I'm nearly three years past 40 now. Birthday in a little over a week. Another Leo here.
So, three years ago, I did what I like to refer to as 3 days of debauchery. I'm mostly a pretty tame guy, so this will probably sound lame to most of the more adventurous types here but it was about as "debaucherous" as I've ever been.
Evening before my 40th birthday: Had a session with my all time favourite SP. Booked a couple of hours and we hit the midnight mark during the course of the session.
Night of my 40th: Went to the 5 and had a duo lap dance with the two dancers that I still consider to have been my all time favourite VIP dancers. I had that sort of planned for a while and they were both nice enough to be sure to be there that night. That was fun.
The night after my 40th: That was the one time I was able to go to one of the "foot worship" parties that Misstress T and the ladies held. A little different experience for me but I quite enjoyed that evening as well. Finally got to meet Miss Jasmine in person that night! I still can't believe how stunning she is in person.