to the guys who like to show up announced!!!!

cutesexymya

naughty naughty mya ;)
Aug 11, 2006
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This is rude!

When u are invited to a providers home, incall, hotel.... ect...
this is a privledge.. not a right
DO NOT show up unnanounced.
It happened to me today!
that is not cool.....
If u expect discretion, please give me the same discretion i use with u!

In alberta, there are stalking laws.....
So if the man who did this to me today reads this.....
If u cum to my home again.....

I may have to take this to the next level....

U know who u are

Mya
 

TheRater

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Yoes said:
Some people have no clue.
How can I get in touch with you?
Sorry, that was just too funny.

- TR
 

tianna

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100% rude

cutesexymya said:
This is rude!

When u are invited to a providers home, incall, hotel.... ect...
this is a privledge.. not a right
DO NOT show up unnanounced.
It happened to me today!
that is not cool.....
If u expect discretion, please give me the same discretion i use with u!

In alberta, there are stalking laws.....
So if the man who did this to me today reads this.....
If u cum to my home again.....

I may have to take this to the next level....

U know who u are

Mya
some one who did that did that to me may not see me again.... I think its one step in a way too wrong direction.. u should be ticked..
 

nube

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Oct 17, 2006
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Hell...I HATE it when anyone 'just drops in' on me unannounced. ON TOP of it, thye don't even bring a beer let alone pay to see me :(

Seriously I DO hate it, and in your case, it is just down right disrespectfuland in my view demeaning. I will also say could be quite dangerous for the guy too! What if you were with a client, someone who really values his discretion....things could get ugly REAL fast.
 

josephl

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Some guys have no clue..

A "regular" sp that I saw once told me she ran into a situation where someone she had scene gave his buddy her address and buzzer # and this unknown buddy showed up unannounced wanting to be let in...why would that have been a good idea ?
 

BigBlue

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josephl said:
A "regular" sp that I saw once told me she ran into a situation where someone she had scene gave his buddy her address and buzzer # and this unknown buddy showed up unannounced wanting to be let in...why would that have been a good idea ?
Contact info??? (just kidding :p )
 

Vroomfondel

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Happened To Me

Many many years ago, I was enjoying an excellent session with my favourite SP when there was a rather insistent knock at the door. Initially, she did not respond. But after several irritating minutes my lady made the mistake of answering the door while I waited in her room.

It was indeed a client who had arrived unannounced and was hoping for a quickie. First she tried to convince him to come back later (without mentioning that I was there) but then she acquiesced and gave him a perfunctory BJ. She returned to our session upset and shaken; her career as an SP ended several weeks later. If that sort of thing is enough to satisfy him, then he must be one pathetic SOB.

Would the correct action have been to confront the guy and demand that he leave, peacefully or otherwise? Is it chivalry or self-protection? A situation like that can deteriorate rapidly and then all parties would be in danger.

IMHO, hobbyists who "stop by" without advance notice are taking needless risks. Not only do they risk the loss of their privileges with the SP, they may also incur legal wrath (if she feels harassed) as well as physical harm if they mess with the wrong client .... or SP! Bloody hell, I don't even show up at my friends' homes unannounced. It's wrong for so many reasons.

VF
 

JustAGuy

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Vroomfondel said:
Many many years ago, I was enjoying an excellent session with my favourite SP when there was a rather insistent knock at the door. Initially, she did not respond. But after several irritating minutes my lady made the mistake of answering the door while I waited in her room.

It was indeed a client who had arrived unannounced and was hoping for a quickie. First she tried to convince him to come back later (without mentioning that I was there) but then she acquiesced and gave him a perfunctory BJ. She returned to our session upset and shaken; her career as an SP ended several weeks later. If that sort of thing is enough to satisfy him, then he must be one pathetic SOB.VF
Sad but true, for some people "class" is just something that they attended back in their school days. The aforementioned client has given me a brand new definition for the term "total loser".
 

anonanon

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It is not that difficult to make an appointment. Call first, she may possibly not even be in that day!
 

cutesexymya

naughty naughty mya ;)
Aug 11, 2006
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I am in SW Calgary
Thanks guys, when i wrote my original post, i was angry.... :mad:

And i just typed it like wind on my keyboard, now that i have calmed down, I would love to have a chat with this particular gentleman, as adults, there are a few things that I would like to chat with u about, we are adults and would appreciate the common curtisie of a email or heck, and ol fashioned telephone call. I do know ur number, but as i hold discretion the upmost important tool of my hobbie, I would never use it. ;)

I appreciate everyones support on my bad day, and would like to assure u that I am a lady, and should have waited till my inital anger had resided before posting.. :rolleyes:
 

calgalias

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No need to apologize to this bozo Maya. He was a thoughless idiot and I hope he realizes how rude it was to show up on your doorstep unannounced. What if you had had family or friends over and this guy had showed up?
 

athaire

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cutesexymya said:
Thanks guys, when i wrote my original post, i was angry.... :mad:

And i just typed it like wind on my keyboard, now that i have calmed down, I would love to have a chat with this particular gentleman, as adults, there are a few things that I would like to chat with u about, we are adults and would appreciate the common curtisie of a email or heck, and ol fashioned telephone call. I do know ur number, but as i hold discretion the upmost important tool of my hobbie, I would never use it. ;)

I appreciate everyones support on my bad day, and would like to assure u that I am a lady, and should have waited till my inital anger had resided before posting.. :rolleyes:
You really are a classy lady. I mean to come back and be calm and reasonable, even though you are justified in your initial anger. My hats off to ya.
 

nube

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Lol

cutesexymya said:
Thanks guys, when i wrote my original post, i was angry.... :mad:

And i just typed it like wind on my keyboard, now that i have calmed down, I would love to have a chat with this particular gentleman, as adults, there are a few things that I would like to chat with u about, we are adults and would appreciate the common curtisie of a email or heck, and ol fashioned telephone call. I do know ur number, but as i hold discretion the upmost important tool of my hobbie, I would never use it. ;)

I appreciate everyones support on my bad day, and would like to assure u that I am a lady, and should have waited till my inital anger had resided before posting.. :rolleyes:

Everyone likes a little tail between their legs ...now and then... (mostly now), But don't worry we all get a little pissed and say things we shouldn't from time to time....but you were justified in my opinion :)
 
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