too many think the session time length is irrelevant

[ldextra]

was just thinking about how often I will debate whether I want to book for 45 minutes or an hour, for me the decision is often I decide to book the hour so I can "edge" for an extra 15 minutes

but I not too long ago had a 45 minute session where about 20 minutes in she started with the "cum baby, cum..... cum....... cum......." she was doing it in a "sexy voice" kind of way, but it was still a major mood killer as I knew I had a lot of time left and wanted to stay close to orgasm for as long as possible, but ended up feeling the pressure of the impatience of her demands and of course after cumming, it was shower time and basically session over. I might as well have booked 30 minutes

it seems most never have a clock in the room and are pretty lax about the time when it comes to finishing early (although they sure know the time when it is in risk of being a minute or two over)

I once reached for my cell phone to check the time and the girl freaked out thinking I was trying to video her with my phone, and with limited english it was awkward enough that I don't like the idea of checking my phone anymore, I wonder if it would be normal to bring in a small clock to set on the stand to keep track of where we are in a session time

just wondering if I am the only one that is frustrated by the lack of customer respect when it comes to time booked? I know there are some girls that are good but the ones that want you to cum asap ruin it, the rush from erection to wanting you to shoot the load kind of ruins the experience, orgasm intensity is best if you can ride the edges for a half hour or more before finally blowing. Full service and the same goes for happy endings, too many want you to flip and then expect you to cum in a few minutes and then session over......

any other thoughts? Am I being a pushover by letting them get away with it and should be more assertive in bringing in a clock or something and insisting on enjoying the full 45 minutes or hour of time I booked for?

 

[Poon Raider]

I agree with Nwtl, I've probably seen over a dozen different SPs and honestly don't remember one that tried to rush me, so you'll just have to get more intel and avoid clock watchers.
Also, if i may suggest, don't concentrate so hard on the 1st shot, just let it go...book someone who's cool with msog, and enjoy the long ride to that 2nd shot. This works for me cause I'm the worst for holding back that 1st round, too much bent up energy i guess haha.

 

[jamasianman]

Yeah, I think the OP gets way too hung up on time. If you're seeing k-girls and micros to get the 160/45, they might not have the best english speaking skills and you can't let them know you like to get edged out and delay the finish or want it a certain time. You should tell the lady ahead of time so she knows, and won't get worried. She might the type that wants you to get off, and if you don't tell her you liked delaying it she gets antsy and doesn't wanna get over time, thinking you won't.

See more reputable providers.

 

[cr_tallguy]

I agree this would be a good subject for the lounge - perhaps the mods will move it.

Personally, I feel it's a matter of respect. I always make a point of respecting the time I have booked because it shows that I respect the sp and also that I respect her time and her boundaries. It has always served me well, and I feel I get respect in return because of this attitude.

But I also think it works both ways, so I always try to select escorts whose reviews reflect this. I only repeat with those who respect my time and my boundaries, and avoid those who have not done so with me in the past. It's also something I always mention in my reviews because I feel it's an important part of the experience.

As for MSOG, I agree with what's been said here. I always request it so I have the option of enjoying a long build-up to the first orgasm, or going for a quick orgasm early and enjoying the long build-up to the second, depending on my mood that day and how well I click with the sp. If the aim is to exchange pleasure for xx minutes or xx hours, there is nothing worse than the session ending just because of an orgasm - or even worse, being shown the door after an orgasm - when there is still plenty of play time left in the session.

I find longer sessions also help to alleviate a lot of this angst. More time for the build-up and more time for the post-coital cuddle...

My two cents.

 

[ldextra]

thanks for the replies, I am an older guy so MSOG not what I look for, I am good for one really good shot, but I like the buildup and come very close many times during the 45 minutes before finally orgasm with 5 or so minutes left in session (ideally), then a quick shower and out the door in time

the advice to only go to reviewed girls is a good one, but it seems the girls change so fast in lots of places that new unreviewed girls are inevitable

back to my question, am I thinking wrong in wanting to take a small clock into the session and putting it on the stand, and at the start showing the girl the time so we both know when it is supposed to end?

 

[nowayjose]

If the girl is not a clock watcher you've now forced her to be one.

It seems to me that if you need to use this technique you're already with the wrong girl.

But what do I know? Give it a try and let us know how it works out for you.

 

[cr_tallguy]

If you choose the right provider, IMHO going for an organic flow to the session is more enjoyable than watching the clock, but if you are really hung up about it I suppose there's no harm in having a small clock by the side of the bed. I don't think doing a "time check" before starting would exactly be conducive to an intimate, organically flowing session though. And don't forget that a good provider will allow for _some_ non-date time before and after, but they have to be able to plan their day too, so the entire date is usually what the time is for. My two cents.

 

[PB7979]

I agree with nmo_tallguy, its all about respect.

Most reputable sps require a minimum of a 1 hour booking. There are some who book for no less than 90 minutes or 2 hours and with them you'll find a more relaxed and enjoyable session.

Idextra try wearing a watch and leave it bedside, a clock may be a bit much

 

[Poon Raider]

back to my question, am I thinking wrong in wanting to take a small clock into the session and putting it on the stand, and at the start showing the girl the time so we both know when it is supposed to end?

Just my opinion, but I think most girls you see would either think this weird, or maybe a little insulted. But who knows, maybe if you're an old enough guy, they might find it cute as well?

 

[ldextra]

I like PB79s idea of a watch, seems a little less obnoxious (although with phones nowadays, who even owns a watch... would have to buy one for this reason I guess .. lol )

then again, other than English difficulties, it kind of makes sense to just ask the girl "how much time do I have left?" as that also serves to remind her that you paid for the time and should get the full session time you chose.. but I do like better to be able to glance at the time and pace myself accordingly without much distraction,

hence my reason for the thread, a girl saying "cum baby.." 20 minutes in to a 45 minute booking is a turn off