Thoughts on MSOG for one hour appointment....

[Insatiable Appetite]

Combine the OP's MSOG apprehension with skimping on the allotted time and you have yourself a real quandary.

The time issue arises because the lady buzzes in her client at a couple of minutes after the hour.(3 or 4) It may take him several more minutes to catch the elevator and make it to her door. (3 or 4) He takes a shower and she applies that time to the allotment. ( 5 to 8) She cuts the session off because that is how she does business and HIS TIME IS UP. ( 10)
In the scenario I list the time lost is between 21 and 26 minutes.

If you look at it in terms of cost to the client that services werent provided then you have ..... 240 to 300 hr girls are charging 4 to 5 dollars per minute. So 20 plus minutes of no service time at 4 to 5 bucks a minute.

If you look at it in terms of MSOG then maybe thats the 20 minute void where the missing shots go?

I know that I have been ushered out....entering the elevator short of the allotted time even though I hadnt entered the apartment until almost 15 late because of the ladies doing.

I have also been ushered out....entering the elevator short of the allotted time because I had arrived late ....my fault....but was not granted the extra time. ( went to the wrong building ) Why does she get to get the benefit if I am late and if she is late?

Not saying this is what always happens but if both the lady and the client arent on the same page with the time frame then the msog thing can come into play.

 

[paprides]

On the plus side. I do have quite a bit of fun, with quite a few of my clients, where the money factor is actually the bonus on top of everything else. I'm positive I'm not the only girl where at the end of the session can't help but giggle and think " I can't believe I got paid for that too & tipped !" Score and score

[/QUOTE]

Brava!
And privileged is the man that invokes those feelings in any woman.

 

[Caramel]

Combine the OP's MSOG apprehension with skimping on the allotted time and you have yourself a real quandary.

The time issue arises because the lady buzzes in her client at a couple of minutes after the hour.(3 or 4) It may take him several more minutes to catch the elevator and make it to her door. (3 or 4) He takes a shower and she applies that time to the allotment. ( 5 to 8) She cuts the session off because that is how she does business and HIS TIME IS UP. ( 10)
In the scenario I list the time lost is between 21 and 26 minutes.

If you look at it in terms of cost to the client that services werent provided then you have ..... 240 to 300 hr girls are charging 4 to 5 dollars per minute. So 20 plus minutes of no service time at 4 to 5 bucks a minute.

If you look at it in terms of MSOG then maybe thats the 20 minute void where the missing shots go?

I know that I have been ushered out....entering the elevator short of the allotted time even though I hadnt entered the apartment until almost 15 late because of the ladies doing.

I have also been ushered out....entering the elevator short of the allotted time because I had arrived late ....my fault....but was not granted the extra time. ( went to the wrong building ) Why does she get to get the benefit if I am late and if she is late?

Not saying this is what always happens but if both the lady and the client arent on the same page with the time frame then the msog thing can come into play.

no wonder you are kinda grumpy! meeting and thinking all SPs treat their clients that way! lol jokes...but seriously, timing the client before they even get to see his face? come on! Honestly no matter how much you may hate your job that day or feel crappy, its really not that hard to be nice to a stranger especially someone who is willing to give you money for your time instead of another SP. I see these types of complaints in reviews often and I wonder how these women can act this way, or maybe its just me and I'm not self entitled enough or have high self esteem that I treat others like peasants instead of guests.

IMO the clock starts as soon as the money has been paid. Shower time definitely included IMO, shower before arriving is sufficient enough for me but most guys prefer to shower in our homes and make a huge wet mess in the bathroom!

 

[Cami Parker]

There was a client I recently fired who ALWAYS wanted serious pse even though I clearly don't offer that. He had been seeing me for quite a while (years) so I always tried to make exceptions and do things I wasn't necessarily comfortable with because I wanted gim to be happy and he was always nice to me. In hind site, I shouldn't have allowed myself to be taken advantage of that way. It sucks when you're trying to be kind and accommodating and people see that and use the opportunity to milk it for all its worth. I agree with the OP that it made me feel really dirty and degraded every time

I always treat an SP like a person rather than an object.
I think many clients pay an SP and have the feeling that they own her for that period of time which is pathetic.

I agree 100% that porn style sex is not real and can be not very enjoyable to perform for both parties.
A great GFE blows away any PSE in my opinion.

As for msog during a session I would honestly prefer to climax once and enjoy it rather than to try and pop a second time during a session just for some type of male ego thing.

 

[Athenalust]

I dont offer Pse, and the rules are laid out before they even arrive, than during the sesion I get asked on many accounts for cim or greek. This makes what could be a good session to uncomfortable. As for Msog I dont offer it in my 30min session and hour I dont mind as long as it is mutually enjoyble ( I am not a raming post, as I like to say). I have at time taken away toy play because of clients feeling the need to be rough(but I do allow it if you are a gentlemen and respect I a human). I even allow 5-10 minutes over the tme to account for elevator time/shower time.
As many ladies have expressed the down side of the business, as we do provide a luxury service and put in a alot of time and energy to make sure everything is ready for the gentlemen to have a good experience.
I love the feeling that I have just made someones day better, or I just had a great time myself, and cant wait to see them again!! It makes my "job" that much better and worth it!!

 

[Cami Parker]

Ewwwww where are you shopping?!?

Whats with the guys making all that effort to get the SP to cum? You're probably her 3rd or 4th guy that day and by then not even Leonardo Dicaprio munching down there would have any effect. On top of that if you happen to be twice her age you may be deluding yourself if you believe she's enjoying any of it.
Best to just take care of business, get in and get out. Don't expect to rock her world.

 

[badbadboy]

There was a client I recently fired who ALWAYS wanted serious pse even though I clearly don't offer that. He had been seeing me for quite a while (years) so I always tried to make exceptions and do things I wasn't necessarily comfortable with because I wanted gim to be happy and he was always nice to me. In hind site, I shouldn't have allowed myself to be taken advantage of that way. It sucks when you're trying to be kind and accommodating and people see that and use the opportunity to milk it for all its worth. I agree with the OP that it made me feel really dirty and degraded every time

Would you agree that not posting a menu (sorry Cami I don't like it either ) or not discussing your feelings leads to this sort of behaviour with a long time regular? It's like over time, the boundaries get blurred somewhat and when one feels comfortable enough they make an assumption that you are cool with it too? I've seen a few regulars over four or five years now and in hindsight the dates I have with them now do not resemble anything like the first ones we had. Far from it.

Those who know me know I am not the type to push boundaries and tend to "go with the flow" of a date. Sometimes even I get surprised

 

[Insatiable Appetite]

no wonder you are kinda grumpy!

is my response "grumpy" because i disagree with this.....illogical post.....
you insult me and then AGREE WITH MY POINT to make an irrelevant point about yourself

meeting and thinking all SPs treat their clients that way! lol

no thats not what i wrote... i stated that some sps act this way, referenced 2 scenarios and how they might tie into the msog thing

Finally you state that you see the same thing I talk about on the review board "OFTEN", thereby negating what you claim I am guilty of and making all of your ad hominem arguments doubly void

I see these types of complaints in reviews often and I wonder how these women can act this way

Finally you talk about how you arent self entitled and how you dont act in the way that these women do.....So you are talking about the women I imagined acting in this way?......Are you bipolar? seriously wtf?

meeting and thinking all SPs treat their clients that way! lol jokes...but seriously, timing the client before they even get to see his face? come on! Honestly no matter how much you may hate your job that day or feel crappy, its really not that hard to be nice to a stranger especially someone who is willing to give you money for your time instead of another SP.

I see these types of complaints in reviews often and I wonder how these women can act this way, or maybe its just me and I'm not self entitled enough or have high self esteem that I treat others like peasants instead of guests.

IMO the clock starts as soon as the money has been paid. Shower time definitely included IMO, shower before arriving is sufficient enough for me but most guys prefer to shower in our homes and make a huge wet mess in the bathroom!

Next you talk about yourself and your claim as to how you treat your clients instead of discussing the MSOG Scenario i presented. Thanks for coming out Caramel.

 

[Cami Parker]

Haha in theory yes, but I was more than clear on several occasions, but at the end of the day I'm just a people pleaser. Lesson learned, I'm certainly not implying anything was forced on me!! Lol not at all, that's why I said in my original post that I take full responsibility and thus actually had absolutely nothing to do with the reason for the firing because if it had bothered me that much I would have walked away sooner for sure. It was just not something that I really enjoyed is more the point I guess, as opposed to some that I have great amazing sex with. Not everyone is going to love their job 100% of the time! but I wouldn't let myself keep on with it if I was that bothered lol sorry if I was unclear... And on a side note, I would/could never post a menu because I don't offer "services", I'm a companion and the things I do with each person varies greatly. There's no way I could put together a list that covers every need that every person has. Some people are barely interested in sex at all, if I'm honest. Don't get me wrong, i loooove a good time, but I guess I'm just not the "how much for a bj?" Type girl lol

Would you agree that not posting a menu (sorry Cami I don't like it either ) or not discussing your feelings leads to this sort of behaviour with a long time regular? It's like over time, the boundaries get blurred somewhat and when one feels comfortable enough they make an assumption that you are cool with it too? I've seen a few regulars over four or five years now and in hindsight the dates I have with them now do not resemble anything like the first ones we had. Far from it.

Those who know me know I am not the type to push boundaries and tend to "go with the flow" of a date. Sometimes even I get surprised

 

[erber]

To all of the lovely ladies who gladly offer msog, send me a message

 

[UhOh]

Ewwwww where are you shopping?!?

Haha, I was referring to what other people post on here. If I schedule an appointment I always try and make it late morning so I'm not the 3rd or 4th client that day. Just in case the "low volume provider" isn't as low volume as she pretends to be.
And I never go down on an SP. Don't get me wrong, I love to lick pussy but safety first and I'm not taking any unnecessary chances.

 

[PerbMod]

This thread has run it's course. Closing time before the flame wars get out of control