The Meet and Greet

[Cock Throppled]

Has anyone done a meet and greet with an SP, where you just meet to assess each other and nothing otherwise occurs?

I guess we could just do an assessment at the door and either stay or run, but I've always felt it was rude to just walk, unless it was an obvious lie about appearance or attitude.

Is a meet and greet at her incall, or somewhere else? Is it just to shake hands and ask about the weather, or is it over a coffee?

Is there a rate for this?

Anyone done it and not followed up with an appointment?

Anyone had an SP say she didn't want to book after a M & G?

 

[UhOh]

She'd have to pay for the use of the incall and what's in it for her? She could just continue booking as usual.
The review board process is likely as good as its going to get.

 

[oneoldone]

I have done this and found it to be quite an eye opener. I think we tend to forget the SP's are people just like us and can be very interesting in their own right. When I was younger it was always difficult to just have women as friends (because the hormones always seemed to be raging) so one day I counted how many male friends and how many female friends and the score did not impress they are after all half the human race. So I made an effort to try and correct the situation. The meet and greet could be called a continuation of those efforts so even if it did not lead to a later encounter the worst that can happen is you make a new friend.

 

[apl16]

I have more female friends. I like them better. They smell good��

 

[Cock Throppled]

Years ago a sex worker offered such a thing. I *think* it was a 15 minute sit down or something. She's long gone as far as I know. That said, I can't really see how this is beneficial to the SP? She'd likely end up getting a bunch of tire kickers or time wasters and in return get nothing for it. I could understand this working if you were entering some type of contract where you were going to see the woman on a regular basis as in a sugar daddy scenario otherwise no. If you are one of those males who would like to get to know your SP before you engage her, wouldn't it just make sense to book 30 minutes and explain why you're doing it? She might well accommodate your request.

The reason I asked is I noticed on a couple of SP's offering social time rates, which would be more like a traditional first date, or a meet and greet. Just wondered if anyone actually ever did it.

 

[johnsmit]

Personally I think it is the best thing to do
That why I like the parties that some of the agencies put on so you could get to know the girls. Also there was the time a group of us in victoria and I heard van had a few too .where a group of us on one other board would get together for game night or just a social..
We did manage to get a few girls out to these things .
And of goose they would get some woke from it .

I compensated for the meet and great when I was a driver for a few different agencies..I did end up seeing a few of the girl I drove..when it was mutually agreeable .

Today I need to know the girl be for I see them ..Just dropping in on some one new is too stressful.

The stramgbthing is , Some girls don't want to know their clients at all and rather not even have regulars because of the posiablev attachment issus.
Also I guess some get off on the anticipation of seeing new strangers all though I can't think thst is allways that present.

What I wish is that there wee more girl interacting on this board like there once was .
It helped to get a sense of what they are like and off ten they would pm with you .
I met a few that way in the early days (12 yrs ago)

 

[tiger69]

On the one hand, I do agree I too need to get to know the person to have a good session- this is why I tend to find a list of 5 ATFs and stick to that list forever lol- or at least till they start quitting or once in a blue moon if all 5 are busy and I really need action. But even then, most likely I'd wait till one of them becomes available rather than venturing out. It's ironic, but I'm actually quite "faithful" to my ATFs lol.
That said, I don't agree with the "social time" thing at all. Keep in mind I am both quite poor, and have quite a close circle of friends, so the idea of paying someone to talk to me or social with me simply doesn't appeal to me. I have no problem hanging out with SPs just like friends- in fact, any of the ladies on my ATF list I'd love to have a day out with them, but to me, if I got to pay for it, then it changes the whole nature of "just being friends."
If I want to hang out with someone, I can call my best pal David, or my bud Peter, etc etc and maybe the most I'll spend is money buying dinner for myself (we go dutch) and maybe a few rounds of beer. If I call a SP, I'd probably have to pay a hourly social rate, and then still buy dinner (for both of us), and drinks. No matter how I slice it, it doesn't make sense.
So the way I look at it is, for me at least, if it's business, then lets do business, if it's social, then there should be no business arrangement.

Say if Surrey Jewel suddenly call me on the phone and wants to go out for dinner (one can always dream), I'd say yes! HELL YES! but would I pay $100 per hour to take her out to that dinner? um...no.

 

[tiger69]

P.S- forgot this part.

"I think we tend to forget the SP's are people just like us." Nothing against that comment, but I've seen this kind of remark time and time again on here. "They are people too" "they're human like you and I" etc etc...
and it makes me wonder why there's a need to stress that. Are there people so crude or dumb that they don't know that SPs are human/people too?
I mean when I go to a restaurant to eat, I know the chef is human, people like you and I, but I generally don't feel the urge to stress that point, neither do I feel the need to hang out with the chef to find out how human he/she is. He cooks, I eat, I go home, he goes home, I have a life, he has a life, to me it's as simple and logical as that.

To me a SP is no more or less human than say, my dentist, or my favorite school teacher (in the case of Ms. Phoenix).

Well, actually there are times when I wonder if the dentist's human or an sadistic alien in disguise.

 

[Ashley Getsuoff]

Well this isn't a horrible idea at all. For me personally I do enjoy a connection. Mp's are kind of nice for this reason, pooners can always come in and say Hi!