Tipping the toledos...

[diamondd5243]

That's messed up that people would say that HH. Don't you change a thing based on what someone else wants. The lifestyle change is awesome though - it can only do good things for you!!

 

[Larry Storch]

This pic reminds me of Emma Peel, and that is a good thing.

I dunno. I've been trying to place who she reminds me of, but just can't quite figure it out.

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The Avengers: A Touch of Brimstone. Not Aired in North America?

Full Episode

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Okay, I'm slightly obsessed.

 

[xo Heidi Hayes xo]

I dunno. I've been trying to place who she reminds me of, but just can't quite figure it out.

Emma Peel!? What a compliment! I have always regarded her as one of the all-time great beauties!

Though facially, I have most often been likened to these two women over the years (though it is a bit of a stretch, IMO)

 

[xo Heidi Hayes xo]

I don't post often but I feel compelled, mainly I think because Friday
(or because weight hits home for me as I've had issues with it myself all my life)

< soapbox >
I've never picked a girl based on a body type (I know most of you are already throwing popcorn and calling BS) but for me it's about the service offered. Over the years I've learned what I like and look/ask specifically for it. Do I look at an SP's pic? Of course I do, and will continue to, but I can make the same decision at the end of the day looking at a headshot (sadly 90% of providers avoid this for obvious reasons). At the end of the day ... or session as the case may be, when I walk out the door at the end of an encounter, it's the service received that puts that stupid grin on my face. I've seen a number of the girls that post here and many more that don't, not a single one of them was picked based on a body type and if compared would be very obvious. I could not come close to even imagining EVER starting an introduction let alone finalizing a date with a provider only to cancel later based on any such a thing as an issue with weight. As mentioned by another poster up there, it sounds more like a fall back excuse as there was never any intention of following through.

On the other side of the coin, recently I've been on a bit of a self imposed hiatus as I've gained a few myself in the last year and it had put a downward spin on my self esteem (especially when coupled with another major factor in my life I'm dealing with). I just recently I've decided to get back in the saddle (punning as lame as it is, totally intended) and have made some weekend arrangements. I used to tip the scales at just over 300 back in the day and had taken great effort to get myself down to about 180 a few years ago. Recent-ish circumstances have left me in such a way that sustained exercise is difficult at best (though I do play a very active sport). Long and short of it all is that I've decided that regardless of what how I feel about myself now, I'm still no where close to what I used to be and that's where I was when I started this hobby.

Think of it this way; if you've gained a couple of extra pounds then for the people that do pick based on body types you may lose some but you WILL gain others. Although I really don't think this is the case in what your dealing with here though. I wouldn't let it get you down and it's certainly something you shouldn't ever fixate on.
< /soapbox >

Thanks for sharing
I can certainly relate. Rapid weight-gain nearly took me right out of the industry at one time.
Though I am positive that there are countless lovely ladies out there who would absolutely love to get their hands on you, at any weight!
It seems that mutual courtesy, respect and attitude are paramount in SP/client relations - much more so than much of what we wear on the outside xoxo

 

[LADY-VIA]

its no stretch darling .. before I scrolled down and saw your post I googled pictures of lisa marie to put up here for you, and shes a very beautiful lady whos gone up and down the scale and always looks great to me !!

 

[xo Heidi Hayes xo]

its no stretch darling .. before I scrolled down and saw your post I googled pictures of lisa marie to put up here for you, and shes a very beautiful lady whos gone up and down the scale and always looks great to me !!

Why thank you, darling <3
When it comes to ladies bursting with inner beauty that rivals their own exquisite outer beauty?
That is you, in my books.
Keep shining xoxo

 

[LADY-VIA]

Awe !! You tickled my heart, thank you