If you're actually curious about this a little bit of research will reveal 'Financial Domination' is a very real, very common fetish.
I won't bother going into too much detail as most people who read this on Perb will just be close-minded and judgmental.
For me personally, as a Pro Domme although I have researched this and have a basic understanding of it, Financial Domination is a skill I never mastered on a Professional level. Some Dommes are very skilled at it, I kind of sucked. Maybe because I'm too easy going and not that motivated by material wealth?
Those who like it like it a lot and I remind everyone to not be too quick to judge what turns someone on. Arousal is a very personal thing and different strokes for different folks. Thank god we're not all the same: how boring that would be.
Yeah, I'm not that good at it either. And a large percentage of those offering financial enslavement are wankers.
It's funny, as soon as I give them the (non-identifying) info to deposit to, I never hear from them again! I think a lot of folks get off the fantasy... and that's fine, just not on my time!
Great post ladies, and you are absolutely correct in your assessment.
I will admit that I have participated in this form of domination and it can send one into utter bliss and natural highs like one has never imagined, provided this form of domination is done by a true Domme that really knows what she is doing and knows how to run the show, as it were. It can be tremendously thrill seeking and also very dangerous (which just adds to the overall rush).
One does have to be very, very careful though as to how far the financial domination is taken, as obviously you can have your life literally ruined by it. Financial slavery can incorporate blackmail (technically due to law, it has to be "consenual", but it can become pretty hard to seperate fantasy and reality at times, especially when you sign a contract with the Domme that outlays the parameters of what all is involved and the degree of agreement you sign to) through personal info.
All the Domme needs to begin the "game" is a little bit of personal info about yourself (your name, address, phone number, your wife or girlfriend's name, address, number and/or her email address). Then tell the Domme something you want to be blackmailed about (a secret you don't want your girlfriend to know about) and often times this "game" of slavery is set up on a 1-year contract (or any time length you two agree to) and if you opt to back out before the one year is up, then there are penalties (usually having to pay a fee/fine).
Once the "game" begins, the Domme really does take over and runs the show, becasue once she gets your personal info & knows what to blackmail you against (not letting your girlfriend know some hidden secret about you), the Domme can then be like a spider and pull you further into her web by obtaining more and more info from you, which she can do because if you don't comply, she will just call your girlfriend and tell her your secret (or she can just tell her that you are seeing the Domme behind her (your girlfriend's) back).
The Domme can end up with access (and monitor) to your email accounts, passwords to various sites on the web you go to, credit card info (she would be added as a 2nd user), banking and financial info, she can force you to pay her a portion of your salary in which it is auto. deposited into her account (or she goes into your personal account and makes the transfers-again, she would be added to your account as a 2nd user), or a payment to her MUST be made by a certain time of the month), buys things with your money, she can set up an account/file about you (like a doctor's file) in which she tracks all email conversations, history, transactions (basically every move you make), she can force you to contact her at certain times of the day (or she calls you-sort of like checking in with you).
Basically, it is a game one plays where you end up being a total puppet and she is the master as you scramle and rush trying to prevent her from revealing the info she has gathered about you (which she will accumalate more and more over time) while you try to last for the set length of the contract to see if you can make it to the end.
Also what adds to the thrill is that as she obtains more and more info., you end up deeper and more at her mercy because she can eventually make you do pretty well anything she wants with all the info she has gathered, and when the contract expires, well she let it go, or continue to keep dominating you Where does it all end? Ultimately, it ends up being her decision in the very end...
It is a very hard feeling to describe, but if she is really good and knows what she is doing, she can cause you to have butterflies in your stomach day after day and make you as horny as hell from such all the rush she gives you!
For those who have experienced it from a Domme, you will know what I am referring to!
(I was interested in calling her to inquire as to her range of financial slavery, but I already know who that girl is. That is Jenna/Candy Licks, and I am not really attracted to her.)
