The MILF Phenomenon ! Misperceived infatuation, or Just another Fantasy ?

[Mr Quim]

With Mother's Day, coming up in a few Weeks, this seems like a timely Topic for discussion ?

There seems to be, a never ending reference, to the term MILF on this Board . Whether it's in the 411, the Reviews, or here in the Lounge Section of the Board .

The Acronym, is pretty straight forward, by all accounts !
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/MILF

My interpretation: a Sexy Woman, that I know is a Mother, who I would definitely like to Fuck, given the right opportunity !

But, I seem to get the impression on this Board, that there are varying perceptions of this Term ?

I'm not sure, if there's an Age range, tied to referring to a MILF ? Potentially, a Mother could be anywhere from 16 to 66 ? Maybe the Term has just become convoluted, in its generalized use, in Mainstream Society ?

I'll assume, that the larger percentage of Women, entertaining in this Industry are Mothers ?
Can a Woman who isn't a Mother, be considered a MILF ? Or are People, just fantasizing She is, when referring to her as a MILF ?

Just thought, I'd throw it out there, for Discussion ?

Cheers

P.S. It may be a little early, but, to all the MILFs keeping Us enjoyably Entertained ! Happy Mother's Day !

 

[jamasianman]

I think what they want is that she is older and therefore has more experience. Having a child has nothing to do with it. There are providers who have had child and are younger, so technically she is a milf if you want to see her. But what I think most guys want is someone a bit older.they want the weird hot teacher fantasy, or the seduced by older woman fantasy. That's my theory.

 

[manni]

and here's to you Mrs Robinson.

 

[zigzag6984]

From the perspective of someone in their early 30s. . .

The term MILF was first coined in American Pie. For the older Millenials, Stifler's mom and the term MILF triggered a "new" sexual fetish. The impact of that film mainstreamed a "new" fetish. Like all terms, the term MILF has evolved to meaning a sexually attractive mature woman. This woman isn't a cougar, who chases younger men. A MILF is just an "older" sexy woman.

Furthermore, I find that women over 30 take much better care of themselves now than they did 20+ years ago. People my parents age looked old in their late 20s. Now, you have women in their late 40s who can pass for 25. That has also contributed to this fetish.

 

[tiger69]

Personally for me when I think MILF I'm thinking a sexy woman mature/old enough to be my friend's mom or even, okay disturbing I know, my mom. Not that I want to get it on with my mom, but for me that's the MILF age range. Being in my mid 30's, I'd not consider a woman milf if she's my age or younger no matter how sexy or how many kids she's got.

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

Jennifer Coolidge was 38 when she played Stiffler's Mom, for whom the term was coined. Mrs Robinson was the older woman in "The Graduate": the character was the mother of Dustin Hoffman's girlfriend. 1967, 36 year old Anne Bancroft was much younger than the character she was portraying: she was only 8 years older than Katherine Ross (who played her daughter) & only 6 years older than Dustin Hoffman.

I get asked to play the MILF role all the time: mom's best friend, best friend's mom, or girlfriend's mom/ mother in law are all common fantasy roleplay requests. For the record, I have no kids of my own.

 

[ParadiseChaser]

mom's best friend

Ha! I had no idea this was a turn on for me until I read it just now hahaha.

 

[felixthecat]

A plausible visual history of the term:
http://visual.ly/origins-term-milf

I'm more of a purist when it comes to the term Milf.

Part of the attraction, dating back to the pop culture origins of the term ( Mrs Robinson, Stifler's mom) was based on the taboo element if being attracted to one of your friends' mom's. Didn't really matter what age they were. ( I remember obsessing about a friend's 29 year old mom when I was 11).

I don't think it should apply to just any sexy older woman. I tend to employ the term Mature for that.

My understanding is similar.

The language changes though. There are references to younger mothers, e.g. celebrities, as MILFs on social media without the taboo element. If that usage prevails (I don't think it did yet), will have to accept the broader definition.

For LL ads, last time I checked MILF was used mostly in ads with posted ages in 30-45 range.

 

[ddcanz]

Personally for me when I think MILF I'm thinking a sexy woman mature/old enough to be my friend's mom or even, okay disturbing I know, my mom. Not that I want to get it on with my mom, but for me that's the MILF age range. Being in my mid 30's, I'd not consider a woman milf if she's my age or younger no matter how sexy or how many kids she's got.

I think a lot of guys have had- or maybe still do have?- fantasies about their own Moms. But I don't think this would be a MILF fantasy.

 

[carvesg]

I think a lot of guys have had- or maybe still do have?- fantasies about their own Moms. But I don't think this would be a MILF fantasy.

Woh ! I sure hope there are not a lot of those guys

Friend's mom , mom's friend and all the other type of relationship as long as it's not family .

 

[thodisipagal]

When I go to parties I see sexy moms; some in their mid to late 20s with toddlers, some in their 30s with school kids, and some in 40s with teens, and, heck, some even look great in their 50s. I sometimes fantasize about sneaking away to an empty room or washroom with one of them. But of course I'm a good boy, if with naughty mind, and I don't even so much as tease them or give them a silent lusty look.

To me, they are MILFs.

 

[Wolfman_jack]

From the perspective of someone in their early 30s. . .

The term MILF was first coined in American Pie. For the older Millenials, Stifler's mom and the term MILF triggered a "new" sexual fetish. The impact of that film mainstreamed a "new" fetish. Like all terms, the term MILF has evolved to meaning a sexually attractive mature woman. This woman isn't a cougar, who chases younger men. A MILF is just an "older" sexy woman.

Furthermore, I find that women over 30 take much better care of themselves now than they did 20+ years ago. People my parents age looked old in their late 20s. Now, you have women in their late 40s who can pass for 25. That has also contributed to this fetish.

MILF has been around for much longer than American Pie. I'm in the 40s and we were using MILF when I was in high school. The term when I learned it was in reference to the single mum in the neighbourhood that you wanted to get nasty with. So definitely associated with a mature woman/young man thing. Not dissimilar to the attraction of cougars I suppose.

 

[ddcanz]

MILF has been around for much longer than American Pie. I'm in the 40s and we were using MILF when I was in high school. The term when I learned it was in reference to the single mum in the neighbourhood that you wanted to get nasty with. So definitely associated with a mature woman/young man thing. Not dissimilar to the attraction of cougars I suppose.

Yup- we used this term in the late 80s early 90s- as well as Yummy-mommy.
Like so many other terms it has evolved over time into a catch-all phrase to suit many different tastes and views- like GFE! (eh, CrazedandAbused?)

 

[BaconNeggs]

For me it certainly means a person whom is a Mother.
13 or 93 years old, must be a mother.
Otherwise why use the name Mother as the first word.

 

[Mr Quim]

I prefer, not to Bump my own Thread, as it seems so vainglorious ?
But, in the name of Mothers everywhere !
A Man's got to Do, what a Man's got to Do ? LOL

To all the Mothers, in the MILF .

Hope You have a great Day !

And a big Thanks, for keeping our Worlds turning, in so many Respects !

Cheers

 

[submissive]

I think what they want is that she is older and therefore has more experience. Having a child has nothing to do with it. There are providers who have had child and are younger, so technically she is a milf if you want to see her. But what I think most guys want is someone a bit older.they want the weird hot teacher fantasy, or the seduced by older woman fantasy. That's my theory.

Ya! That's it for me!

 

[UhOh]

I think a lot of guys have had- or maybe still do have?- fantasies about their own Moms. But I don't think this would be a MILF fantasy.

I'd like to think anyone having such bizarre fantasies are either locked up or at least getting the proper medication to treat their illness.

For me the lady doesn't have to be an actual mother but I know a few women in their early 40's that would be near the top of my list for women I'd like to get it on with.