Things you want to hear...

[willingryan]

Hello everyone,

Yes, this is my first post. And yes I've been lurking for several months now. Everyone is right, if you use the search button effectively, I will bet 9 times of 10 you will find exactly what you are looking for.

I had an interesting thought and wanted to post it:

If you were out for dinner, and unbeknownst to her, your favorite sp was sitting with a friend directly behind you - what could she say candidly to her friend about you (or your time with her) that would be the best thing you could hear her say?
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I know in this hobby honesty is a bit of a fool's paradise.

To the other side, I was originally going to ask only the ladies here:

What is the best compliment you have ever paid to a client, that was the god's honest truth? ​

But I do realize how this may be mis-interpreted and could infringe on discretion.

I'm hoping to write my first couple reviews, coming soon.

 

[Avery]

It would depend entirely on whether the SP's friend is also a SP. If she isn't, the SP shoiuldn't even mention me at all. If she is, the nicest thing the SP could say is that her friend would enjoy seeing me because I'm respectful, clean and try to ensure my companion enjoys herself.

That, plus I have a gorgeous cock. ound:

 

[badbadboy]

Hello everyone,

Yes, this is my first post. And yes I've been lurking for several months now. Everyone is right, if you use the search button effectively, I will bet 9 times of 10 you will find exactly what you are looking for.

I had an interesting thought and wanted to post it:

If you were out for dinner, and unbeknownst to her, your favorite sp was sitting with a friend directly behind you - what could she say candidly to her friend about you (or your time with her) that would be the best thing you could hear her say?
​

I know in this hobby honesty is a bit of a fool's paradise.

To the other side, I was originally going to ask only the ladies here:

What is the best compliment you have ever paid to a client, that was the god's honest truth? ​

But I do realize how this may be mis-interpreted and could infringe on discretion.

I'm hoping to write my first couple reviews, coming soon.

I actually would prefer to hear nothing from anyone in this business.

I was having dinner with a client and was seated next to a Korean SP and an 80 yr old man. Very apparent that she was in the biz and all she did was tell her dinner companion was about her regular clients. She laughed and texted her clients while on this date. All I could think was thank God I am not one of her clients.

I guess the older guy paid to live his life through other's adventures. It was really quite embarrassing.

 

[badbadboy]

That's freaking horrible and beyond unprofessional

The really uncomfortable part was my client is definitely not the pooning type. I knew what she was saying and my client was asking for a translation i.e. BBBJ, CFS, MPOS, MSOG etc etc. I was like I think that one is .....

Unreal.

 

[willingryan]

This is essentially what I was asking...

It would depend entirely on whether the SP's friend is also a SP. If she isn't, the SP shoiuldn't even mention me at all. If she is, the nicest thing the SP could say is that her friend would enjoy seeing me because I'm respectful, clean and try to ensure my companion enjoys herself.

That, plus I have a gorgeous cock. ound:

This answer is definitely more inline with what I was trying to ask. I can see now how my post could be mis-understood. How about this:

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If you asked an ATF sp of yours for a recommendation to another sp, what would you hope she would say?

Is this less intrusive?

 

[PuntMeister]

Well Crap! Once again, Punt has a different take on this situation.

Firstly, Welcome to the wonderful world of Posting ryan! At least you didn't get flamed on your first post, so congrats. Looking forward to your first reviews.

Second, I wouldn't have a problem with an SP saying anything about me that has already been said on this forum, as long as she refers to me as either "Punt", "that stud-muffin Puntmeister", or "OMG! PUNT!" (complete with knowing curled lip, eyebrow, and toe contractions). Kidding! But using a real name would be very bad form.

Third, and to address the OP's curiosity directly, if such an event did happen, I would much prefer to hear positive characterists that makes someone a special human being, than anything to do with sex. ie: " He is such fun and free-spirited man", "I love his passion for life and creativity", "what a gentleman, he should run respect and romance classes". Yes, recognizing who I am and what I am about as a person would mean much more to me than affirmations about my humping technique (which probably needs a lot of work, so I just gotta keep on training) :eyebrows:

-Punt.

 

[willingryan]

Yes, PuntMeister - This is definitely what I was looking for!

 

[badbadboy]

Hello everyone,

Yes, this is my first post. And yes I've been lurking for several months now. Everyone is right, if you use the search button effectively, I will bet 9 times of 10 you will find exactly what you are looking for.

I had an interesting thought and wanted to post it:

If you were out for dinner, and unbeknownst to her, your favorite sp was sitting with a friend directly behind you - what could she say candidly to her friend about you (or your time with her) that would be the best thing you could hear her say?
​

I know in this hobby honesty is a bit of a fool's paradise.

To the other side, I was originally going to ask only the ladies here:

What is the best compliment you have ever paid to a client, that was the god's honest truth? ​

But I do realize how this may be mis-interpreted and could infringe on discretion.

I'm hoping to write my first couple reviews, coming soon.

I can't believe other Pooners have clued in about this original post yet.

One, nobody in their right mind wants a word spoken in public by an SP talking with her GF about you as a client. People pay for sex and the privacy that goes along with the payment, capiche? How is that so difficult?

Now if it's about references then you could have the prospective SP contact an existing SP about you in general terms. The existing SP may say he is a nice guy, immaculately groomed, on time, didn't overstay his welcome, discretely paid the correct donation and respected all the SP's boundaries. Anything related to excellent performance or the lack there of is totally unnecessary.

Remember this is a Review Board where we the Pooners review the SP's. Not Vice Verse. Too many Pooners see this as a platform to crow to the universe about the number of orgasms they provided during their tryst with the SP.

Frankly I am tired of these self reviews being posted by Pooners. Nobody gives a shit and it's a personal hobby where we have our own experience and not through someone else's deluded idea that we need to hear about how they were able to please a woman. That is superfluous information that should have stayed in a locker room when you were 18 not in your 40's or 50's. Grow up for fuck sakes.