The Pooner's Dilemma

[tritonium]

I'm still kind of a young buck, so all this has been new to me. I consider myself extremely against cheating and swore off pooning when I got together with my current girl. We got into a huge fight a few weeks ago, she took all her stuff, was basically moved out. Just when I was about to go see an SP who looked really good, she called me and we made up. Ever since then though I've had this urge to go see that provider. I've been gooning and doing everything I can to get it out of my system, it's affecting my work. My girl is pretty, and she puts out at the drop of a hat. But man I am still struggling. Business has been really good lately, so a part of me thinks oh fuck it I can just fuck high end providers every week and still be up.

How do you guys manage it? Do you poon while in a relationship? Would you quit if you got a girlfriend? Should I just stop being a piece of shit and be happy I have a cute girl who loves me?

 

[carvesg]

I'm still kind of a young buck, so all this has been new to me. I consider myself extremely against cheating and swore off pooning when I got together with my current girl. We got into a huge fight a few weeks ago, she took all her stuff, was basically moved out. Just when I was about to go see a girl I was excited to go see she called me and we made up. Ever since then though I've had this urge to go see that provider. I've been gooning and doing everything I can to get it out of my system, it's affecting my work. My girl is pretty, and she puts out at the drop of a hat. But man I am still struggling. Business has been really good lately, so a part of me thinks oh fuck it I can just fuck high end providers every week and still be up.

How do you guys manage it? Do you poon while in a relationship? Would you quit if you got a girlfriend? Should I just stop being a piece of shit and be happy I have a cute girl who loves me?

I heard that the Jesuits and Franciscans are recruiting and have supposedly mastered the art of controlling the urge . Proceed with caution as there are a lot of misinformation out there ...😕🥴😉

 

[carvesg]

You tasted the forbidden fruit and it will be hard to stop yourself from having fantasies triggering the urge of easy access to satisfy those fantasies. Good luck
Keep busy

 

[John Aston]

I'm still kind of a young buck, so all this has been new to me. I consider myself extremely against cheating and swore off pooning when I got together with my current girl. We got into a huge fight a few weeks ago, she took all her stuff, was basically moved out. Just when I was about to go see an SP who looked really good, she called me and we made up. Ever since then though I've had this urge to go see that provider. I've been gooning and doing everything I can to get it out of my system, it's affecting my work. My girl is pretty, and she puts out at the drop of a hat. But man I am still struggling. Business has been really good lately, so a part of me thinks oh fuck it I can just fuck high end providers every week and still be up.

How do you guys manage it? Do you poon while in a relationship? Would you quit if you got a girlfriend? Should I just stop being a piece of shit and be happy I have a cute girl who loves me?

Dm me the name of the provider and I’ll tell you if you’re really missing something. Better yet, dm me the name and number of your girlfriend; I’ll keep her distracted while you are out getting your dick wet. Kidding, of course.

 

[VinVan]

I'm still kind of a young buck, so all this has been new to me. I consider myself extremely against cheating and swore off pooning when I got together with my current girl. We got into a huge fight a few weeks ago, she took all her stuff, was basically moved out. Just when I was about to go see an SP who looked really good, she called me and we made up. Ever since then though I've had this urge to go see that provider. I've been gooning and doing everything I can to get it out of my system, it's affecting my work. My girl is pretty, and she puts out at the drop of a hat. But man I am still struggling. Business has been really good lately, so a part of me thinks oh fuck it I can just fuck high end providers every week and still be up.

How do you guys manage it? Do you poon while in a relationship? Would you quit if you got a girlfriend? Should I just stop being a piece of shit and be happy I have a cute girl who loves me?

I guess it would help to have a little more info like did you see SPs at all historically so we know if you’ve already tasted the forbidden fruit.

If your GF does all your carnal bidding why not test the waters to see if she is interested in group play or polyamory.

One way to test the waters is the next time you’re going at it ask her to tell you about her fantasies cuz it will turn you on. If it’s anything related to another man or woman I would mine that vein.

Good luck.

 

[tritonium]

I guess it would help to have a little more info like did you see SPs at all historically so we know if you’ve already tasted the forbidden fruit.

If your GF does all your carnal bidding why not test the waters to see if she is interested in group play or polyamory.

One way to test the waters is the next time you’re going at it ask her to tell you about her fantasies cuz it will turn you on. If it’s anything related to another man or woman I would mine that vein.

Yeah I was seeing lots of SPs before we met. I had slowed down on it but was about once every couple months when we started dating and then I went cold turkey. I didn't have any urges until recently when I thought we were broken up and I was about to go satisfy those urges.


She's the most sheltered girl ever, we've talked a bit about poly and she's definitely not into it and neither am I to be honest (yes I know I'm being hypocritical, I'm thinking of pooning while in a monogamous situation). She's also very possessive and jealous.

 

[SSL Management]

Monogamy is a choice, perhaps a tradition, but it is not practised by all!

https://diemnewsletter.substack.com/p/why-are-we-monogamous

"In fewer than 10% of species it is common for two individuals to mate exclusively. While 15-29% of primates favor living together as couples, far fewer commit to monogamy as we know it. Interestingly, anthropological records indicate that approximately 85% of human societies have permitted men to have more than one wife, whether it was because a first wife had fertility issues or wealth allowed for multiple wives. A related but separate thought—I always wonder what women would have done if they made the rules all those centuries ago. Would they have wanted multiple husbands? "

SSL

 

[maverick2021]

I'm still kind of a young buck, so all this has been new to me. I consider myself extremely against cheating and swore off pooning when I got together with my current girl. We got into a huge fight a few weeks ago, she took all her stuff, was basically moved out. Just when I was about to go see an SP who looked really good, she called me and we made up. Ever since then though I've had this urge to go see that provider. I've been gooning and doing everything I can to get it out of my system, it's affecting my work. My girl is pretty, and she puts out at the drop of a hat. But man I am still struggling. Business has been really good lately, so a part of me thinks oh fuck it I can just fuck high end providers every week and still be up.

How do you guys manage it? Do you poon while in a relationship? Would you quit if you got a girlfriend? Should I just stop being a piece of shit and be happy I have a cute girl who loves me?

Get it out of your system and go do it. Otherwise, it will effect you mentally

 

[maniacalone]

Monogamy is a choice, perhaps a tradition, but it is not practised by all!
https://diemnewsletter.substack.com/p/why-are-we-monogamous
"In fewer than 10% of species it is common for two individuals to mate exclusively. While 15-29% of primates favor living together as couples, far fewer commit to monogamy as we know it. Interestingly, anthropological records indicate that approximately 85% of human societies have permitted men to have more than one wife, whether it was because a first wife had fertility issues or wealth allowed for multiple wives. A related but separate thought—I always wonder what women would have done if they made the rules all those centuries ago. Would they have wanted multiple husbands? "

SSL

If a woman had no need for protection and resources, I doubt they would take on one, let alone multiple husbands.

Women clearly have no interest in a patriarchal system nor the authority such a system has over their lives, bodies and choices. They simply choose to get married and deal with men because the benefits outweigh the costs.

If society were to eliminate all the legal imposed financial benefits of marriage that come to women (alimony and child support via divorce) our present day declining marriage rate would most likely fall to zero.

 

[maniacalone]

Yeah I was seeing lots of SPs before we met. I had slowed down on it but was about once every couple months when we started dating and then I went cold turkey. I didn't have any urges until recently when I thought we were broken up and I was about to go satisfy those urges.


She's the most sheltered girl ever, we've talked a bit about poly and she's definitely not into it and neither am I to be honest (yes I know I'm being hypocritical, I'm thinking of pooning while in a monogamous situation). She's also very possessive and jealous.

Her being possessive and jealous is reason enough not to do it. The drama and consequences you could face are not worth it.