Touring: Be honest but respectful
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Pooning has become my favourite pass time. But for me it has become difficult to indulge cause of lack of free time and more so monetarily.
That is why I can’t take a chance and stick with known reputable providers. Usually local. I would visit a touring provider if she was working out of one of our reputable agencies.
There are SWs that “tour” from Victoria to Vancouver or up island. These woman are usually know and have been reviewed. I have visited a few but I would consider them local.
I personally have not had a bad experience with a touring Quebec provider because as I said above, they have to be know and proven.
But I have been with two French Canadian SWs. Both set up shop here and were very well reviewed.
Both ladies were awesome. Sadly they have left for home.
As for booking I do book 1-2-3 or even four weeks in advance. For various reasons. Usually these are for a session over an hour.
The instant or day of booking is when I have a few extra dollars, horny as hell then I will call around to agencies. We all like a quickie now and then.
Thankful we live in a place that allows them.
What are your thoughts on touring providers? --> same as other professionals. If you deliver what you advertise, that's great.
Do you book them or you stick to the local ones? --> I have booked them but typically book locals (reasons below).
Do you find it sketchy to book far ahead? --> not necessarily 'sketchy' but I'm not always sure what I'm doing tomorrow, let alone a week or month from now.
Are you more of a last minute person? --> I typically like the 'day of' but will book a day or two ahead. Sometimes I will book longer out but it's rare.
Why do French Canadians have such poor reputation? --> I have been with a few of touring FC's and one was incredible and I'd happily see her again. One was hot, had a nice time, but for some reason she decided to irritate me and was surprised when I walked out early. Another was simply forgettable -- I remember her name but nothing else. Last one was advertised and reviewed as being hot and fun to be with and she was definitely neither so memorable for the wrong reasons.
In contrast, among the dozen locals I have seen in the past year, there are actually only two who I wouldn't want to repeat with and the rest I have repeated with regularly.
Do you book them or you stick to the local ones? --> I have booked them but typically book locals (reasons below).
Do you find it sketchy to book far ahead? --> not necessarily 'sketchy' but I'm not always sure what I'm doing tomorrow, let alone a week or month from now.
Are you more of a last minute person? --> I typically like the 'day of' but will book a day or two ahead. Sometimes I will book longer out but it's rare.
Why do French Canadians have such poor reputation? --> I have been with a few of touring FC's and one was incredible and I'd happily see her again. One was hot, had a nice time, but for some reason she decided to irritate me and was surprised when I walked out early. Another was simply forgettable -- I remember her name but nothing else. Last one was advertised and reviewed as being hot and fun to be with and she was definitely neither so memorable for the wrong reasons.
In contrast, among the dozen locals I have seen in the past year, there are actually only two who I wouldn't want to repeat with and the rest I have repeated with regularly.
My experiences run from the sublime/intense/erotic (Emelie Latendreise) to the abjectly cold/transactional/entitled (Gia), and everything in-between. I'd agree that there's more of a 'cash-grab' vibe (due to lodging/time/expense, I'd guess), but people are people and connections can be fickle. Like most things...a bit of due-diligence can tilt the odds in your favor (favour) and the Golden Rule applies regardless of zip (postal) code
Never heard that before. It could be two things, language barrier or just a culture difference.
It’s hard and frustrating to communicate when you’re not comfortable with the language. I have a few coworkers that have very basic English and I wonder what it’s like for them when they tour. I sometimes read reviews like “minimal English but she’s really hot” meaning it wouldn’t be the provider to book for a dinner date.
French people are usually more direct in their communication. They also don’t really sugar coat anything so they can come off as rude or aggressive.
I like seeing visiting SP”S from Quebec by way of Toronto and a one I’ve repeated with since 2015. With them I put it in my calendar even if it’s more than 3 months out. Think of it as a GF who you’ve broken up with and then you get to recreate the nervousness and anticipation 6 months later.
Variety spice of life when Vancouver has some excellent SP’s to see and mix it with Toronto or Montreal SP’s. What’s not to like about it?
Sure there’s ladies from back east that have not been professional on these trips West. Last minute cancellations, moving your date time without consulting if it works for you. Attempting to move your date to three different days. I think it was her booking person that f’d up. Or the ones who come out here to party and are hung over the next day and blow out all their dates the next day. Yes it happened.
I think it’s the French Canadians on Leolist with low hourly rates who are most blameworthy. Vancouver pooners sometimes fall into a too good to be true trap. Either ended robbed or by way of a etransfer and no showed for the date.
There are plenty of shitty providers everywhere.
Locals are more likely to have reviews that warn you.
I’ve had excellent experiences with local and Montreal ladies. My four top experiences were split, two local, two Quebeckers. All good but different.
By far the worst visitor experiences were one from Victoria and one from Toronto.
Locals are more likely to have reviews that warn you.
I’ve had excellent experiences with local and Montreal ladies. My four top experiences were split, two local, two Quebeckers. All good but different.
By far the worst visitor experiences were one from Victoria and one from Toronto.
I dated a french girl for 3 years so i get the directness you speak of @LC18
I have seen multiple touring french canadian providers and never had a bad experience except for one time but it was more an issue she took with my review saying she couldn't handle my size. She was hostile but I managed to talk her down. Still I wouldn't paint all french canadian girls with the same brush.
I also look up on merb to see if they have a good reputation in their hometown.
It varies really, but with the costs of everything and some other personal circumstances I'm sitting out more often. Back in the day also it used to be that touring workers came with rates somewhat lower than local girls. This also made the risk a little more worth considering.
Winnipeg is a pretty tough city when it comes to local talent so a lot of guys in Winnipeg need to rely on the more consistent and higher end visiting ladies who come through quite frequently.
Local ladies are always my preference as it allows for more frequent visits and a better connection, but I've had a significant number of very good experiences with touring providers from both Quebec and Western Canada.
Either way, if there isn't any solid intel on a provider I'll usually pass regardless of whether they are local or touring.
Local ladies are always my preference as it allows for more frequent visits and a better connection, but I've had a significant number of very good experiences with touring providers from both Quebec and Western Canada.
Either way, if there isn't any solid intel on a provider I'll usually pass regardless of whether they are local or touring.
Me, too, I had no idea of the bad reputation of the French Canadian SWs they are referring to, here, on Perb. When I visit Mtl, I hobby with their local SWs, most of them are French Canadians and have been very professional and doing their job really well.
I will verify who are the French Canadian SWs they are referring to (save for two ladies I know they did complain about in the past here on Perb and who I will write a bit about, see my notes below) as I doubt they are the same good /reputable French Canadian SWs I met in Montreal.
That said, without mentioning their names (there is no need for that), I know 2 SWs from Montreal who had issues with some folks I know in Vancouver and Toronto (and that was mentioned here and there on either Perb or Terb, I can't remember
where exactly):
the first one seemed to have been rude in her email replies, but she is known, even in Mtl, to be straightforward / bold in a way that some people may find "rough on the edges", especially if you ask her questions that she has already answered on her web site (via her online FAQ), or ask her too many questions at prebooking (one close friend who likes asking too many questions did contact her and she was curt with him). Therefore I was not surprised by the opinions on Perb/Terb about her. I personally get along really well with her, actually, but that is because I apply myself to (1) not "stop myself" at that kind of things (2) I have been doing this since a long time therefore I know what can make some of the ladies impatient, what to ask, what not to ask, etc. (3)
and I also know there is also some " language barrier'' issue that is involved in all of that...she can speak English but because English is not her mother tongue, there's still some language barrier issue with her when it comes to communicating in English.
the other one is not really 100% French Canadian, but I think some hobbyists do sometimes consider her as French Canadian (either here on Perb or Terb):
in her case, it is already known in Mtl, since a very long time, that her service is highly ymmw. To some, she can be cold. To others, it is the total opposite, etc.
With her, too, I have zero problem (I book her regularly): because I already knew her reputation, I knew how to navigate that /deal with that , consequently we get along really well.
In her case, though, because of the high $$ she charges, people expect a lot from her, which is also understandable.
In both cases, some searches on Merb (the review board of the original location of the aforementioned two SWs ) would have saved our fellow hobbyists from the frustration they ran into. I highly recommend that people always read the reviews of the ladies who are touring (I do sometimes book ladies who are touring and I never had any issue because I read the reviews first. If the lady is reputable, chances that she will be a disappointment are virtually Non-existent).
As for you LC18, I never met you but I know people who met you and had just good words to say about you and you already have a good reputation in Mtl, therefore I would not worry at all about that, If I were you.
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Really pleased to know that. Thanks to you and the other gentlemen ❤
I've been tempted to book travelling French providers, but also have not done so because of their reputation. I understand their directness, and I have dealt with that from providers from other cultures/countries, so that is not an issue for me at all.
I'm not so worried about scammers because I do my diligence. However, my hesitancy has been that I don't want to take the risk of getting a starfish, or a clock cheater. That is unfortunately the reputation that French providers have here. I guess in the worst case scenario some providers treat us with disdain or even contempt.
I moved here from Australia where South American providers have the same reputations as French providers here. I assume there is some sort of networking that happens with touring providers which promotes a particular culture or behaviour in the touring destinations.
I was actually quite hesitant to book South American providers when I came here, but I have been pleasantly surprised to find that they are not at all like the touring providers in Australia.
@LC18 if you network with other French providers it might help if you let them know their reputation over here is not very good. Reputations can change so I'm sure me (and many other clients) would be happy to book if we had more confidence that we would have a good experience.
I'm not so worried about scammers because I do my diligence. However, my hesitancy has been that I don't want to take the risk of getting a starfish, or a clock cheater. That is unfortunately the reputation that French providers have here. I guess in the worst case scenario some providers treat us with disdain or even contempt.
I moved here from Australia where South American providers have the same reputations as French providers here. I assume there is some sort of networking that happens with touring providers which promotes a particular culture or behaviour in the touring destinations.
I was actually quite hesitant to book South American providers when I came here, but I have been pleasantly surprised to find that they are not at all like the touring providers in Australia.
@LC18 if you network with other French providers it might help if you let them know their reputation over here is not very good. Reputations can change so I'm sure me (and many other clients) would be happy to book if we had more confidence that we would have a good experience.
For the starfish, I'll put that on the back of the jet lag (they have to go through six time zones to go from Qc to the West). I am kidding, of course.
But again, I doubt that most reputable (for eg, well reviewed on Merb) French Canadian providers from Qc will jeopardize their hard earned good reputation that way.
It would make no sense at all. I am starting to be really curious about those French Canadian SWs who are building a bad rep in the West (I'll do my searches on this one and see who they are).
To you and all other hobbyists: I am talking about French Canadian SWs who come from the province of Qc, are reviewed on Merb and who are touring the country.
These are the French Canadian SWs I have in mind. Now, if you are referring to other French providers (for eg, French SWs who are known in the West only, French SWs from other provinces /locations, etc.), that I do not have anything to say
about them as I do not know them.
PS: great suggestion that you had for LC18, btw (indeed, her knowing this will help, for what you have suggested to her)
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I am not sure they are aware of their reputation. They seem to think that Vancouver is the problem because I see that a lot on Twitter.
p.s: I love the Australian accent
Interesting….
Given what you’ve said about Montreal SP’s opinion about Vancouver, can you share what exactly those opinions are about the Left Coast?
