I am not gonna lie, I love lillies too, they are so aromatic! Easter Lily is my favourite.
Nice gif, Poseidon!
Nice gif, Poseidon!
? Tipping becoming expected now in this industry or is it being added into the rates
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I honestly do not expect tips. If someone decides to tip, give me extra or give me a gift... I do not find it demeaning or inappropriateAs a relative newcomer to this scene, I have to ask: is this true? I certainly wouldn't want to offend Mistress if tipping is 'demeaning' or inappropriate. It hasn't been articulated to me so far. I do not feel it's anyone's business whether I do or don't, but if I do it's for all well-intentioned reasons.
It is a nice gesture. It is up to the individual (gentleman visitor) whether or not he wants to tip or not. I don't think that the majority of service providers are expecting to receive tips.I think that if you are in a restaurant, you should tip your server. They only make minimum wage and rely on their tips to get by. Most of them live off their tips.
Just my 2 cents
The day you 2 agree on anything is when,
So you were here the day the earth stood still, Poseidon...no wait....the earth just blew up in my face....really, really slowly....is there something wrong with my laptop......that was the slowest gif i have ever seen. oh now its working.... HA!!!!!!
Time to make the switch from coke to pot:
Coke = You are faster than reality.
Pot = Reality is faster than you.
I am already one step ahead of you......
WHOA DUDE!Now go and watch the gif again, I’ll bet it’s smoking by before you can even focus your eyes.
I agree... The thoughtfulness of a gift, or the pleasure of your company again is perfect.... I expect nothing, but appreciate everything ...
Well then lets thank Cami for keeping us on topic and giving us these words ^^^ nicely said Cami!
Btw, I just had to add that you had me at 737 words, intelligently and compassionately shared, on a topic very near and dear to me heart!
Thanks Dolly! Smoochies....
Well then lets thank Cami for keeping us on topic and giving us these words ^^^ nicely said Cami!
Lol! That's funny... I was having dinner with a couple of the ladies from this board the other night and an interesting question came about, one that I would love to get your guys's opinions on. When you bring a gift to a lady you have not met before, do you expect "extras" or something of the like? Or are you just giving the gift to be a gentleman, because you like the ritual of giving a gift to a beautiful lady, without expecting anything in return?
Tip a lot of money!!!! HA! Expect for the really old people who budget every dollar.
Good Question, Cami!!
Guys do you expect her to open it immediately so you can be thanked properly.
OR
do you hope she will set it aside and open it later. SO you two can enjoy more time together.
(Maybe this is a new topic,meh, we will see)
I would think that the client is hoping to make a positive connection with you with the hopes that it will make for a more enjoyable experience for the both of you. How you contribute to making that experience as good as you would like it to is most certainly up to you. If that means extras? That's up to the lady I suppose.
Right.... That's what I was thinking. Certainly, I always give my 100% effort but someone that went out of their way in an effort to please me may warm my heart, creating a more authentic connection, but certainly it would never be expected, or garner any better service than anyone else would receive..
Certainly not expected. But SPs are no different than any other service provider in any industry. I can't tell you how often a nice gift to a banker, lawyer or even hair stylist brings some great service in return and I think its only natural that some SPs go over and above sometimes due to a great gift (or tip) as well just because it is appreciated. However, I'm sure that it always depends on the gift as well...some are just "sweet", some are thoughtful, and some are fucking NIIIIIIIICE!! ;-)
