Since there's gotta be a wide variety of people on this board I have to bring up a senstive topic for me..please dont laugh....lately for some reason when im doin the deed....i find my first release is sooo frickin quick....like within 2min...i'd even say a minute of hj or cbj...etc......is there somthin out there....or a trick of some sort to help the first release last longer!!! please let me know
ummm...feel dumb asking...but i have too
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i refuse to jack it...lol.....and i was gonnna...whats the point of seein the sp....cmon..there's gotta be somethin out there...but thanx for the response...
I try and look for that in a sp...but most of them charge a lot more...or rush you after the first one.....:S
yah but she's in victoria....there's gotta be someone in vancouver or in surrey etc......glad to see u responding...and that pm u sent me....apparently its taken off the shelf.....
Funktified:
You may wanna try explaining your situation your SP. A good Sp will draw the experience out for you by backing off before it's too late. Also, letting her know when you're getting close and telling her to stop or slow down will probably help too. If she doesn't then you need to find an SP with a little more patience. Hope this helps.
You may wanna try explaining your situation your SP. A good Sp will draw the experience out for you by backing off before it's too late. Also, letting her know when you're getting close and telling her to stop or slow down will probably help too. If she doesn't then you need to find an SP with a little more patience. Hope this helps.
sounds like u need to wack off more often and do some research on the net or something because there are ways to control it. perhaps your pc muscle is very weak.
personally. in my experience i can feel the urge to just bust out after like 5mins or so but really i cant tell what time it is during a session for some reason. but anyhow. so when the urge comes up i somehow manage to repress it and it goes away. now here is the problem with doing that. after the intial urge it now takes forever to let go of that load and one time almost didnt even get a single SOG because of that but luckily a little coaching got the girl to work better and then its all good. the good thing about holding it out like that is at the end of it all the feeling is much better and much more powerful than letting it out early.
personally. in my experience i can feel the urge to just bust out after like 5mins or so but really i cant tell what time it is during a session for some reason. but anyhow. so when the urge comes up i somehow manage to repress it and it goes away. now here is the problem with doing that. after the intial urge it now takes forever to let go of that load and one time almost didnt even get a single SOG because of that but luckily a little coaching got the girl to work better and then its all good. the good thing about holding it out like that is at the end of it all the feeling is much better and much more powerful than letting it out early.
Tantric Training
I have no idea if it works, but I have thought about trying it.
Jovanka offers Sexual Fitness Training
http://www.passionandintimacy.com/services.html
There are some mixed reviews on her if you do a search under "tantric".
I have no idea if it works, but I have thought about trying it.
Jovanka offers Sexual Fitness Training
http://www.passionandintimacy.com/services.html
There are some mixed reviews on her if you do a search under "tantric".
The 'ghost scans the surroundings around the perbertian campfire... something catching his eye.
Bending over, the 'ghost picks at the earthen ground... probing the forest floor.
Suddenly a realization crosses his face as he examines the droopings.
A forest creature he knows has been here....
its...
its...
RODENTS... DAMN RODENTS ARE BACK!!!
Bending over, the 'ghost picks at the earthen ground... probing the forest floor.
Suddenly a realization crosses his face as he examines the droopings.
A forest creature he knows has been here....
its...
its...
RODENTS... DAMN RODENTS ARE BACK!!!
YL here. I recently tried Viagra for the first time-as a curiosity. My expereience was that my hard-on was really hard and coming was difficult. Also felt like shit the next day, kind of like a mild hang over.
the agra's..
I have been on Viagra off and on for a few years now and it does help although I may be trying some of the new ones coming out..but I was told (and keep in mind that people can have different reactions) that Viagra and any of the others out there have nothing to do with endurance..it just helps with blood flow when you are ummm "in the mood"...but some people have said that it helps them to last longer..hmmmmm ..maybe I just need some of the other agra's...you know.... Alexagra...Paigeagra....Ginaagra...Saffireagra ...and whoever your fave agra is...lol..
ps...hi again squirrel...
I have been on Viagra off and on for a few years now and it does help although I may be trying some of the new ones coming out..but I was told (and keep in mind that people can have different reactions) that Viagra and any of the others out there have nothing to do with endurance..it just helps with blood flow when you are ummm "in the mood"...but some people have said that it helps them to last longer..hmmmmm ..maybe I just need some of the other agra's...you know.... Alexagra...Paigeagra....Ginaagra...Saffireagra ...and whoever your fave agra is...lol..
ps...hi again squirrel...
I don't know why this information is not in every men's magazine out there.......
Saffire's good deed of the day.......
The PC Muscle:
The pubococcygeus muscle (PC muscle) is the same muscle that you squeeze shut to stop urinating in mid stream, and it's the muscle that involuntary "pumps" when you ejaculate. It's actually three layers of muscle that surround your anus and prostate gland. Having a weak PC muscle causes weak erections, weak ejaculations, impotence, premature ejaculation, and more.
Flexing the PC muscle is also called a "Kegel," named after a famous doctor, who's name (you guessed it) was Dr. Kegel. PC exercises are extremely easy, the easiest of all the exercises in this program. We guarantee that if you stay with the program and develop a strong PC muscle, you will be a virtual "Iron Man" in bed, able to control your ejaculation, and climax when you want. Having a healthy, well-exercised PC muscle will also give you a HARD AS NAILS erection, greatly improve your sexual stamina, and even reverse many, if not all of the sexual problems men face as they age. Every man on earth should do some kind of PC workout.
Locate your PC muscle:
Before you can work the muscle you have to know where it is, and how to find it. The easiest way is while urinating. Try this: urinate and when your about halfway done, stop the urine flow completely. It may take several attempts to actually isolate the PC muscle--the buttocks muscles have a tendency to kick in if the legs aren't kept wide. You just used your PC muscle, as mentioned before, you’ve known about this muscle all along, just not how to use it. You can also identify the muscle by getting a very hard erection and then trying to move your penis without using your hands. You should be able to make it move or "bob" a bit, that is you using your PC muscle.
Remember:
1. PC exercises should be performed 1-2 at least times a day. You can do it while waiting for the bus, waiting for the green light (when driving) or any other "dead" time of the day.
2. The effects should begin to be noticeable right away, however any major size change will take place over weeks to months.
3. You do not have to abstain from sex at any point in any of these exercises, since sex will in fact increase the amount of blood to the penis and aid in stretching.
4. Keeping a short time between exercise sessions and sex is recommended, giving the penis time to adjust to the changes.
5. You do not need to have an erect penis to work the PC muscle. The PC muscle can be worked with or without an erect penis.
Merry Christmas...
Saffire's good deed of the day.......
The PC Muscle:
The pubococcygeus muscle (PC muscle) is the same muscle that you squeeze shut to stop urinating in mid stream, and it's the muscle that involuntary "pumps" when you ejaculate. It's actually three layers of muscle that surround your anus and prostate gland. Having a weak PC muscle causes weak erections, weak ejaculations, impotence, premature ejaculation, and more.
Flexing the PC muscle is also called a "Kegel," named after a famous doctor, who's name (you guessed it) was Dr. Kegel. PC exercises are extremely easy, the easiest of all the exercises in this program. We guarantee that if you stay with the program and develop a strong PC muscle, you will be a virtual "Iron Man" in bed, able to control your ejaculation, and climax when you want. Having a healthy, well-exercised PC muscle will also give you a HARD AS NAILS erection, greatly improve your sexual stamina, and even reverse many, if not all of the sexual problems men face as they age. Every man on earth should do some kind of PC workout.
Locate your PC muscle:
Before you can work the muscle you have to know where it is, and how to find it. The easiest way is while urinating. Try this: urinate and when your about halfway done, stop the urine flow completely. It may take several attempts to actually isolate the PC muscle--the buttocks muscles have a tendency to kick in if the legs aren't kept wide. You just used your PC muscle, as mentioned before, you’ve known about this muscle all along, just not how to use it. You can also identify the muscle by getting a very hard erection and then trying to move your penis without using your hands. You should be able to make it move or "bob" a bit, that is you using your PC muscle.
Remember:
1. PC exercises should be performed 1-2 at least times a day. You can do it while waiting for the bus, waiting for the green light (when driving) or any other "dead" time of the day.
2. The effects should begin to be noticeable right away, however any major size change will take place over weeks to months.
3. You do not have to abstain from sex at any point in any of these exercises, since sex will in fact increase the amount of blood to the penis and aid in stretching.
4. Keeping a short time between exercise sessions and sex is recommended, giving the penis time to adjust to the changes.
5. You do not need to have an erect penis to work the PC muscle. The PC muscle can be worked with or without an erect penis.
Merry Christmas...
Two good Post Saffire and SPK I think between the two of you you covered the whole topic quite well...
The problem could be either or both of the issues mentioned... It is true women have the muscle control thing down much better than men, but as a man at least part of when you have an orgasm should be controlled by muscle relaxation... Ok I said part there is a lot going on...
SPK yep the MIND controls a lot of it.... if you are not excited, and turned on as you walk in the door why are you going (that's the hard part)...
Oh and SPK I love the concept of "non-sensual massage" I must admit I find nothing about a woman touching my body "non-sensual" (unless of course she is kicking me in the goods
Oberon
The problem could be either or both of the issues mentioned... It is true women have the muscle control thing down much better than men, but as a man at least part of when you have an orgasm should be controlled by muscle relaxation... Ok I said part there is a lot going on...
SPK yep the MIND controls a lot of it.... if you are not excited, and turned on as you walk in the door why are you going (that's the hard part)...
Oh and SPK I love the concept of "non-sensual massage" I must admit I find nothing about a woman touching my body "non-sensual" (unless of course she is kicking me in the goods
Oberon
I copied and pasted from a website found when I did a search for "pc muscles exercises". There are quite a few sites with the same information, as well as various exercises.
From personal experience, I was in a relationship for a number of years with a man who was 'quick on the draw'. On the advice of his doctor, he started doing his pc exercises, and within a month we both noticed a significant improvement (I also started doing kegels). Within 2 months.....
From personal experience, I was in a relationship for a number of years with a man who was 'quick on the draw'. On the advice of his doctor, he started doing his pc exercises, and within a month we both noticed a significant improvement (I also started doing kegels). Within 2 months.....
my 2 bits worth .. make of it what you will
Try accupuncture it works for me and since going on a regular basis i notice all sorts of improvements in all areas of sexual fullfilment...
Acupuncture enhances all the sexual energy points which have become weakened by illness or mental blockage. Vascular blockage to genitals are relieved often restoring sexual prowess. Impotence and premature ejaculation are helped with acupuncture.
Try accupuncture it works for me and since going on a regular basis i notice all sorts of improvements in all areas of sexual fullfilment...
Acupuncture enhances all the sexual energy points which have become weakened by illness or mental blockage. Vascular blockage to genitals are relieved often restoring sexual prowess. Impotence and premature ejaculation are helped with acupuncture.
Hey Wavemaker - just what are getting the acupuncture for? The little pricks are usually done for specific reasons. What have you asked the acupuncturist to achieve? ( And just where do you have to be poked?)
Cock Throppled
It be waveBreaker...
i am recieving treatment for smoking right now.. but i usally go just to help relive the stress of my proffesion.. ..by maintaining a balance in my Chi it helps deal with day to day stress..
It be waveBreaker...
i am recieving treatment for smoking right now.. but i usally go just to help relive the stress of my proffesion.. ..by maintaining a balance in my Chi it helps deal with day to day stress..
