Slowly we are coming together across the western provinces...SPs of every body type and description with one thing in common; a desire to join forces and use our sexual powers for the good of humankind. Possibly not so dramatic, but there is a place in this world for women who want to do this and also try to help and protect one another, because what does it take?
For myself, I smoke a little weed and have the odd Strongbow (once I had 4 in the same day and was sick for 3 days). I personally don't approve of cocaine, heroin, meth or anything so expensive, addictive and personality changing that it just changes who a person is. If you are into that and you aren't messing with me, it's your life. But not around me or in my place.
I know I have this kind of weird kind of semi-introverted pollyanna Aspergerish vibe going on, but I try to be honorable and decent. I like people for who they are inside, but admittedly when I hang out with adults I prefer the company of people who talk about life on a more analytical, intellectual and/or artistic level. The examined life type thing.
I've met the most incredibly brilliant people who have been walking around their whole life completely unaware of their own genius, and it such a beautiful thing to discover in a person.
Of course, I also have friends who are just really super nice as well, and more emotional IQ, or EQ geniuses. You know, the person you talk to for 5 minutes and life is suddenly grand again? They just have a way of putting things.
Knickers is both. So are a lot of people I've gotten to know directly through this.
The greatest and most difficult thing that has happened to a lot of us though is that we were born women. There are a whole host of things that go along with this, mostly the fact that the precious children some of us have must be our top priority. This limits our financial earning power in a conventional sense, especially when we are single, and this is multiplied by the number of dependents.
Taking these factors into account, and also looking at variables such as the cost and time involved in getting an education which will pay X per year vs. paying back student loans over x number of years...
So the woman with/without the dependents crunches numbers and comes to the unsurprising conclusion that having whatever personal maintenance is required to become attractive enough to be a professional escort pays better, and sooner, than the education.
Could also pay for an education if one so desires, or pay to support a burgeoning artist's career. There is a lot to be said for the benefits of professional escorting as a means to an end or even as an end in itself.
Life is not fair to everyone, and sometimes this means, as an example, that a lot of women on this board have much better boobs than my skinny self...so I may get boobs.
Anyways, it is what it is. Also many girls are in their 20's unlike me and others, which is what it is.
There's a place for everyone though, and yeesh, with so many guys seeing multiple escorts, why pretend like it aint so?
So I decide to refer clients to ladies, because this or this lady is nice and close by wherever you are and you like type whatever, so why not? No skin off my ass.
As has happened to me and other ladies, when these same "friends" you referred clients to start badmouthing the very person who referred them and undercuts prices of "friends" who they know are working at the same time, they aren't your friend, the client's friend, or anybody else's friend for that matter.
One other thing you never do is you never threaten to out other girls through local connections to get more business for yourself, you just don't. I know bitches be ganging up on another bitch's ass for less.
This shit just isn't cool. I mean, it's one thing to offer a special or poke fun at someone's ads, but come on now.
We all know this is legal. Some of us have gone so far as to make it a mission to make sure everyone else knows it too. But it doesn't make the shoulders any warmer at the supermarket line. It's like being the Susan Sarandon character in "The Witches of Eastwick".
There's enough room on the playing field for all of us if we all play fair and just try to be groovy with one another. No vindictive crazy shit is needed, or wanted.
So play nice
For myself, I smoke a little weed and have the odd Strongbow (once I had 4 in the same day and was sick for 3 days). I personally don't approve of cocaine, heroin, meth or anything so expensive, addictive and personality changing that it just changes who a person is. If you are into that and you aren't messing with me, it's your life. But not around me or in my place.
I know I have this kind of weird kind of semi-introverted pollyanna Aspergerish vibe going on, but I try to be honorable and decent. I like people for who they are inside, but admittedly when I hang out with adults I prefer the company of people who talk about life on a more analytical, intellectual and/or artistic level. The examined life type thing.
I've met the most incredibly brilliant people who have been walking around their whole life completely unaware of their own genius, and it such a beautiful thing to discover in a person.
Of course, I also have friends who are just really super nice as well, and more emotional IQ, or EQ geniuses. You know, the person you talk to for 5 minutes and life is suddenly grand again? They just have a way of putting things.
Knickers is both. So are a lot of people I've gotten to know directly through this.
The greatest and most difficult thing that has happened to a lot of us though is that we were born women. There are a whole host of things that go along with this, mostly the fact that the precious children some of us have must be our top priority. This limits our financial earning power in a conventional sense, especially when we are single, and this is multiplied by the number of dependents.
Taking these factors into account, and also looking at variables such as the cost and time involved in getting an education which will pay X per year vs. paying back student loans over x number of years...
So the woman with/without the dependents crunches numbers and comes to the unsurprising conclusion that having whatever personal maintenance is required to become attractive enough to be a professional escort pays better, and sooner, than the education.
Could also pay for an education if one so desires, or pay to support a burgeoning artist's career. There is a lot to be said for the benefits of professional escorting as a means to an end or even as an end in itself.
Life is not fair to everyone, and sometimes this means, as an example, that a lot of women on this board have much better boobs than my skinny self...so I may get boobs.
Anyways, it is what it is. Also many girls are in their 20's unlike me and others, which is what it is.
There's a place for everyone though, and yeesh, with so many guys seeing multiple escorts, why pretend like it aint so?
So I decide to refer clients to ladies, because this or this lady is nice and close by wherever you are and you like type whatever, so why not? No skin off my ass.
As has happened to me and other ladies, when these same "friends" you referred clients to start badmouthing the very person who referred them and undercuts prices of "friends" who they know are working at the same time, they aren't your friend, the client's friend, or anybody else's friend for that matter.
One other thing you never do is you never threaten to out other girls through local connections to get more business for yourself, you just don't. I know bitches be ganging up on another bitch's ass for less.
This shit just isn't cool. I mean, it's one thing to offer a special or poke fun at someone's ads, but come on now.
We all know this is legal. Some of us have gone so far as to make it a mission to make sure everyone else knows it too. But it doesn't make the shoulders any warmer at the supermarket line. It's like being the Susan Sarandon character in "The Witches of Eastwick".
There's enough room on the playing field for all of us if we all play fair and just try to be groovy with one another. No vindictive crazy shit is needed, or wanted.
So play nice
