This client was too much...

FortunateOne

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Was this a Vancouver client? I do think there needs to be some way to share information confidentially with other companions regarding problem clientele.
As the ladies above said, this is a potential problem client and they should have a way of sharing that info. Neighbourhood watch if you don't have a separate area for sps to share info here. I would same the same thing about chronic no-shows and aggresive or rude clients. If sps don't have a forum here, then they can go to a place where they do and share the info there. If they are more informed, they are going to be a lot more comfortable and happy seeing the good ones who learn what NOT to do.

Always clear the clutter in the bathroom: no personal products, just communal ones. Pour out the mouthwash into a dixie cup...this lets him know you expect it to be used, too :D Don't leave anything around that you'd want strangers touching or messing with.
 

aznboi9

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Did it present a health risk? Possibly, though urine produced by healthy kidneys is in fact completely sterile.
Urine may be sterile; but the urinary tract is not. I would be worried about transmission of STDs like gonorrhea or chlamydia although the health nurse would know more on the specific risks of transmission from urine alone.
 

Thais

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Apr 29, 2006
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The fact that Mixinvixen has seen this client numerous times in the past, all without incident, suggests that he is, for the most part, a good client. He did not threaten nor cause harm to her. At worst, this was mischief or the manifestation of a relatively harmless fetish. I highly doubt it is the first step down a slippery slope of increasingly dangerous behaviour towards SPs.
But we don't know.
His action was completely unpredictable and indicates potential for instability. It has to be watched, and in order to be watched, any SP that deals with him should be aware of the incident. Otherwise, there is no way of knowing whether it was indeed an occasional incident or a pattern, and he simply knows well how to hide his tracks. I may be wrong, but don't many stalkers start out as wonderful regular clients?

Besides, to me no fetish that is imposed on another without consent is harmless. Neither is trying to make other people swallow your urine without asking for consent first. This is not mischief that a grown person capable of understanding and caring about consequences of his actions would do.

I am not in Vancouver so my risk of running into him is miniscule, but I do believe information like this should be discreetly shared between ladies for their safety.

Edited to add:
Besides, if mixinvixen did not discover it immediately, she'd have little way of knowing who did it. Then how do you continue seeing clients when one of them is capable of doing something like that and you don't know who? How do you investigate who did it? Is that not harm in itself?
That's speaking of consequences of actions.
 

Miss*Bijou

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Nov 9, 2006
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has seen this client numerous times in the past, all without incident

hmmm........ or was it really(without incident)?
I'd check all cupboards & medicine cabinet for any other possible surprises he might have left you on previous visit. :p lol
 

Creole Lady Marmalade

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Jodie said:
...has seen this client numerous times in the past, all without incident...
hmmm........ or was it really(without incident)?
I'd check all cupboards & medicine cabinet for any other possible surprises he might have left you on previous visit. :p lol
EXACTLY!!! Getting caught pee-handed doesn't necesssarily mean that that was an isolated incident.

Urine is gross however if he had done something worse using a not so sterile agent then what?
 

Jodie

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I feel his behavior demonstrates a lack of respect and judgment. Dangerous, maybe not, but unpredictable...

...This opinion comes from someone with a very open mind, who deals with fetishes and deviants every day. This guy is not 15 year old kid playing a prank on his sister. He's an adult in an escorts home. He's not balanced.
Besides, to me no fetish that is imposed on another without consent is harmless. Neither is trying to make other people swallow your urine without asking for consent first.
Points taken :) I understand why this incident is worthy of concern and now tend to agree that his information should be shared (very discreetly) among SPs. I still think CLM's response was somewhat over the top, though, given the relative harmlessness of the situation:

No SP, anyone, for that matter should ever entertain this guy... ...this is guy is invariably a criminal regardless of what personal items of your are tampered with his DNA could put you out of commission for whatever length of time or worse get a client ill and have you reported on PERB for having a little biological mishap.
 

littlejimbigher

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What a loser:( , i would have not let on that i found the mouthwash and the next time that mixinvixen seen him she should have gotten him in the 69 position with a full bladder and let him have it . ;)
Hell of a good idea.
 

mixinvixen

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Ferris I think u need to take another day off!

Shes made this sensational type story up knowing it will get lots of attention so that she can use it as a form of advertising without having to actually pay as it appears shes trolling for clients again.

If anyone has followed this wingnuts previous postings shes a raving lunatic and compulsive liar.
Anywayy..... I will not even go there with you. Not worth it. :rolleyes:

It's amazing how some people can be so negative but anywaysss..... getting back on track...
 

Pantherdash

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Apr 2, 2007
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I'm not entirely sure, but you might want to call the police on this one. It's a sick thing buddy did and just imagine if the guy has some kind of STD? I'm not a lawyer but this might qualify as an assault (or aggrevated assault) charge. Whatever the charge, this sick pooner did something criminal. Even if they just talk to him, two constables show up in an official line of inquiry, it's bound to make him shit his pants and hopefully prevent him from doing it to someone else.

Panther
 

Creole Lady Marmalade

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Jodie said:
...given the relative harmlessness of the situation.
I only hope that that was the only thing this client had done and nothing more serious with a reportable infection???

There is something that Ferris points out that's worth posting: I haven't received a PM from Mixinvixen or have seen a post in the Neighbourhood Watch about this guy has anyone else?...What gives?:confused:
 

mixinvixen

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Actually I DID give you a PM

I only hope that that was the only thing this client had done and nothing more serious with a reportable infection???

There is something that Ferris points out that's worth posting: I haven't received a PM from Mixinvixen or have seen a post in the Neighbourhood Watch about this guy has anyone else?...What gives?:confused:
I will send you another one try reading it this time.
 

mixinvixen

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I will let you know that it is a cell that he calls from with the last digits 0356. I will not be like other SP's and post numbers so the guy can be harrassed. I am here to warn people not cauase malice.

He is tall east indian, clean cut, str8 teeth, bad breath always and ponch belly otherwise slender. Very canadianised and looks and dresses respectable and classy.
 

Creole Lady Marmalade

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My my aren't we a little snippy

I will send you another one try reading it this time.
Actually, I just received the "second" PM you sent. The first one didn't materialize, if it was sent at all.

Thank you for the description, I will forward it along.
 

Leigh

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I've had a couple of jerks lately, I would love it if there was a thread for the ladies to avoid these guys... or at least make up their minds whether or not to deal with them. YMMV
 

Creole Lady Marmalade

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Important!!!

I've taken this issue up with a few agencies in the city, LE and human rights. It may fall under a hate crime though there needs to be more information on it under indoor sex work. So far most has been under outdoor sex work.

I'll keep you posted.
 
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