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Just4fun00

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Hey,
Maybe as a novice in the SP scene this question is a no brainer. But do the ladies prefer their gents shaved or it doesn’t really matter? If you could Help this novice out. It would be much appreciated.
 

Smiley2300

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Hey,
Maybe as a novice in the SP scene this question is a no brainer. But do the ladies prefer their gents shaved or it doesn’t really matter? If you could Help this novice out. It would be much appreciated.
I think they prefer gents with lots of money! They should shave!
 
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quiotriot

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Generally speaking I'd say no one minds if you show up groomed. But, otherwise it depends on the girl. Most Asians in town don't seem to mind a bit of body hair - and often don't shave down there themselves.
 

DDavs

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With all due respect, these are paid service providers. I can understand expectations of good hygiene, but preferences such as body hair should not matter, nor should you worry about it. You’re not going to ask this girl to prom... you’re giving her $ for a service. Be clean and respectful and you will be fine.
 

Lady Vanessa

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Adequate hygiene and grooming should be each of our responsibilities. We should all know by now the term YMMV and they go hand in hand with that. I personally prefer seeing adult genitalia with well groomed pubes. Feel free to keep them, but one may get more mileage with their shaft shaved, scrotums, taint and anus coiffed neatly, or shaved as well.
 
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I prefer to be tidy and groomed and I think the ladies do too.
 

Just4fun00

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Adequate hygiene and grooming should be each of our responsibilities. We should all know by now the term YMMV and they go hand in hand with that. I personally prefer seeing adult genitalia with well groomed pubes. Feel free to keep them, but one may get more mileage with their shaft shaved, scrotums, taint and anus coiffed neatly, or shaved as well.
Thank you for weighing in on this. The above comments are helpful and appreciated the truthfulness of thought. But hearing from a SP really is helpful! I appreciate as a Newbie that my question was not to amateur for a reply. Cheers!
 

Just4fun00

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Hey Sweetheart,

I actually sincerely appreciate this question as some men dont seem to place a value on our preferences, its always nice to see the next generation of pooners coming in much more respectful and willing to see their new hobby as a privilege vs. a service of entitlement.

For me, its of no consequence if the service you desire doesnt include BLS, I however do enjoy spending quality time down there and if a suitor arrives well groomed theres no question that this girls going to play. Though I will, of course offer the same service for unshaved suitors as well, they will likely get less mileage.

I hope this helps, and again, thank you for coming into this hobby as a Sweetheart.
Thank you so much for these words. As a Newbie I was to be respectful. Yes I am paying but you are a person, not an object or a thing. It can be easy to look at you as what you owe me because I am paying but for me it just doesn’t seem right. If I want to be pleasured then I should look to make it as pleasant for you as for me. Your comments have been very helpful.
 

DDavs

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All good info for the newb for sure. However, I will have to gently push back that if you are making personal grooming decisions based on the preference of prostitutes, your priorities may need some consideration.
this may sound a bit harsh, and I amnot disregarding individual preference, mileage. What I am suggesting is that a guy should groom to whatever degree he is comfortable with and not make life decisions (this or others) based on the preference of an escort.
I personally groom as that is my preference. If a mp or sp appreciated it and I get a little more mileage, awesome. if, however, I were to groom for the sole purpose in the hope of pleasing an escort, maybe check my priorities. There are greater questions in life to ponder....
Per my original comment, be clean and respectful. These are (and should be) expected. If you feel the need to go over and above in an attempt to woo and escort, maybe dial it back a bit.
All that said, if you couldn’t give 2 shits one way or the other, groom it up and enjoy. Manscaped has a lawnmower 3.0 version. And once you shave your asshole, your farts sound hilarious (do this alone, not with a sp)
 
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Adog999

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Also new but it definitely would make sense to be well groomed, be if face or junk. Even if you're paying for their service, you def should expect even better mileage and a more enthusiastic partner if you put in the effort to keep them satisfied too. Remember you're prolly spending quite a lot for their service so I don't see what's the deal with not prepping for the part as well
 

Dabbles

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I always make sure I am well groomed down there and I am not a New Guy. ??. It is just being respectful and if it gets you better mileage then so much the better. Besides it kind of adds to the whole anticipation getting ready in the shower before heading out.
I would say many SPs comment positively when I am freshly groomed
 
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I've had girlfriends who encouraged me to grow beard, and ones that would have me wax my face if I would. There is some personal preference in terms of facial hair. I imagine there are some who only see escorts, and other who also see civilians. But in general, you are not just making choices for the escort. The choices you make will also apply to your interactions with civilians. How you present yourself, will also tell the girl the kind of experience you're after. It just makes sense that if you make it the experience better for the SP, and she enjoys herself more, you will get a better experience in return. There is only so much acting a person can do.
 

Bootyl

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It almost sounds like antimaskers infringing on their rights and all this talk about life decisions ? I definitely like to groom before seeing an SP or MP. I feel better about myself being clean and well groomed. I want the most action I can get with these beautiful women
 

Just4fun00

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Hmmm, I did not intend my question to generate a debate. Truly as a novice I was simply looking for some direction here. Certainly Alyssa Marie has provided some great pointers. But I have appreciated all the comments that have been made. Not I will need to decide, what will I do? Shave or not shave?...that is the personal question for me!
 
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