdance]

Fuck bullies, they are looking for people to pick on because of their own insecurities and weaknesses. There is no aspect of positive contribution from them.

Bullies happen in work places as adults too, but in relation to the school house stereotype. Kids tried to pick on me as a youngster in primary school but I let the bully have it; eventually myself with some other young cohorts, we made a "club" against bullying on the playground and protected other kids. Kinda like the youngsters' The Avengers HA HA!

 

[mimi]

I remember being bullied, all the stuff Vanesssa mentions.

I didn't cry and I was too embarrassed to tell my parents, cause I knew my mom would just tell me to quit whining and stick up for myself, so, as soon as I got tired of being 'noble' I ended up punching the shit out of the head bully, and then protecting her from all the other bullies who wanted to kick the shit out of her too. She ended up being a friend of sorts. last saw her hooking in Mt. Pleasant in the 80s.

I was fortunate to have two brutal brothers who kept me in good sparring condition, and bullies are largely cowards, so when confronted with someone who actually knows how to throw a punch, they blanch!

the only thing a bully understands is a fist.

I am basically a nice person, but, seeing someone getting pushed around will bring out the beast in me, I just could never stick up for myself.

I have a friend who is quite beautiful and she was bullied terribly in high school, I think because she has a good heart and some of those pretty girls are callous bitches.

Some of these kids have had it rough, too. In fact, every bully I have seen had some history of abuse, even if they were rich. Kids are not naturally mean. It takes exposure to bad behaviour (dad and mom) to cause them to act out in the school. Bullies are fearful.

Most of the popular people I ever met after high school thought of themselves as being on the fringe of the group and frightened of being kicked out, none of them ever thought of themselves as really popular. I think that is what drives them to engage in the 'crowd' mentality of bullying.

Bullying almost always needs an audience.

 

[tokugawa]

Face of a bully and cold blooded murderer!

 

[violetblake]

I was bullied too a lot all throughout school. Mostly cause I was so small (if you think I'm small now, you should've seen me back then, I was really tiny! lol). And I guess just cause I was too nice to really stand-up for myself. But now I don't take shit from anyone lol. I'm still nice, but there's a line between being nice and letting people walk all over you.

I don't think anyone should be bullied but I do believe it made me the strong and caring person I am today. Even when bigger girls make fun of me for being small it doesn't phaze me, and I would never make fun of them, cause I know it really sucks and the only reason they're lashing out at me is cause they feel bad about themselves, which is really too bad. As cliche as it is, that honestly is the reason most people bully, is because they're insecure about themselves. I can't be mad at someone like that, I feel sorry for them and hope they learn one day how to be a happier person.

 

[Dgodus]

We used to enjoy taking the little brothers of our friends dumping them upside down in a can then rolling them into walls. Was good fun. We also got them liquor and would let them hangout when we had parties. Just good natured hard times we gave them.

Never really was bullied myself. Someone in elementry school used to call me a faggot all the time. After we bloodied each others nose a bunch (I may have kick him square in the balls once, maybe) of times he moved on. I played sports me whole life, got good grades, basically had a pretty sweet childhood and was happy enough to know if someone said shit it really didn't matter I could just shrug my shoulders and walk away.

Now ifyou wantto talk about a somewhat malicious woman getting her claws into me during my late 20's when life wasn't so sweet, well thatsa different story.

 

[luvsdaty]

I was somewhat of a loner and tended to hang around with "nerds," but was never bullied. I was lucky I suppose... I grew up early and was 6 feet and pretty strong by grade 9. Back then I pulled a bully off one of my friends and tossed him into the lagoon behind the school. The other kids never really messed with any of us after that, not even after I started dating a nerdy goth girl that was seen as a total outcast.

I think girls are bullied by other girls a lot more frequently and its a lot harsher than what guys experience.

Agree with you SM.I got in a lot of fights all thru school being the only native in a small white town. Thing is 95% of the kids i fought back then, i'm friends with today(other 5% are real racist dicks). I've always been a friend to the nerdy underdog,one of my buddies was mercilessly picked on all thru school,he ended up leaving town.I have to say he was the strongest person i know,all the shit & abuse he put up with & he never hung himself. Girls were worse,they'd gang up on a girl & basically send her home crying. At least with guys it was just a one on one fight till someone gave up,it was always stopped if a guy got knocked down(none of the ground & pound mma shit)