The Theory Of Duos

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I am trying to justify a duo.

I understand seeing two naked women is visually stimulating, and I get fondling two naked women, and having them fondle you is probably somewhat nicer than one woman, but we only have one penis, and it can only go in one pussy, or one mouth at a time.

If I'm kissing one, while fucking, or being sucked by the other I'm not even sure I could appreciate each action.

I've read some descriptions of duo sessions, and it all sounds nice, but is it really that better, or is it mostly a mental thing where the fantasy and thought is more of a turn on than the actual physical sensations?

Has anyone been disappointed with a duo?
 

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Glad to hear I am not alone. I have had several over the years, but no interest in doing it again. Theory is way better than practice. Especially as I have gotten older, my attention needs to focus on one thing at a time. There's too much going on and I want to savor the experience, not get distracted. Also, with the overall market increase in rates for top talent, I'd much rather have two sessions one on one than a duo.
 

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I am trying to justify a duo.

I understand seeing two naked women is visually stimulating, and I get fondling two naked women, and having them fondle you is probably somewhat nicer than one woman, but we only have one penis, and it can only go in one pussy, or one mouth at a time.

If I'm kissing one, while fucking, or being sucked by the other I'm not even sure I could appreciate each action.

I've read some descriptions of duo sessions, and it all sounds nice, but is it really that better, or is it mostly a mental thing where the fantasy and thought is more of a turn on than the actual physical sensations?

Has anyone been disappointed with a duo?
Wouldn’t the better question for justifying be “Has anyone had a genuinely great experience? If so, who and why?” 😊
 
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I am trying to justify a duo.

I understand seeing two naked women is visually stimulating, and I get fondling two naked women, and having them fondle you is probably somewhat nicer than one woman, but we only have one penis, and it can only go in one pussy, or one mouth at a time.

If I'm kissing one, while fucking, or being sucked by the other I'm not even sure I could appreciate each action.

I've read some descriptions of duo sessions, and it all sounds nice, but is it really that better, or is it mostly a mental thing where the fantasy and thought is more of a turn on than the actual physical sensations?

Has anyone been disappointed with a duo?
It’s my first time and I’m looking to see if a duo works, wish me luck
 
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on another thread I mentioned I've had 3 duos each time with twins...not b's' twins like gets advertised here but the real deal jing jing, twins.
1 was so-so, another was Very Good and 1 was the absolute apex,acme,zenith,mountain-top of my *^&&)($%life!

I dunno if that means YMMV or if it's a case of to each his own?
 

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Wouldn’t the better question for justifying be “Has anyone had a genuinely great experience? If so, who and why?” 😊
I have had the pleasure of doing threesomes with two women and the key is to go in with a plan. As men you must take the lead while recognizing the importance of pleasuring them both so neither feel neglected or ignored.

Start with blowjobs from both and get them comfortable sharing saliva off your cock.

Then pick in your mind whom is the warmup and who you plan to bust in or on. You start on the first girl with whatever methods you choose. Fuck her or eat her out so well that she cums at least once and is satisfied to the point she will happily observe and play the supporting role for the girl you want to close with.

Rip that rubber off and get them both sucking that cock again to get super hard and ready for the next condom. Once you are confident that you are good to go, put new one on and finish in the other girl as you desire.

That’s how you succesfully navigate the two girl threesome to your satisfaction and for the two of them as well.
 
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I have had the pleasure of doing threesomes with two women and the key is to go in with a plan. As men you must take the lead while recognizing the importance of pleasuring them both so neither feel neglected or ignored.

Start with blowjobs from both and get them comfortable sharing saliva off your cock.

Then pick in your mind whom is the warmup and who you plan to bust in or on. You start on the first girl with the rubber that ensures longevity so you can maximize your fun. Fuck her so hard she cums at least once and is satisfied to the point she will happily observe and play the supporting role for the girl you want to close with.

Rip that rubber off and get them both sucking that cock again to get super hard and ready for the next condom. Once you are confident that you are good to go, put new one on and finish in the other girl as you desire.

That’s how you succesfully navigate the two girl threesome to your satisfaction and the two of them as well.
Thanks Captain obvious ;)

A had several duos over the years and all of them were amazing. I was on another level. I wish I had the opportunity to be with three or more girls at the time. But no such luck so far.
So really don't understand the OP and what is the issue here?

I guess it is all individual, we all like and want different things.
 
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Thanks Captain obvious ;)

A had several duos over the years and all of them were amazing. I was on another level. I with I had the opportunity to be with three or more girls at the time. But no such luck so far.
So really don't understand the OP and what is the issue here?

I guess it is all individual, we all like and want different things.
I would wager dollars to donuts if a SP chimes in, many men book it and go in with no plan or guidance. They expect the women to lead and fulfill their fantasy with limited effort.
 
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Has anyone been disappointed with a duo?
For what its worth, my 2bits:

Yes
and No

I've had more than a few over the years, half on the disappointing level, a few pretty good and a few really fucking awesome. I think a few things come to mind re what does not work well and what does work well. And all of them more or less are going to work to a degree - I mean as long as you aren't getting ripped off.

I don't think it matters if the two gals are going to interact with themselves, but what does matter is that they want to make this work, and you, are ready to absolutely go with the flow. I have had a couple over the years that stand out as mind blowing and both were on the spontaneous side, where all three of us surprised each other with the sheer volume of pheromones being blasted into the surrounding air. Nothing to do with the actual act, all to do with the sheer willingness to have great sex. The specific act(s) just take care of themselves.

What does not work? Any hesitation or lack of interest by any participant. The buzzkill is big and it can just end the whole thing.
 

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I think it depends on what you want in a threesome. What the SPs want to do too.

Is the action going to be FMF or MFF (the Middle one being the one being mostly concentrated on in the encounter) or MF, MF (what the male does to one Female, he does to the other Female).

Another thing to consider is the time factor, a threesome is gonna be more enjoyable the longer it lasts, cause you can do more things together. An hour is not long enough but 1.5 to 2 hours is better.

Another situation is where the 2 Females dominate the Male. Or it could be the where the Male dominates the Females.... Which brings the question are toys included.....

The thing is for a threesome to work out, you have to communicate your desires to the SPs. I like to see the women interact with each other, so the two SP have to be compatible with each other.
 

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A good threesome requires communication. Communicate what you want. Don’t be shy. A professional can create chemistry with just about anybody. Pick 2 ladies with good reputations who are comfortable naked and who genuinely like other women. Even if they’re not gay, making out is always fun. So pick laid back ladies that are just open minded and down to have a good time. Don’t worry about what to do while one is doing something else. And don’t worry about making one girl jealous. People can be odd but I highly doubt it if you’re gonna make a working girl jealous by paying more sexual attention to her friend or vise versa. I’ve done so many duos and some were fun and some were really awkward but none of them involved jealousy between the girls. If you want all the focus on you and they can’t play with each other, well then, that’s ok too. Just communicate it and go in with a laid back open minded and no matter what, you’ll have fun. There are so many options in a threesome. With the wrong people tho, they can be really awkward lol. So pick carefully and then explore 💕
 
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My experience with duos is that it's only fun if the girls are bi and into each other. Otherwise, i prefer playing one on one. Even then, I prefer a longer, deeper session with one girl at a time, than a shorter, less intense time with two.
 
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A good threesome requires communication. Communicate what you want. Don’t be shy. A professional can create chemistry with just about anybody. Pick 2 ladies with good reputations who are comfortable naked and who genuinely like other women. Even if they’re not gay, making out is always fun. So pick laid back ladies that are just open minded and down to have a good time. Don’t worry about what to do while one is doing something else. And don’t worry about making one girl jealous. People can be odd but I highly doubt it if you’re gonna make a working girl jealous by paying more sexual attention to her friend or vise versa. I’ve done so many duos and some were fun and some were really awkward but none of them involved jealousy between the girls. If you want all the focus on you and they can’t play with each other, well then, that’s ok too. Just communicate it and go in with a laid back open minded and no matter what, you’ll have fun. There are so many options in a threesome. With the wrong people tho, they can be really awkward lol. So pick carefully and then explore 💕
"I’ve done so many duos and some were fun and some were really awkward"

Any advice to avoid this?!? ^^^ Do guys requests things that end up ruining the mood?
 

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Another issue with duos involving escorts is having to change condoms when switching between partners. It really disrupts the flow and vibe of the experience.
That's a major difference between a duo with escorts and having a threesome with regular girls, I've never had to switch condoms during a threesome with civilian girls.
Before anyone gets upset or defensive, I get it, it's a health and safety precaution, and I understand why escorts follow that rule.

What really makes for a great duo experience is the chemistry and how comfortable the girls are with each other. You want to find SPs who are actual friends, not just duo partners, but that's pretty rare. And I dont mean this fake friend thing that alot of SP's are with eachother.
 

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Well you definitely have to change condoms when going from ass to pussy. The rule is a new condom for any new hole. That is just safe sex.

And I would be pretty sure that women don't want the used condom of her friend/threesome partner in her vagina either (as there is a transference risk here from one vagina to the other woman's vagina). Sure the condom on your dick protects yourself, but what about the women you are with? SP get check reg for STI and HIV, cause that is there business; how do you know the women you have threesomes with get checked on a regualar basis, you don't, unless you are pulling out your own latest check up.

Its not just about risk of HIV, it about the risk of STIs. In the last 20 years there has been a rise in STIs, and a lot of it deals with the people's attitude when it comes to using condoms, and practicing safe sex.

Today we live in a world where we almost eliminated smallpox, and other childhood diseases. But due to some idiots who do not believe in immunization, those diseases on now on the comeback. And it all has to do with the attitude of individuals. Look up Behaviour Science.

Another example of behaviour science, at work your employer has to provide you with safety glasses or respirators for dangerous chemicals/risk of flying objects; and you have to use these safety items. You go home and use your table saw, and don't use safety glasses. The individuals attitude is prime in these situations.
 
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