This hobby can get expensive at times...
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I guess it all depends on how much you make and how much you can afford to spend, just like you would in any hobby. For some, what you spent would seem expensive, for others, that could be 1-3 sessions in a week or so.
It is somewhat interesting the topic of $$$ came up in this other thread thread. As for myself, because I travel frequently, I won't be in town for weeks at a time. But, when I am back, I would have several sessions in a two weeks period. However, I am more of a massage person, so costs don't spike as drastically.
I think $300/month on average is not too bad.
You can also prioritize/budget ahead of time (I know it sounds a lot easier than actually doing it). Everyone has a different approach to spending, but the point is whether you think spending a certain amount of $$$ is worth it.
If you are really into seeing this girl for a few hours sessions, I guess it is worth it to cut down on other non-essential costs.
You can also prioritize/budget ahead of time (I know it sounds a lot easier than actually doing it). Everyone has a different approach to spending, but the point is whether you think spending a certain amount of $$$ is worth it.
If you are really into seeing this girl for a few hours sessions, I guess it is worth it to cut down on other non-essential costs.
It can get expensive if you don't set limits.
For me, I try to only have one session a month. About a year ago I would probably have had 3 sessions in a month.
Now, I would rather save some of that money and use it to hangout with my friends and create fond memories that we can look back at one day and laugh.
For me, I try to only have one session a month. About a year ago I would probably have had 3 sessions in a month.
Now, I would rather save some of that money and use it to hangout with my friends and create fond memories that we can look back at one day and laugh.
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"Now, I would rather save some of that money and use it to hangout with my friends and create fond memories that we can look back at one day and laugh."
Totally understand that one. I guess if I totally don't hang out with my friends, ditch my gf, and quit several other hobbies, I might not feel so pinched when pooning, but to me, those things/people are just as, if not more, important, so I'd never sacrifice them for this hobby.
"Now, I would rather save some of that money and use it to hangout with my friends and create fond memories that we can look back at one day and laugh."
Totally understand that one. I guess if I totally don't hang out with my friends, ditch my gf, and quit several other hobbies, I might not feel so pinched when pooning, but to me, those things/people are just as, if not more, important, so I'd never sacrifice them for this hobby.
I had a similar problem just like you. A few years back I spent over 3k monthly over 3 years. Finally I had to stop because my bank manager warned me that I was broke!:doh:
I used to be sooo stupid and naive when I was much younger before I got involved in this industry, my assumption for some reason was that all the men who do this are wealthy and didn't have a care in the world about the money, don't know where that idea came from, but its what I was hearing from the outside...boy was I in for a shock as soon as I found out the truth!! Most clients are just regular joes!
It must be the same as how a lot of guys probably thought only the hottest and most sexually experienced/trained women entered this business, but same thing, most women are just regular ladies and come in all shapes/sizes/skills.
It must be the same as how a lot of guys probably thought only the hottest and most sexually experienced/trained women entered this business, but same thing, most women are just regular ladies and come in all shapes/sizes/skills.
Sometimes I agree it can be expensive but then I realize that relative to some divorces, the hobby is dirt cheap.
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Friend signed off on divorce this week, it cost him $200,000.
That would be a lot of pooning.
Everyone has different cicumstances and different desires. I have no debt, no mortgage or car loan, so all my money could go to pooning. Years ago that would have been stupid of me, but my situation was different then.
Sometimes I ponder that now I can afford all I want, my craving is so much less. Maybe I only wanted things because I couldn't have them:the forbidden fruit analogy.
That would be a lot of pooning.
Everyone has different cicumstances and different desires. I have no debt, no mortgage or car loan, so all my money could go to pooning. Years ago that would have been stupid of me, but my situation was different then.
Sometimes I ponder that now I can afford all I want, my craving is so much less. Maybe I only wanted things because I couldn't have them:the forbidden fruit analogy.
Not to worry. Certainly I don't know your financial situation and it's all relative, but I know a lot of people who spend more than that in just an afternoon. As long as you are happy and having fun and it's not affecting your life negatively (like you're late on rent, or your personal relationships are being negatively affected, or eating ramen noodles for a week because you spent all your money on SP's) then I don't think you should worry about it. Maybe look at all the things you spend your money on and find something you enjoy less, and cut back in those areas.
Yes there we a few times I spent $1000 in a week
And maybe $2000 or more in a month..
In my sugar daddy /relationship in was $4000 a month or more ..plus payed for a car $8500...and $5000 a few time for other expenses. ..I really thought it was a relationship.��
I given out money after that to girls too .not that large amount and I knew exactly what the relationship was But saw the need too so never felt taken .
There is more to seeing SP'S then just that 1 hr or 2 for sex.. if your any kind of guy at all you see them just like any one else with a regular life , family and problems and needs like every one ..I just never found it possible to separate the two.. abd think only of my self and not others..
I know that many of the girls have to separate seeing us as clients .. from seeing us as friends .. it does make it awkward for them ..
I guess where I have a problem is .. If I see them as a client ..but also we are good friends.. I can never think I have a right to any services jyst because I give them money .. there is a guilt there about using a friendship.. All though I wish that was part of the friendship ��
And maybe $2000 or more in a month..
In my sugar daddy /relationship in was $4000 a month or more ..plus payed for a car $8500...and $5000 a few time for other expenses. ..I really thought it was a relationship.��
I given out money after that to girls too .not that large amount and I knew exactly what the relationship was But saw the need too so never felt taken .
There is more to seeing SP'S then just that 1 hr or 2 for sex.. if your any kind of guy at all you see them just like any one else with a regular life , family and problems and needs like every one ..I just never found it possible to separate the two.. abd think only of my self and not others..
I know that many of the girls have to separate seeing us as clients .. from seeing us as friends .. it does make it awkward for them ..
I guess where I have a problem is .. If I see them as a client ..but also we are good friends.. I can never think I have a right to any services jyst because I give them money .. there is a guilt there about using a friendship.. All though I wish that was part of the friendship ��
I definitely set a budget for the month and try stay within it.
I still however like to spoil myself and I have broken the piggy bank a few times but I absolutely deserve it. :nod:
I still however like to spoil myself and I have broken the piggy bank a few times but I absolutely deserve it. :nod:
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Expensive is relative, and it doesn't always mean money.
Set a concrete plan along with the budget for certain amount of time, like setting aside percentage of your disposable income, etc.
Be smart, take your time, take every step of it as a learning process.
Play within your own comfort, stay safe, and don't end up on the news.
Set a concrete plan along with the budget for certain amount of time, like setting aside percentage of your disposable income, etc.
Be smart, take your time, take every step of it as a learning process.
Play within your own comfort, stay safe, and don't end up on the news.
Just an observation, but if it seems expensive to you then it is expensive. I would not be doing it if I could not afford to be doing it. In fact five years ago, it would have been choosing between 2 or 3 bookings or a vacation. Also true is the fact, I don't know if I will be able to afford it in 1 or 2 years time, because I learned earlier in life, that economies change very quickly and having a job is never ever a guarantee.
Just my $20 - equivalent of two cents plus inflation
Just my $20 - equivalent of two cents plus inflation
Some great advice on here. The only thing that I can add is go with quality over quantity. In the long run, you will see a difference financially. Not putting any SP down, I'm just saying go with girls that make you happy rather than choosing ones just for the sake of it.
But so many girls have made me happy.... and how to repeat with all of them? LOL
