Thanks a bunch for throwing down on this one, guys 'n dolls!
And I fully agree (and personally identify) with the general conceptions/sentiments that ya'all have shared.
To be honest, I had not anticipated such heartening, propitious responses!
I echo Erica and Miss Tanya's statements on 'ladies coming in to their own' as we continue to establish confidence and foster an increasingly stronger, more 'informed' sense of self as we proceed to vintage as exquisitely as we do
- That pivotal period when you are able (and thrilled) to 'meet yourself PRECISELY wherever you are at' physically - and totally rock it.
As for some of the criticism, scrutiny (and weight-related calls and texts I received)? I can't say that I was terribly surprised by any of it - or even all that offended.
More just confused as to why these guys were contacting me to begin with, when I clearly was not suited to their tastes :/
I have come to accept that at a certain price-point in this particular industry (particularly in my case having been a more slender 'provider' previously) it is just natural that one would be subject to scrutiny regarding weight (among a million other things!)
We all maintain our own personal preferences and at the end of the day - 'it is a buyer's market, after all'
On the topic of 'weighty' matters - about a month ago I was noticing that many of my gentlemen visitors (particularly longer evening dates) were bringing a fair bit of wine through my door and so I decided to take an indefinite hiatus from drinking.
Welp, I am pleasantly surprised to have shed 21 pounds (and counting) with such a minor adjustment to my lifestyle
I always assumed that the level of 'physical activity' associated with this vocation was magically balancing out what I only now realize was a considerable amount of empty calories...turns out I was wrong.
On the comments about these guys being time-wasters who had never intended to see me anyway? Thank you.
That had actually never occurred to me.
I know that it has been a common theme on threads of late, but it is beyond AWESOME to hear it reaffirmed how highly you gents regard service and attitude.
I have mentioned before, even for the pros, certain dates/clients can be a little intimidating for us at times (even though a good SP will likely never make this apparent to you) so this little tidbit is really quite helpful and appreciated.
Wiinky - I totally sympathize. If there is a specific body-type that appeals to you more exclusively, it could be awkward and difficult to navigate that space.
Though I imagine that simply 'mentioning weight' and the nature of the texts/calls that I was receiving are slightly different.
Ideally, I believe it is a completely reasonable expectation for a lady to offer adequate clarity around the relevant aspects of herself and her service, prior to booking a session.
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