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To Squirrel, an apology

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Dakota Wood

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While I still stand by the things I said on page one, I want to offer my sincerest apologies for what I said on page five. I spent some time with a mutual friend of ours this afternoon. I stand corrected. I felt I could do one of two things, keep my mouth shut and wrestle with the demon of knowing that my mistake may have hurt someone, or get it out there publically and be able to sleep well tonight. I'm choosing the latter.

One of the shortcomings in my personality is that I have a hard time seeing the gray between the black and white, the middle ground between right and wrong. Once the gray area/middle ground was discussed with our mutual friend, it was crystal clear to me. I have some very strong opinions about dishonesty and people who don't think the rules apply to them. Obviously I let that viewpoint obstruct my ability to see this in any other way.

Again, I am so very sorry. I hope to meet you one day so I can say so, face to face.

Take care of yourself sweetie
Dak'
 

Ashley Fame

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stryker said:
I guess I should spill the beans,,,,I ran over one of those furry fuckers today,,,,,,I tried to miss him/her,,,but when i did he did a little jig and I couldn't corrrect ,,,,,and the next thing I hear/feel is a bummpity bump:eek: I thought to myself,,Fuck,,,that poor little squirrel,,,,soooooooooooo,,I pulled over,,,walked back to where it was(what was left of it)grabed a piece of discarded cardboard and scooped him/her/it up and took the remains to a nice garden bed in front of a lovely Condo next to where I stopped,,,,,,,,I found a broken branch under a cedar tree and dug a grave under a rhododendrum for the poor little critter,,,said a small prayer and thought of Squirrel,,,and went for a Beer.
Sorry Squirrel,,,,I tried to miss him:(

awww...a tear nearly dropped my eye...
 

American Male

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Dakota Wood said:
While I still stand by the things I said on page one, I want to offer my sincerest apologies for what I said on page five. I spent some time with a mutual friend of ours this afternoon. I stand corrected. I felt I could do one of two things, keep my mouth shut and wrestle with the demon of knowing that my mistake may have hurt someone, or get it out there publically and be able to sleep well tonight. I'm choosing the latter.

One of the shortcomings in my personality is that I have a hard time seeing the gray between the black and white, the middle ground between right and wrong. Once the gray area/middle ground was discussed with our mutual friend, it was crystal clear to me. I have some very strong opinions about dishonesty and people who don't think the rules apply to them. Obviously I let that viewpoint obstruct my ability to see this in any other way.

Again, I am so very sorry. I hope to meet you one day so I can say so, face to face.

Take care of yourself sweetie
Dak'

Classy move, Dakota. The hardest thing of all might be admitting when we have been wrong about something. And then to post that apology on a public forum, well, takes guts. I have tons of respect for you, Dakota. Like I said, classy move.
 

vancouverman

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Dak .... all the animals in Stanley Park are very happy, and they are dancing around the perbertian fire .... Squirrel is missing, but I'm sure echo of their songs will reach him.
 

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I want to post a public apology to Squirrel, too. At the time I made my initial comments I didn't realize how much the whole thing was adding up to be totally out of proportion to other things that have been said or done on these boards and got far less criticism. While I'm at it, I want to say that I had my suspicions about Bruddha all along, but I chose to ignore them because something in his character was very appealing. It was kind of like when kids suspect that Santa Claus isn't real but they want to believe for one year longer, so they suspend their critical faculties.So, it wasn't just Squirrel that created Bruddha, it was everyone else who knew or suspected but chose not to expose him. Also, re. his dialect, of course no one writes like that without doing so deliberately but I thought it was perfectly plausible that a Jamaican would chose to write like to mark his identity. African American and other minority writers deliberately do that all the time. Thanks for starting this thread , Dakota, I was feeling badly about any role I played in this.
 

DJLAW

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Classy move, Dakota. The hardest thing of all might be admitting when we have been wrong about something. And then to post that apology on a public forum, well, takes guts. I have tons of respect for you, Dakota. Like I said, classy move.

i concur on all points.
 

BobbiVan

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Bravo

I'm glad both you, Dak, and Sweetipie have apologized. I kept reading the thread and getting more and more upset by how angry and hurtful everyone had become during all this, and for what??

Someone made a joke on a message board and no one got it. :confused:

I figured that Bruddha was made up because of the way he wrote too.. I just didn't know WHO it was... and I have to admit, when I found out the truth, I was a little hurt that I wasn't 'let in on the secret'.

That only lasted a few minutes, then I realized, "wait a minute, this isn't real life!!!!"

At that point, I found the humour, laughed it off, and smacked the damn squirrel upside the head for fibbin'. No Biggy, no one was hurt.

To think that with all the bashing and hate posts I see, THIS is what we decide to get all huffy about.

Well I want to say, THANKS Dak, for starting this thread... Hopefully Squirrel will see these kind words and find his way back to the perberbian forest...
 

vancouverman

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BobbiVan said:
Hopefully Squirrel will see these kind words and find his way back to the perberbian forest...
I'm printing her post, and will drive to Stanley Park ......


hey .. wait ..... we are getting him in hot water again .. somebody will really think, he is a little furry animal, living in Stanley Park ....


.... but if they will.... so be it .. after all ... all we say here is the truth and only the truth
 

DJLAW

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just post 'em all over Robson Street.

that would be awesome!

little messages all over Robson that say "Dear Squirrel, we're sorry. -PERB"

imagine the look on all the Japanese tourists faces?
 

Dakota Wood

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DJLAW said:
just post 'em all over Robson Street.

that would be awesome!

little messages all over Robson that say "Dear Squirrel, we're sorry. -PERB"

imagine the look on all the Japanese tourists faces?
LMAO-the visual is funny as hell.
 

vancouverman

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Dak ... can you give me some heck ...... and then apologize later?


:D :D :D :D
 
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