To many choices and I'm lost in a sea of tasty treats

[CheeseBurgers]

So im posting this more as a vent. Im sure more then one of you guys have gone down this road where you may have had a fav girl to see and knew her and she knew you. Both get one another was looking for and all was happy in the end.

Now the one I enjoyed seeing and spend a fare chunk of change to see is gone and now I'm left to pick a new one and it's damn hard. I know what I want but am I going to find someone I click with blah blah blah and all that.

If it was a couple years ago shooting into the dark was easy but with a few more bills to pay extra cash is hard to just throw into the wind and hope I get a great girl that I will gladly spend 6 or 7 bills with.

So more of a rant just to many choices and with my friend that moved away who I could talk to about pooning as he does the same im left banging my head against a wall lol.

Any suggestions on a lady that enjoys more then just a romp?

 

[Pillowtalk]

If you were to mention who was the ATF, people would have a much better idea of your preferences. Also, don't expect rapture on a first appt, builds up over time like with your reg.

 

[CheeseBurgers]

I can see what you are both saying.

Well what be added I'm looking more for time spent togther over a romp. Kissing holding one another talking about life in general. As a single guy (which I enjoy) I still need more then someone to get off with every once in awhile. The feel and touch of a lady does much for me aswell as there thoughts and opinions on life in general.

What I'm looking for is girl between 19 to 29 that enjoys a gfe time togther does not mind to talk and has something to talk about. I do understand it takes time and I know I lucked out on my last ATF as for what ever reason we clicked on our first date togther. She knew more then the average girl would know about me and I knew a lil more then the normal client would know aswell. Not saying I expect that again but would like the idea and feeling.

Looks are important too as I could have spent hours just looking into her eyes and I would be so satitisfied untill the next time I saw her. It's going to be hard like I said couple years ago I would just start shooting into the dark as extra cash was around now it's a lil more important not to just burn threw a couple girls cash wise to find a click.

The more I think of it I may just be over thinking this to much but just to many awsome pics.

Thanks for the thoughts. I'm sure I'll find a click it just seems so far away as there are way to many great choices.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

i think you hit the nail right on the head, 'too many awesome pics'

i think with all the strip clubs closing down we've got a wave of really excellent looking babes that would normally only try thier hand at stripping, now trying their hand at escorting - and generally doing a piss-poor job of the escorting - can't do this, can't do that, sorry i don't kiss, THAT'S not safe!! i think you get the message, lol

and here you are in the middle of that trying to find a replacement for an atf

good luck... i mean it, i wish you luck

 

[old pooner]

I know where you're coming from. Anya retired last year and after 4 years with her, I was kind of lost for awhile. I thought I was going to pick Chanelle, but decided to keep trying out a few more girls. Then I met Janis a few months ago. She is not only my new regular, she has quickly become my ATF.

 

[CheeseBurgers]

Thanks for thoughts fellas I knew I was not the only one in this kind of jam. Hope I'll find someone that clicks well with me. It's going to be a hard choice as there are so many I hope I don't have to burn threw a bunch of cash before I find the right one.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

Thanks for thoughts fellas I knew I was not the only one in this kind of jam. Hope I'll find someone that clicks well with me. It's going to be a hard choice as there are so many I hope I don't have to burn threw a bunch of cash before I find the right one.

you'll probably be able to easily identify one or two who are acceptable as fill-ins until that glorious day arrives when you find your next atf

 

[Stew]

"easy to get along with"?

Once again, serious understatement in connection with you. I think you are wonderful to be around. Smart, warm, relaxing, calm, playful, astonishingly sexy...I could go on.

I don't want to toot my own horn but I am a great conversationalist and easy to get along with. Many would agree or vouch for me on this. Try me out

 

[Monet]

you fall in love with her....

"easy to get along with"?

Once again, serious understatement in connection with you. I think you are wonderful to be around. Smart, warm, relaxing, calm, playful, astonishingly sexy...I could go on.

 

[CheeseBurgers]

I thank you for tooting your horn but sadly I'd go broke fast if we clicked with your donations as they are out of reach for me.

Ideally 4 hours is what I look for with the 6 or 7 bills I have but few and far between so I try to find the best with what I have play with for atleast 3 hours

 

[storm rider]

I thank you for tooting your horn but sadly I'd go broke fast if we clicked with your donations as they are out of reach for me.

Ideally 4 hours is what I look for with the 6 or 7 bills I have but few and far between so I try to find the best with what I have play with for atleast 3 hours

Good luck in your search.....I think 3 hour sessions are bit odd and something I would not do.....I have only had that once and it was a 4 hour session....and it was free...because the gal cancelled 4 weeks in a row on a pre-arranged appointment at my home at very short notice and did this to make up for my massive 4 weeks of letdowns (though she did not leave empty handed)....after that night of enjoying that amount of time with that particular gal I became overly smitten with her and emotions got into play on my part...emotions should not have come into play but did......shortly after that I stopped seeing her.....I still lust for her and crave her companionship but I know I cant see her again.

Good luck with your search but dont get to close to the sun as your wings will get burned like Icarus.

SR

 

[vancity_cowboy]

...but dont get to close to the sun as your wings will get burned like Icarus.

it's the useless information cop here - Icarus had a set of wings made of wax and feathers, and was cautioned not to fly too close to the sun lest the wax in his wings melted. of course he ignored the caution, the wax melted, and he plunged to his death

but whatever... good advice anyway

 

[CheeseBurgers]

Good luck in your search.....I think 3 hour sessions are bit odd and something I would not do.....I have only had that once and it was a 4 hour session....and it was free...because the gal cancelled 4 weeks in a row on a pre-arranged appointment at my home at very short notice and did this to make up for my massive 4 weeks of letdowns (though she did not leave empty handed)....after that night of enjoying that amount of time with that particular gal I became overly smitten with her and emotions got into play on my part...emotions should not have come into play but did......shortly after that I stopped seeing her.....I still lust for her and crave her companionship but I know I cant see her again.

Good luck with your search but dont get to close to the sun as your wings will get burned like Icarus.

SR

Well to each there own. I enjoy time spent for long periods with the girls. Yes emotions can come into play but I easily shake them off. I understand the girl I see is there to make me feel happy. Even though I try my best to do the same as it's more fun and that's where the time comes into play. If I wanted a quick romp with nothing more then getting off there are a ton of well priced girls out there but it grows old for me from time to time so I like to find a girl I can click with enjoy her company and get more then a sweaty orgasim

 

[badbadboy]

Try a few ladies within your age, desirable body type, ethnicity if that's an issue and other desirable traits.

I suggest you ease you way into a longer session by starting with someone that meets your criteria. If and this is a big IF you develop a possible relationship that would work for greater than an hour outside the bedroom, great.

Personally I started with an hour max, then I found a select couple of SP's I wanted to see for 90 minutes which in turn developed into numerous overnights in hotels and then ultimately a four day holiday together.

There has to be chemistry in and out of the BR. If you can't have a conversation for four hours outside the BR with this person then that is a non starter IMHO.

 

[my5150]

I'm usually not a big poster, but given your post I do think you would enjoy time with Vanesssa.