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Things I have never done ...

LonelyGhost

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1. had a one night stand

2. knew that 'this was the one'!

3. loved someone who loved me back the same way.

4. had a best friend.

5. gone on a vacation.

6. heard my father tell me his is proud of anything i have ever done.

7. told my father that i am proud of him.

8. taken a course just because i liked the subject.

9. learnt to play any instrument but my own.

10. taken a chance ...
 

kehoe

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time to live man.
 

stryker

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It appears to me Lonely,,that you might be doing alittle soul searching right now and sound like your depressed,alot of the time something triggers thoughts like this,whats up bud?
 

LonelyGhost

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stryker said:
It appears to me Lonely,,that you might be doing alittle soul searching right now and sound like your depressed,alot of the time something triggers thoughts like this,whats up bud?
this time of year brings up three 'life event' anniversaries all within one week ... and then it is downhill to x-mas and that just reminds me off how my life didn't turn out and then i can get back to being just my normal miserable self again.
 

chuck1561

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LonelyGhost said:
... isn't that Mighty Mouse's motto?

she's as short as mighty mouse..hee hee (I'm gonna get it for that one) :D

see
same hieght ;)
 

Eden

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watching from the sidelines
Oh god, now I am stealing ad lib from a Musketeer? Yuck. How is this I may not be able to save the day, but in some small way I would like to try to make it a brighter one? In the sincerest way possible.
 

mr. ed

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I believe if you took # 10 and coupled it with a six month #5 all the rest of the list would fall into place. Time to look at life out of the box, and judging from the list you owe it to yourself. Good luck.
 

chuck1561

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Don't know if this is going to make sense LG but..

ok here goes..this may be corny but oh well .. my middle name..there is a country song by Tim McGraw that I've been listeing too lately..(not normally into country but).. I think the words say it all ;)


He said I was in my early forties
with a lot of life before me
when a moment came that stopped me on a dime
and I spent most of the next days
looking at the x-rays
Talking bout the options
and talking bout sweet time
I asked him when it sank in
that this might really be the real end
how's it hit you when you get that kinda news
man what'd you do

and he said
I went sky diving
I went Rocky Mountain climbing
I went 2.7 seconds on a bull named fumanchu
and I loved deeper and I spoke sweeter
and I gave forgiveness I'd been denying
and he said someday I hope you get the chance
to live like you were dying.

He said I was finally the husband
that most the time I wasn't
and I became a friend a friend would like to have
and all the sudden going fishin
wasn't such an imposition
and I went three times that year I lost my dad
well I finally read the good book
and I took a good long hard look
at what I'd do if I could do it all again

and then
I went sky diving
I went Rocky Mountain climbing
I went 2.7 seconds on a bull named fumanchu
and I loved deeper and I spoke sweeter
and I gave forgiveness I'd been denying
and he said someday I hope you get the chance
to live like you were dying.

Like tomorrow was a gift and you got eternity to think about
what'd you do with it what did you do with it
what did I do with it
what would I do with it?

Sky diving
I went Rocky Mountain climbing
I went 2.7 seconds on a bull named fumanchu
and then I loved deeper and I spoke sweeter
and I watched an eagle as it was flying
and he said someday I hope you get the chance
to live like you were dying.
 

stryker

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yoh Lonely,first of all..I'm old,and I would hope older than you,I've been through hell and back,and I'm not kidding,but the best advice I ever got was -live today like it was the last day of your life-I've been through divorce's,lost ones,loosing everything I worked for,addictions(still like my cigars and wine)I've lost friends and through all of that shit,I still make mistakes (i'm human)but what gets me through to the next day is,it's a NEW DAY,and I'm going to make the Damed best of it I can,,,,Life is too short my friend,,,,,friends will find friends,,,lovers will find lovers,,,try and be positive,be your self,and try and think of all the GOOD things that have happened in your life.
 

muffdiver

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Hey LG don't be too hard on yourself, when you wake up tomorrow start making goals for yourself. Put it out to the universe that you want things to change and it will start to change. This time of year is hard for a lot of people, try to think positive, we are here for ya .
 
Hey LG

Work on number 8 first. Interested or not, take a cooking course.

Just about every woman I know thinks a man who is a really good cook is sexy as hell. Maybe 2,3 and 4 will fall into place after that :)
 

chuck1561

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dakota30 said:
Hey LG

Work on number 8 first. Interested or not, take a cooking course.

Just about every woman I know thinks a man who is a really good cook is sexy as hell. Maybe 2,3 and 4 will fall into place after that :)
and to think all these years I've been going with KD and beans :p
 

dirk_dog

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Some of these you have more control over than others but you can influence all of them to some extent.

LonelyGhost said:
1. had a one night stand
THIS ONE YOU CAN DO WITH A LITTLE EFFORT.

2. knew that 'this was the one'!
DONT FORCE THIS ONE.

3. loved someone who loved me back the same way.
DONT FORCE THIS ONE EITHER.

4. had a best friend.
DONT FORCE THIS ONE. BUT THIS ONE STARTS WITH MAKING SOME GOOD FRIENDS FIRST. AND A FEW GOOD FRIENDS CAN BE BETTER THAN A BEST FRIEND.

5. gone on a vacation.
THIS ONE YOU HAVE COMPLETE CONTROL OF. FIND SOMETHING IN YOUR BUDGET AND GO.

6. heard my father tell me his is proud of anything i have ever done.
7. told my father that i am proud of him.
TRY TO DO SOMETHING TOGETHER THAT EACH OF YOU CAN BE PROUD OF ONEANOTHER.

8. taken a course just because i liked the subject.
THIS ONES EASY. PICK UP A COMMUNITY COLLEGE CATALOGUE AND FIND SOMETHING. OR EVEN A COURSE WITH YOUR LOCAL COMMUNITY CENTRE OR SCHOOL. LOTS OF OPTIONS.

9. learnt to play any instrument but my own.
FIND SOMETHING YOU LIKE AND GO FOR IT. ACCOUSTIC GUITAR IS A GOOD ONE THAT YOU MIGHT STICK WITH AFTER YOUR FIRST LESSONS ARE OVER.

10. taken a chance ...
BY DOING ANY OF THE ABOVE, IT SOUNDS LIKE YOUD BE TAKING A CHANCE.
 

LonelyGhost

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thanks everyone ...

i think its time to 'go' in more ways than one and am working to that end as we speak ... i am busy organizing my stuff to put in storage, give notice and hit the road ... this may take a little time to do, but it is a goal worth working towards.

as for the rest, the have greater and lessor importance at times ... but a change of scenery is in order.
 
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