I too have been following this discourse on pricing and potential increases. Just like all of us, I always appreciate being paid more and paying less for those things I desire. So sometimes this is not always compatible. But I also have a high expectation of the level of service I desire. As a result, I tend to try to find an compromise between the level of service and the associated expense.
I agree with many of the points being made by both hobbyists and provides. As both Trawler and Gabby mentioned I full agree it is the lady that is prime when I consider who I might see. I have been to many of the studios not because I wish to visit them all but rather because a lady in particular who I had met and fully enjoyed and appreciated had for one reason or another moved locations. The environment that the studio possesses is also a factor. All thing being equal, I would certainly prefer Supreme to Paradise or Kama Sutra.
I feel that I treat the ladies with a high level of respect. This happens in many ways. Since I travel from out of town, this is not a spur of the moment hobby. Appts are made in advance and I show up as promised and on time. I respect the ladies time by sticking to our agreed time frame. In the rare event that I am either early or late a courtesy phone call is made to deliver the news.
I will often make a request for the session. It might for a bauble to enjoy, a particular look or color, but only if it exists in her “bag”. If it does not we either move to something else or discuss the option of acquiring it. I have now bought one bauble three times at the same store. Good thing they do not recognize for the same thing.
When the request is first made, if significant, I will inquire as to the “tip”. I do not like to negotiate about it but rather think that if is stated it is my option to accept or decline. For my last two visits, in both cases, the amount was acceptable, was accepted, delivered, and a modest tip included. I am not a large tipper, by any means. Selfishly perhaps, I prefer to focus the reward on the mementoes and by being loyal, supportive of great service, and by returning as often as possible. That sometimes is manufacturing a reason to travel to Edmonton and arranging a visit with the favorite, sometimes weeks in advance.
As was declared by TOFFT and confirmed by Tiffany, (one of the twins?) I do appreciate being rewarded for making return visits. I do not look so much as to some discount although that is nice. But rather prefer to take the approach that something that might be considered an extra, be added in. I suppose one could say that is a discount of sorts. So be it. I do not like this approach of here is our full service price and now we get to the gravy of the extras and their cost. I know that I do not want to have to consider should I take that extra, or compromise the fantasy (because in reality that is what this is, a fantasy of some sort). I also am not overly fond of wild fluctuations in the tip once it has been established at some point in time. (I could care less about the 5 increase in room fee.)
I appreciate the concept of a standard for the tip, because I think that benefits both parties. The ladies know what to expect in providing the service and we know in accepting it. I think a valid benchmark already exists in the touring independents that visit both Calgary and Edmonton. Trawlers amount I think is close to that median. It would however, be hypocritical to visit Julia last week and accept her Edmonton GFE amount and then not provide that same amount for the same level of service to any of the ladies of Supreme. My observation is that any of these touring ladies establishes the boundaries of behavior and that anything else within those boundaries is for both to fully enjoy. Because I ask for black lingerie and garters and stocking has never constituted an extra charge.
I hope this is not construed as a rant but rather some comments about this sensitive issue to all.