Miss Mariposa I try to be patient but that is not one of my virtues. Beside after an hour or two of talking if she has not made a move what is a guy too do? I don't get it, do these SPs not realize that they could get more out of me if they play along vs the one time hit. Like Pamela Lee, I gave her over $1300 and she did not even take off her dress. Or Billionaris who I dumped $500 and I did not even get to touch her. No sex, no romance, no nothing but being patient. Please tell me they got money out of me but just think of Rio that got over $35,000 out of me over a 8 month period or the money Kimberly got out of me over the 8 years I saw her. Or Shelly who got a car house and cash out of me over the 5 years we were together. What are they thinking. Is romance that hard or seduction that difficult? Is that not easier to spend the night with me and going out for a romantic dinner and maybe spending the day at the spa or horse drawn carriageand going shopping than banging 12 different guys over a 12 hour period? Miss Mariposa please explain that to me.I agree with this post. I also have to wonder if session length has anything to do with the experiences he's had so far. Things can't 'progress naturally' in an hour usually, unless chemistry is already there.
I enjoy the art of seduction quite a bit, hence having a whole package devoted to it. Dickson I think maybe you just need to be patient and let the woman know up front what kind of a session you're looking for. Maybe even try booking with someone who seems to specialise in longer encounters.
Tired of SPs saying they know how to seduce or is it just me
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You bet I would ... like I said when we met you are an amazing man and if you looked in the mirror and saw what I saw you should think the same thing
I have my passport ready...lol...I will show what seduction is all about
VK
I think it's the mens version of a rape fantasy but not in a dominating way. Just to have a girl go for it and grab your cock first is unheard of with all the sp's i've seen. I suppose as strange as it sounds... maybe men want to be viewed like a "peice of meat" it sure would be a change of pace.
Oh my we better take this off line my dear. PM we can discuss in more detail.You bet I would ... like I said when we met you are an amazing man and if you looked in the mirror and saw what I saw you should think the same thing
I will show what seduction is all about
VK
For an innocentBoy you got a way with words. Personally I am not looking to be dominated I am wanting to be desired or wanted. No rape here but I do want the women to look at me and desire being with me. I really do not want to be take advantage of in any way shape or form.
Although InnocentBoy the idea of a lady being extreamly horny and having her begging me does turn me on. Good point.
Dickson, you sound like a nice guy, so I mean no offense here, but if you go back and read the whole thread from an outsider's perspective, you will see:
1. A guy that appears to be shitting money to spend on countless escorts, lavish gifts for them, and flying them to wherever for elaborate trysts.
2. A guy who, as at least one hot SP says in the thread, has an impressive cock and is humorous, interesting, well traveled, and good looking.
I don't know about you, but if these are problems, I'd love to have them. Speaking on behalf of those of us with a minuscule budget and a tiny penis, I think maybe your main "problem" here is lack of self-esteem and confidence. You think the ladies don't appear to "want" you, but clearly they do. So maybe you need to suck up your bottom lip and enunciate what you want and stop whining about it.
1. A guy that appears to be shitting money to spend on countless escorts, lavish gifts for them, and flying them to wherever for elaborate trysts.
2. A guy who, as at least one hot SP says in the thread, has an impressive cock and is humorous, interesting, well traveled, and good looking.
I don't know about you, but if these are problems, I'd love to have them. Speaking on behalf of those of us with a minuscule budget and a tiny penis, I think maybe your main "problem" here is lack of self-esteem and confidence. You think the ladies don't appear to "want" you, but clearly they do. So maybe you need to suck up your bottom lip and enunciate what you want and stop whining about it.
OK cbit thanks for letting me run into the tree. Maybe you are right. I don't see the trees for the forest. For some reason I just don't see it. But you are right. I just got to stop whining and go for it. Let it go. I appreciate the comments and advice.
I know what it really is that you want and I want and probably most people .. We want some one to love us .. just the way we are .. .That means .. that some one .. want to be with us ,, they call us up . want to meet up .. they call u or come over just because they miss us and need to be near .. That is the love we miss .. some one that does not need to be payed to see us .. some one who thinks of us all the time .. like we do about them . and you can't wait to be with them again .. in fact you will never want to leave them .. I know it would be obsessive and you would not get any work done .. But then that i s what love is and that is what we all are missing.. It not about who makes the first ,move ,, you just know what each other desires ..
I some time think i am close .. but "no" there is know one that only want me as much as i want them ....just has not happened
I some time think i am close .. but "no" there is know one that only want me as much as i want them ....just has not happened
haha But he has tons of cash and a huge cock! What else does he need? I'm sure he is just as surprised as I am that the ladies aren't falling over themselves to access both...I can't speak for the ladies you saw in the past, as I am not a swami
is not the most endearing thing to read. I understand what you are trying to say, and what you are offering - however assuming they "bang 12 different guys over a 12 hour period" may be seen as insulting by some providers and may explain why you aren't getting the experiences you desire.
I didn't mean it literally but more so that they desire you so much that they view you as a peice of meat. Hot chicks complain about guys viewing them this way, yet the most wealthy guy can't pay a girl to feel the same way about him lol. In my experience women dont get dripping wet from someone throwing money at them, as much as we like to think they do... it just doesn't work that way.
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Well said Elmore! Seduction doesn't happen just because the wallet demands it. It's a part of an intimate, real and caring relationship that can not be artificially constructed within the rules of escort involvement. I'm certain many of these women in their private lives are very well versed in the art of seduction, but when the meter is running it's a different matter. It's fantasy for the man and work for the woman. That's what it is Dickson, work...sorry, but I think that's what you are sensing throughout your experiences and no matter how professional the escort is, you will never capture that feeling that you seek if you are paying for sex. I think one is chasing the proverbial unicorn in this fantasy and it won't be until Dickson finds someone outside of the escort industry who is truly into him, that he will he ever experience real seduction.
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Well guys and gals this has been a very interesting post and I got a lot to take away with. Thanks to all of you.
So, Ya Wanna Feel Wanted, eh??
Nigerian Uroko Onoja was having sex with the youngest of his spouses when the remaining five are reported to have set upon him with knives and sticks - and demanded that he have sex with each of them too.
Mr Onoja went on to have intercourse with four of his wives in succession, but 'stopped breathing' as the fifth was making her way to the bed in Ogbadibo, according to Nigeria's Daily Post.
Two women have been arrested following the incident in the state of Benue last week, said the report, which used the term 'raped to death' to describe the businessman's fate.
Mr Onoja is understood to have returned from a bar in the small community of Ugbugbu, Ogbadibo, at around 3am on Tuesday, and headed for the bedroom of his youngest wife.
His five other wives - who were said to have held a meeting to discuss their intentions before their husband arrived home - are then alleged to have burst into the bedroom armed with knives and sticks to insist that they too be granted their conjugal rights.
The businessman, who has been described as a philanthropist who 'contributed positively' to the growth of his local community, is thought to have resisted the demands of his wives' before being overpowered.
Mr Onoja reportedly stopped breathing and could not be resuscitated after having sex with four of his wives in a row.
His youngest spouse is quoted as saying her five fellow wives ran into the forest when they realised their husband was dead.
The head of his village, Okpe Odoh, told the Daily Post the matter had been reported to police.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...ped-death-5-wives-paying-attention-sixth.html
A wealthy businessman - and husband of six - has died after allegedly being forced into a marathon sex session with his 'jealous' wives.
Nigerian Uroko Onoja was having sex with the youngest of his spouses when the remaining five are reported to have set upon him with knives and sticks - and demanded that he have sex with each of them too.
Mr Onoja went on to have intercourse with four of his wives in succession, but 'stopped breathing' as the fifth was making her way to the bed in Ogbadibo, according to Nigeria's Daily Post.
Two women have been arrested following the incident in the state of Benue last week, said the report, which used the term 'raped to death' to describe the businessman's fate.
Mr Onoja is understood to have returned from a bar in the small community of Ugbugbu, Ogbadibo, at around 3am on Tuesday, and headed for the bedroom of his youngest wife.
His five other wives - who were said to have held a meeting to discuss their intentions before their husband arrived home - are then alleged to have burst into the bedroom armed with knives and sticks to insist that they too be granted their conjugal rights.
The businessman, who has been described as a philanthropist who 'contributed positively' to the growth of his local community, is thought to have resisted the demands of his wives' before being overpowered.
Mr Onoja reportedly stopped breathing and could not be resuscitated after having sex with four of his wives in a row.
His youngest spouse is quoted as saying her five fellow wives ran into the forest when they realised their husband was dead.
The head of his village, Okpe Odoh, told the Daily Post the matter had been reported to police.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...ped-death-5-wives-paying-attention-sixth.html
Lower your expectations. Relax and let the session run it's course. Enjoy what is offered, rather than lament what is not (within reason of course). Repeat and build on the sp/client relationship, and not by throwing money at it to see if that gets better results, but by throwing good attitude at it. Altho your 'competition' dates are entertaining to read, it's clear it isn't getting the results you are looking for (seduction), and why would it? It is somewhat demeaning and demanding at the same time, dangling the carrot of the higher income if chosen? Really? This works for what you say here you are looking for? Rejecting two sps who 'lose", then maybe trying to set up second dates with them later on?
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just something to think about. Like I said, it's entertaining, but it isn't really fostering the kind of sessions that will give you what you ultimately say you are looking for.
You've received some pretty good advise from some of the ladies here already.
The chord that struck me is maybe your expectation of being seduced rather than seducing the lady maybe something that she is unaware of as one of your expectations? Most SP's are set up to be respectfully objectified by the client and are not really of a dominant nature where they are the ones making the first move IMHO.
Having said that, I have had some wonderful times with some of the ladies on this board and sometimes I was the one seduced. Sometimes, I never made it past the bathroom, or the kitchen or the living room couch etc etc. Not mechanical at all and it was really like a GFE makeout session with some very attractive women. Spontaneity is the key.
So like its been said already, keep the focus off the third leg of the tripod and make the $$$ a very small part of the whole package. Ease up and you may find what you are looking for in a date.
The chord that struck me is maybe your expectation of being seduced rather than seducing the lady maybe something that she is unaware of as one of your expectations? Most SP's are set up to be respectfully objectified by the client and are not really of a dominant nature where they are the ones making the first move IMHO.
Having said that, I have had some wonderful times with some of the ladies on this board and sometimes I was the one seduced. Sometimes, I never made it past the bathroom, or the kitchen or the living room couch etc etc. Not mechanical at all and it was really like a GFE makeout session with some very attractive women. Spontaneity is the key.
So like its been said already, keep the focus off the third leg of the tripod and make the $$$ a very small part of the whole package. Ease up and you may find what you are looking for in a date.
Flanders my man I tell you what I could use is a women to help spend my money and enjoy my huge cock. Just none out there interested. But as some one else pointed out having no personality is the killer.
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What a way to go. Ladies wanting to have sex with him. Dam I got to get back to Africa.
Pillow talk Elimadate is only one event. I do try and "date" SPs just ask Ashley Lawrence or Dr Kelly or Mia or Tayor Heaven on all night events including dinner to name just a few. As MM has suggested I like to pay the money up front and let the night go where it can. But seduction is such an art. Maybe I am not clear on what I am asking or as it is suggest here I am looking in the wrong place. The actresses are not out there that can make it happen. Or maybe as suggested it is me. I am not the kinda guy that ladies want to seduce. Big cock and big money can't buy it.
I never thought the Elimidate thing was degrading to anyone. Violet Blake was it degrading to you? That was not my intention. I have been thinking about doing a battle of the agencies in Toronto where is a ton of different agencies, (there is a lot of them), send me there best girl to compete with other agencies ladies ie a hot big breasted blonde who is well dress. Then I have the two or three girls compete for my affections for two hours. The sexiest one wins. Then that agency goes on to compete with another agency until we find the best agency in TO. Is that degrading?
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badbadboy who were the SPs that you had those make out sessions? I would like to see them. It might be that you are a real hunk to those ladies where I am older and past my prime. With you badbadboy they are saying he is hot I want a piece of him. with me they are thinking when can I get out of here. Big difference. Good for you. I wish I had your look.
