Tipping an SP? Does it make any sense?

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phreak

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We might expect this from a newbie, however, as a 7 year member, you should have learned long ago to use the Search function. It took me all of ten seconds to find out that since Jan. 16, 2004, there have been 29 threads with "tipping" in the title, of which 2 are not industry-related, so that leaves 27 threads on tipping in the sex industry. The latest one prior to this one was started on April 8, 2014. That poor horse turned to dust long ago.

Avery, I'm terribly sorry for not using the Search function in this particular case. I do use it all the time though when I search for a specific SP. Please, forgive me. It is absolutely inexcusable. I promise it will never happen again. :)
 

phreak

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Let's just imagine for a moment that both of us want to repeat with a certain SP.

My email is received and she says BBB, hmm generous, brought a small box of chocolate and a bottle of wine too.

Hmm phreak emailed me too. Not happy with the donation plus zero tip. Guess he wasn't a happy pooner.

Come on over BBB :nod:

lol

BBB, are you implying that I should be happy that a certain SP would be willing to have a session with me, and I need to go out of my way to ensure this will happen? How perverted is that?
 

Vitargo

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BBB, are you implying that I should be happy that a certain SP would be willing to have a session with me, and I need to go out of my way to ensure this will happen? How perverted is that?

Looks more like a scenario where an sp got a text or email from both of you at the same time- BBB being thoughtful and generous gave a tip or a small gift/ While she remember you didn't not tip and probably complained about her price- Therefore BBB pick would be a easy pick over you.

What made you start this thread? bad experience recently or just that your blowing all your money on pooning? Not like going on a date with a civilian is cheap either, just dinner at a nice restaurant with a couple drinks easily over $100; and then at the end of the night she says I don't fuck on the first date.


Yes they make a lot of money quickly, if you don't wanna support these girls then stop partaking in this hobby
 

Man in Submission

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I know it seem unheard of .. that some one wanot to pay more then what the girls are asking. .. but i allway do pay more . The tip is in the donation ..I have a price I will pay and that what I give them
I allway get it returned in better service .. and an o going friendship....So it pay to not be stingy .
This. I would feel weird giving a 'tip' after the session, and after already giving the donation. So give a little extra with the donation. But I guess everyone has their way of dealing with it.
 

BORKO

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Looks more like a scenario where an sp got a text or email from both of you at the same time- BBB being thoughtful and generous gave a tip or a small gift/ While she remember you didn't not tip and probably complained about her price- Therefore BBB pick would be a easy pick over you.

What made you start this thread? bad experience recently or just that your blowing all your money on pooning? Not like going on a date with a civilian is cheap either, just dinner at a nice restaurant with a couple drinks easily over $100; and then at the end of the night she says I don't fuck on the first date.


Yes they make a lot of money quickly, if you don't wanna support these girls then stop partaking in this hobby
Do a lot of girls you go out with say they don't fuck on the first date? If so, then I think there's your in... She's the one already thinking about fucking!
 

MissingOne

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I have to disagree, there are plenty of high end ladies who show their appreciation for good clients via extra time (which IS a tip since time is money) or by discounting sessions for regular clients who come back frequently, are on time, and are generally enjoyable...
Exactly what are you disagreeing with? I see nothing in what I wrote that in any way contradicts what you have written here.
 

1nitestan

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1: pooner complains about pricing
2: SP responds with list of expenses
3: brief inconclusive debate follows
4: pooner complains about Sps not paying taxes
5: SP insists they do
6: expensive SP may chime in with condescending comment about econo pooners
7: pooner may get irate, comment about SP job being easy and he had to go to school blah blah
8: thread locked after tempers rise
5a. Someone posts the clip from Reservoir Dogs about tipping.
 

phreak

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Read the post of yours I quoted, then re-read my post. I don't think you quite got what I was getting at...
OK, everything needs to be explained... :)

It is OK to tip a server: server doesn't run a business, server is paid unfair low wage, and it is not expected that servers would provide any discounts for clients on their own (though a business they work for can do that). Also restaurant business has quite low profit margin compare to selling sex, so I wouldn't even question no discounts for clients in this case.

It is not OK to tip an SP: they run their own highly profitable business with huge profit margin. Even those who work in micros are well paid. So discounts for repeat clients from SPs/Micros is not a big deal and may even increase their profitability in the long run (customer loyalty always does). But no discounts combined with outrageously high prices (given low average income of Vancouverites) and poor average level of services provided can be explained only by greediness and lack of common sense.
 

phreak

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I think you need to brush up on your reading comprehension. He's not implying anything like that (as far as I can tell.)

Let's put it this way -- if you were the sp he is theoretically speaking of, which client would you see if both were requesting to see you at the same time/date?
Why cares? I would just schedule a different time or simply go to another SP who is not so picky.
 

badbadboy

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Let's just imagine for a moment that both of us want to repeat with a certain SP.

My email is received and she says BBB, hmm generous, brought a small box of chocolate and a bottle of wine too.

Hmm phreak emailed me too. Not happy with the donation plus zero tip. Guess he wasn't a happy pooner.

Come on over BBB :nod:

lol
BBB, are you implying that I should be happy that a certain SP would be willing to have a session with me, and I need to go out of my way to ensure this will happen? How perverted is that?
I quoted myself so you could read my post again.

I was thinking hypothetically that if two guys were repeating with a certain SP with one pooner being generous while the other was not; it would probably be an easy choice for the SP to choose between the two if they wanted to see her at the same time/day.

Sure it's not mandatory to tip but I assure you that these small gestures are noticed and appreciated.
 

*emmanuelle

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It is not OK to tip an SP
Weeeeeeo weeeeeeo! It's the Tipping Police, here to tell you what's "OK" to do with your own money! :p

Jeez. Some men like to tip. Some men don't. You don't have to tip escorts if you don't want to. It's a free world.


outrageously high prices and poor average level of services
I see tonnes of great reviews on this board! If you're constantly getting poor service, there's a good chance that you're either:
1) not doing enough research.
2) coming into the session with such a terrible attitude that it makes it difficult for the SP to be nice to you.
 

sevenofnine

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I don't really look at it as tipping,
I look at is as what is she worth compared to other sp's or other experience's I have had,

Some sp's under value themselves. A pse sp I was a regular with was really low priced compared to other pse girls. And a lot better for that matter,
I split the difference between her and a higher priced pse escort, she told me nonsense she didn't want a tip, but I gave it to her anyway,

It works the other way to after being a long time client, and friends it didn't feel right any more paying her what I did, so it works both ways,
 

twoblues

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My only issue with tipping is that I feel uncomfortable giving money after-the-fact...if that makes sense. The whole white envelope thing can be masked / ignored at the beginning, but paying cash afterwards kind of makes the whole 'paying for companionship' thing rear its head again and can kill that fantasy of 'my hot girlfriend'.

If I have a good time with someone, I don't mind slipping in some extra in the envelope at the beginning, though...especially as sevenofnine said, if they are undervalued in my opinion.
 

phreak

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Do you think she deserves a tip? :)


"SHORT AND SWEET (15) - $160

HALF HOUR - $220

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no greek and safe play always!"
 

wilde

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Tipping an SP? Does it make any sense?

Yes, very much so providing said SP served me food and the service was decent!;)
 
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