Tipping Etiquette at Asian Massage Parlours...?

[mr69420]

Hey All !

Thought I would approach this topic (tipping Etiquette) I have pondered whenever I visit Asian Massage Parlours (AMP's)

So, when you are done with the massage part, and they ask you to "turn over" and they start asking you about "extras" and of course ymmv and some might offer more extra services than the next...

But anyways, the question is DO THEY REQUEST OR DEMAND YOU PAY THE MONEY FOR SAID EXTRA SERVICES FIRST ?? OR ARE THEY OKAY WITH YOU PAYING THEM THE "EXTRA $ TIP" AFTERWARDS??

I wondered, because I have had a few AMP's who asked me to give them the $$ first, others were okay with afterwards, while still in the room

There is one location, where they always go out to the front desk, while i am fully dressed again, to ask for the tip $ - in that case I wouldn't be surprised if some guys just walk out without giving the extra $ for tip hahaha

So anyways yeah, what are your experiences with paying the $ for extras, before the service happens, afterwards while still in room, or afterwards while fully dressed while about to walk out ??

curious to know
cheers
Mr69420

 

[foofer]

Always after. In room / out front depends on if they stay in the room while you're getting dressed. Never had one ask for the tip first. That would be a real boner killer. Even the room fee is usually paid with the tip.

 

[Stjamesfinder]

Hey All !

Thought I would approach this topic (tipping Etiquette) I have pondered whenever I visit Asian Massage Parlours (AMP's)

So, when you are done with the massage part, and they ask you to "turn over" and they start asking you about "extras" and of course ymmv and some might offer more extra services than the next...

But anyways, the question is DO THEY REQUEST OR DEMAND YOU PAY THE MONEY FOR SAID EXTRA SERVICES FIRST ?? OR ARE THEY OKAY WITH YOU PAYING THEM THE "EXTRA $ TIP" AFTERWARDS??

I wondered, because I have had a few AMP's who asked me to give them the $$ first, others were okay with afterwards, while still in the room

There is one location, where they always go out to the front desk, while i am fully dressed again, to ask for the tip $ - in that case I wouldn't be surprised if some guys just walk out without giving the extra $ for tip hahaha

So anyways yeah, what are your experiences with paying the $ for extras, before the service happens, afterwards while still in room, or afterwards while fully dressed while about to walk out ??

curious to know
cheers
Mr69420

Depending on the ones i saw, most of them (all are amps) will tell me to pay later after the service is done

most of the ones who ask me to pay first are the ones from a group, like when honeypot and studio is still active

 

[mr69420]

Always after. In room / out front depends on if they stay in the room while you're getting dressed. Never had one ask for the tip first. That would be a real boner killer. Even the room fee is usually paid with the tip.

wow, because for me, at a few different AMP's i have been to, they all ask me to give them the money beforehand

 

[mr69420]

Depending on the ones i saw, most of them (all are amps) will tell me to pay later after the service is done

most of the ones who ask me to pay first are the ones from a group, like when honeypot and studio is still active

interesting, some AMP's I have been to ask me to pay first

maybe it's the my look or could be my age (28). who knows, as always , ymmv

 

[Jethro Bodine]

I don't go to AMP"s but if I did they would tip me. Stay horny my friends.



Cheers
J

 

[rubintugger]

It totally depends on the format of AMP and their familiarity with you as a client. If you are "checking in" at the desk, either a walk in or appt, they will ask how long and get the room fee upfront.

The tip will be paid to the attendant, and depending again on the AMP and your familiarity with the attendant, the tip may be negotiated/paid up front, negotiated at the time of flip and either paid then or usually after (don't want to interrupt the flow by getting off the table and rummaging through your pockets), or already set and paid after.

Most of the time, I see attendants I am very familiar with at places I am well known at, so the entire transaction is paid for at the end. If I'm trying a new place or lady, I have no issue paying the room fee upfront, and negotiating on the flip, and have only once been asked to pay the tip before the service was given.

If you are paying with a card (really? who does this? why? points?), then I assume the room fee is paid up front with the machine, and your cash tip in the room.