Thoughts in infidelity and would you sleep with a married person?

[Rusty razor]

Marriage shouldn't make one property. We don't care about the marital status of the gynecologist or vise versa, we don't care about the marital status of the doctor performing a prostate exam, or the neurologist, or the massage therapist, or even the spa worker. Sex is a health need and it's self care, and with consent it's all good.

I tend to think that sex is a physical need but intimacy is a mental health need. There’s a big difference between getting your nuts drained and affectionate touching cuddling, kissing etc.
Going to an MP and getting a tug doesn’t feel like cheating but having feelings for an SP does

 

[lukom]

I tend to think that sex is a physical need but intimacy is a mental health need. There’s a big difference between getting your nuts drained and affectionate touching cuddling, kissing etc.
Going to an MP and getting a tug doesn’t feel like cheating but having feelings for an SP does

You need to be able to separate the feelings from the pleasure, you don't get feelings from getting aroused by a prostate exam or the urologist.

 

[Rusty razor]

You need to be able to separate the feelings from the pleasure, you don't get feelings from getting aroused by a prostate exam or the urologist.

Find me a good looking female urologist and I might

 

[charlesbliss001]

As far as me committing infidelity, those thoughts cross my mind but they go just as quickly. I don't think I'm wired in that way; but maybe it'll change in the future. Often, I do my best to be patient; but let them know that if they start to test that patience, I do have options and will walk away.

Would I sleep with a married person? A fair few of the SPs I frequented were married; so that's one way to go about it. But a lot of attached people just want to feel a rush to break the monotony. Or just feel appreciated in the physical sense. These are the most common justifications I heard. Most, if not all of those I met, still love their partners and are just looking to fill that gap.

 

[RalphiEboy]

Excellent answer Charles 🌟

 

[angry anderson]

Yes. But 2 of them are happily married.

 

[RalphiEboy]

hahaha 🤣

 

[Kissmepassionately]

Since some people wouldn't tell you if they are married, you all may have slept with a married person, and not known.
Women can be very sneaky about it, and I am certain that men are to.

 

[RalphiEboy]

I wouldn’t do it however that’s just me… 🤷🏻‍♀️

 

[sybian]

Yeah I’ll take a hard pass on that!
around here ….in the sticks, and in the neighborhood of the gravel crunchers, screwing with another man’s wife, is a sure way of having that unfortunate hunting accident.

 

[RalphiEboy]

Yeah I’ll take a hard pass on that!
around here ….in the sticks, and in the neighborhood of the gravel crunchers, screwing with another man’s wife, is a sure way of having that unfortunate hunting accident.

Wise counsel my friend…! ! ! In the urban environment the equivalent is a drive by shooting 😉

 

[sybian]

….and here all they have to say is “ Honestly your honor….I thought I saw antlers!”

 

[RalphiEboy]

….and here all they have to say is “ Honestly your honor….I thought I saw antlers!”

Deliverence
de de de de de 😂

 

[goalie000]

Been there done that, consenting adults!

 

[John Aston]

No doubt!

One lady I met hadn't had sex in 3 years and had only been with one guy, her husband.
We spent an afternoon together.
She managed to get 5 shots out me and a crazy amount for her.
She told me she should have brought a hand counter to remember how many!😁

😛 How does this come up in conversation? Was it someone you have known for a long time? Met at the bar?

 

[apl16]

😛 How does this come up in conversation? Was it someone you have known for a long time? Met at the bar?

I have a lot of random contact with people. I like to chat with people while waiting for appointments or in lineups. I have some online presence.
People seem to be comfortable randomly chatting with me in various situations.

This lady in particular I met online. After a number of emails back and forth discussing various things, we decided to have a coffee and things slowly evolved.
Being a respectful human being and a good listener goes a long way.

 

[John Aston]

I have a lot of random contact with people. I like to chat with people while waiting for appointments or in lineups. I have some online presence.
People seem to be comfortable randomly chatting with me in various situations.

This lady in particular I met online. After a number of emails back and forth discussing various things, we decided to have a coffee and things slowly evolved.
Being a respectful human being and a good listener goes a long way.

You mean on a dating/meeting website?

 

[apl16]

You mean on a dating/meeting website?

I think it was on a chat site of some type.

I don't remember. It was a number of years ago now and check out various places if I'm bored in the evening.

Over the years I've met various ladies but old Craigslist personals is greatly missed

 

[Chuckerbie]

Just out of curiosity would you guys sleep with someone who is married? I’m sure the situations would vary quite the bit. What are your thoughts on infidelity?

Personally I’ve slept with married women, and don’t really care if they’re married or not. It was their decision to make that choice. Most of them have shitty partners with the exception of a couple that are swingers.

I’ve had sessions with SPs that had husbands and committed partners. So I guess the answer is an obvious YES. 😛