Looking for some thoughts on this. Normally I'm not the guy to sleep with married women. However, if I know with certainty the husband is cheating, seeing escorts, etc... I feel all is fair game.
Thoughts?
Thoughts?
Thoughts on sleeping with married women
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My father had a girlfriend where he worked shift work with his colleagues except for her. After I left home to work, one of his colleagues apparently would come around to visit my mother. After my father died he still came around. I was back home by then but I didn't like him and he eventually left with his son and didn't come back.
When I was a young teenager, the first girl I kissed, her dad came home to find mom in bed with another man. He grabbed a shotgun and blew the guy's head off, then his own. Her mom and mine were friends, so they came to our house in a panic. I'll never forget the bone and blood and brains of her lover, still in her hair.
The guy seemed like a mild mannered fella; you'd have never guise he'd react how he did, but in matters of the heart... Doesn't matter if he's cheating, too.
I don't mess with married women.
The guy seemed like a mild mannered fella; you'd have never guise he'd react how he did, but in matters of the heart... Doesn't matter if he's cheating, too.
I don't mess with married women.
I have never had an issue with it regardless of her family situation. They have as many reasons to do this as men do in my experience. Usually it's a lack of intimacy with their SO like anyone else.
I don't think there is a problem sleeping with a married women.
Having coitus with one is a different story.
Having coitus with one is a different story.
I wouldn't want the emotional drama,
I hate fucking drama, especially the older I get,
that is the main reason why I see escorts.
the grease is some green on her coffee table,
not some lies, im leaving him he is an ass hole. etc etc etc,
a guy at work, shot his wife and himself,
she was fooling around,
so was he,
but he only cared that she was fucking someone else.
who told me, someone told me,
this guy found out his wife was sleeping around,
he got his gun and went looking for a week or so until he calmed down,
he was driving around with a gun on his jump seat,
his lawyer said he would get him off.
I dunno.
main reason, like I said the drama,
and I guess looking over my shoulder.
I hate fucking drama, especially the older I get,
that is the main reason why I see escorts.
the grease is some green on her coffee table,
not some lies, im leaving him he is an ass hole. etc etc etc,
a guy at work, shot his wife and himself,
she was fooling around,
so was he,
but he only cared that she was fucking someone else.
who told me, someone told me,
this guy found out his wife was sleeping around,
he got his gun and went looking for a week or so until he calmed down,
he was driving around with a gun on his jump seat,
his lawyer said he would get him off.
I dunno.
main reason, like I said the drama,
and I guess looking over my shoulder.
As a general personal rule, I wouldn't involve myself with married women for the same reason as anyone else: avoiding drama.
Unless it was in a Vegas/Resort setting, different zip-code, don't know anyone, all-inclusive access to the bar, and a lady wanting to forget who she is for an evening and doesn't care about your name.
Unless it was in a Vegas/Resort setting, different zip-code, don't know anyone, all-inclusive access to the bar, and a lady wanting to forget who she is for an evening and doesn't care about your name.
kinda like, messin around with married men..... yet it's safer to pay for discretion IMO there are risks in any game
another story
a guy at work was at a Christmas dinner a couple years ago,
everyone was there, grandparents kids aunts uncle you name it they were there,
as well as this guys brother.
a knock on the door right during supper,
some guy comes in and starts yelling at his brother,
why the hell are you fucking my wife, in the middle of their Christmas dinner.
but then there was this cute lady,
who would go up to some guy in a bar,
and just say lets go and fuck,
her husband was sleeping around that was her revenge
life leave me out of the drama
a guy at work was at a Christmas dinner a couple years ago,
everyone was there, grandparents kids aunts uncle you name it they were there,
as well as this guys brother.
a knock on the door right during supper,
some guy comes in and starts yelling at his brother,
why the hell are you fucking my wife, in the middle of their Christmas dinner.
but then there was this cute lady,
who would go up to some guy in a bar,
and just say lets go and fuck,
her husband was sleeping around that was her revenge
life leave me out of the drama
This is soo true... I rather spend money on SPs.. rather than free hookups with baggage. I have no time for drama in my life, no thx.
A few more pros on SPs IMO:
1. No emotional ties
2. Tons of fish to try
3. Discretion
4. Easier to hide from the wifey XD
5. You don't have to worry about explaining why you gatta go somewhere... Heck, most of the time I go during my lunch hour, or an "appointment" in the afternoon. Works great!
I banged a pretty Irish Milf going through a divorce.
Ran into her at a high school play ground where she was just relaxing near the Tennis court.
Got her number and next day she was at my place.
Made her come 8 times. Each time we took a little break we would just finish another half a bottle of wine (I had whole case from a home wine making shop) and then get back at it.
Incredible sex.
However, I feel like I won't bang anyone going through a divorce or some kind of 'hurt'.
They are just looking for a temporary fix and then have to face their own reality again (She started getting emotional after we were done).
If the husband is lingering in the picture somewhere, than it can be a deadly game (Uncertainty / Paranoia). Not worth the risk at all.
As most pointed out, drama is also usually attached in these situations but if there isn't or you can still find a way, I would say get your F**K on.
Our society (Humanity in general) is still stuck in the Middle Ages when it comes to sex. We need some SERIOUS evolution on this subject.
It's just a basic human need.
Enjoy it while you can.
So at the end of the day, it's up to you and what you want to do.
Don't play the game if you can't play the game.
PS: I said I won't bang anyone going through a divorce but I probably would. Actually I totally would.
Ran into her at a high school play ground where she was just relaxing near the Tennis court.
Got her number and next day she was at my place.
Made her come 8 times. Each time we took a little break we would just finish another half a bottle of wine (I had whole case from a home wine making shop) and then get back at it.
Incredible sex.
However, I feel like I won't bang anyone going through a divorce or some kind of 'hurt'.
They are just looking for a temporary fix and then have to face their own reality again (She started getting emotional after we were done).
If the husband is lingering in the picture somewhere, than it can be a deadly game (Uncertainty / Paranoia). Not worth the risk at all.
As most pointed out, drama is also usually attached in these situations but if there isn't or you can still find a way, I would say get your F**K on.
Our society (Humanity in general) is still stuck in the Middle Ages when it comes to sex. We need some SERIOUS evolution on this subject.
It's just a basic human need.
Enjoy it while you can.
So at the end of the day, it's up to you and what you want to do.
Don't play the game if you can't play the game.
PS: I said I won't bang anyone going through a divorce but I probably would. Actually I totally would.
Even though people going through a divorce are hurt, they know what they're doing when they chose to do you. It's like when people binge-eat as a way to cope with certain emotions, like anxiety, and then regret it the next day. There may be regret involved, or maybe they really needed that. To escape.
If I were even in such situation, I'd protect my identity, though. At least initially, because of the reasons you brought up. Maybe it's not over. Maybe the husband is still in the picture, etc.
As long as you're not using their situation to manipulate them into having sex, I don't see the harm in lending them a helping hand. Sex is too coupled with emotions. Sometimes sex just needs to be sex.
If I were even in such situation, I'd protect my identity, though. At least initially, because of the reasons you brought up. Maybe it's not over. Maybe the husband is still in the picture, etc.
As long as you're not using their situation to manipulate them into having sex, I don't see the harm in lending them a helping hand. Sex is too coupled with emotions. Sometimes sex just needs to be sex.
It's a moral compass sort of thing for me. I've been cheated on in the past, tried working it out but the trust was destroyed. Can't trust a cheater, I'd much rather be alone than be with someone that's going to cheat on you.
Nope,wont do it. My ex-wife did and it was the final nail in the coffin. Don't want to see it happen to anyone else,
