Thoughts in infidelity and would you sleep with a married person?

[To-lick]

Thanks for all your thoughts peeps, I guess my values aren’t the greatest in some ways lol.

I don’t really have a problem sleeping with married or women in committed relationships. The only exception is if they were my friends partners, I couldn’t do that to them. Otherwise it’s good to go.

I’m in a commited poly relationship and I regularly sleep with my colleague, she’s this feisty hot milf that has a shit husband (he sent a unsolicited dick pic to my best buddies wife at a work function)
We have fun at work quite a bit and at home sometimes. She loves it and her husband does not know, it’s also kinda fun to know that he’s getting sloppy seconds lol.

other than that I feel like it’s fair game if the other person is also interested. If they stumble for you…….then it wasn’t that strong to begin with.

I’ve been cheated on as well from a fiancé years and years back. I personally find poly to be far less complicated.

 

[badbadboy]

I’ve had a couple of affairs with local married women. I was married at the time so all of us had lots to lose. I got along well with both of them and these relationships lasted 10 and 6 years respectively.
Thinking about it, both enjoyed non-vanilla sex and one could really get off when we had sex in public. Doubled edged sword since I had to worry about getting caught being naked as well as she was quite vocal.

When the second affair ended with drama, I chose to see only escorts to uncomplicate my life. For the most part it’s been stress free.

 

[dickdoes]

Three men were having a drink. One asked what is the loudest sound you have ever heard? First guy said firing off a Howitzer. Second said the big guns on a battleship. Third said after grabbing my balls the click of opening his jack knife with his teeth. Be careful what you play with.

 

[angry anderson]

Three men were having a drink. One asked what is the loudest sound you have ever heard? First guy said firing off a Howitzer. Second said the big guns on a battleship. Third said after grabbing my balls the click of opening his jack knife with his teeth. Be careful what you play with.

so dickdoesn't?

 

[MuncherGalore]

I’m a happily married guy with a wife who has completely lost interest in sex. Zero, zilch, nada. Yet marriage isn’t •just• about sex, and I’m crazy in love with the rest of her.

I like to say…

if I was;
Handsome;
Charming;
Young;
Healthy;
Rich;
Single.

I’d be a gigolo!

My wife thinks that’s hilarious, but I have goals!

 

[johnnydepth]

I’m a happily married guy with a wife who has completely lost interest in sex. Zero, zilch, nada. Yet marriage isn’t •just• about sex, and I’m crazy in love with the rest of her.

I like to say…

if I was;
Handsome;
Charming;
Young;
Healthy;
Rich;
Single.

I’d be a gigolo!

My wife thinks that’s hilarious, but I have goals!

I've heard a lot of guys say their wife has lost interest in sex. I always wonder if they have no interest in sex or no interest in sex with their husband? A buddy of mine got that line from his wife about 2 years into their marriage. She told him she was fine with him dating or looking elsewhere but she had no interest in sex. Turns out she has plenty of interest, just not with him.

 

[Banged_Up]

To quote a great man…(my step-Dad).
”Suckin’ ain‘t fuckin’ and eatin’ ain’t cheatin’.

 

[masterpoonhunter]

To quote a great man…(my step-Dad).
”Suckin’ ain‘t fuckin’ and eatin’ ain’t cheatin’.

Sure that wasn't Bill Clinton? I did NOT have sex with that girl ....

 

[johnsmit]

I don't comment very often here anymore . I am seldom here.
But I just find this a hypocritical question and most of the answer. On one hand there are many men who are married going to see escorts. So escorts are seeing married men. And then the other side is that the men claim to be do niece that they say they dont see girls,who are married or in relationship.
Wow just think about it . You very seldom know that much about of the,girls,you see.
I know in my case I had seen a number of girls that were in relationship and infact I met their partners at some point while still seeing these girls .
I just saw as a choice the women made and that their partner accepted.

 

[BigCgaijin]

I have sex with a married couple several times a year and I met them about two years ago now. So depends on the marriage I guess. She likes threesomes and it turns him on to see his wife get banged. It's all good.

 

[johnsmit]

I don’t think people really know if the other person really is in a relationship/married. I’d be pretty uncomfortable meeting a SWer’s husband, wife, or boyfriend/girlfriend. There should be safe boundaries between client and SWer.

It just something that happens when you be come friends with a person you meet in the business. Yes it can be uncomfortable. But I put it aside because its the women I am attracted first I guess as a client and then as a friend when they left the business.
They could say at any time I dont want to see you and I guess through the years we all have got on with our lives and don't see each other that much any more . Still text.

 

[Real Sonny Burnett]

I would sleep with all of your wives. 😈

 

[angry anderson]

I would sleep with all of your wives. 😈

 

[thodisipagal]

I haven't slept with a married woman, but I'd happily sleep with married women.

I'm married and I've slept with SPs and non-SPs. I think I've slept with about 150 SPs.

I had an affair with a student 20 years younger than me; I had sex with her about 140 times. I also fucked one of the house maids about half-a-dozen times, who worked in my house.

 

[Asian Fever]

Just out of curiosity would you guys sleep with someone who is married?

Plenty of SPs are not single. I can guarantee that most of you already have, weather you know it or not. Monogamy isn't for everyone.

 

[thodisipagal]

Addendum (Haha... now this sounding a bit official):

I slept with an SP in Surrey who was pregnant. She said she wasn't married but was in a relationship with her BF from North Van. I asked if her BF knew about her extracurricular activity, she said he kind of knew. I saw her twice; once when pregnant and once before that. She was Dutch.

 

[Mr. J]

I would not go out of my way to sleep with someone that is married, though I am guilty of having slept with somebody in a relationship and found out when it was too late. The thought of causing that kind of strife is something I'd rather not have a hand in.

 

[white Ninja]

A couple years ago I met a woman on a dating app. She was in the process of getting a divorce on her cheating ex after of 15 years. She wanted to have fun and I was the lucky guy she chose. We hooked up several times until she decided she was done with fun and her divorce was finalized.

I did feel bad when we first met and found out she was still married but after hearing her side of the story I understood and just went with it.

men cheat to stay married, women cheat to divorce. In other words push things so far that they know they cant go back now.
you were just the push she needed to start a better life, good on ya.

 

[white Ninja]

I’ve met a couple of common-law married girls over the years who wanted to sleep with me. We all have our own value systems. Because I know mine would not allow me to sleep with someone who is living with another guy in good conscience, in both cases I told them both to give me a call if they ever split up. Both times to my surprise they broke up with their boyfriends pretty fast and came over to my place the next day lol. Because they were no longer in a relationship I was OK with sleeping with them then.

 

[RalphiEboy]

men cheat to stay married, women cheat to divorce. In other words push things so far that they know they cant go back now.
you were just the push she needed to start a better life, good on ya.

Wise Counsel 🏆