the elecronic curse

[newatit]

I am getting fed up with cell phones and Ipads and texting and emails on them. Over the last few weeks, have had visits with gals who seem to spend more thime on them than doing their job, and today was the last straw. Invited an SP over for a couple of hours, at the end of hour one, I realized she had spent most of it setting up her next few days on the phone, texting, and emails. Rather than even undress, first priority was that electronic. This was the last straw. I told her I had to get her home quickly, rushed her out the door and drove her home. Paid nothing.

A few days before took an SP out for dinner, she put her cell phone on her lap, and as we ate and talked, her real attention was on dialogue being carried on electronically.

The other night, invited a different lady yet over, she came, got on cell phone, disappeared into the washroom repeatedly over the few hours here, with the cell again.

So have kicked one out now, won't see these others any too fast, and telling any new interests, to turn them off at the door or else.

Is this unreasonable?

Sorry Electronic was mis spelled.

 

[PlayfulAlex]

...telling any new interests, to turn them off at the door or else.

Is this unreasonable?

No offence to the ladies you encountered but, no, this isn't unreasonable at all. It should be a given, that all the attention should be on you, for the length of time that you've both agreed on. You are the paying customer. If they have to set up other dates, while they're with you, they might need to hire a receptionist or a telephone answering company.

This isn't like a waitress who's expected to serve multiple tables at one time! You, and only you, should exist for the one or two hours that you booked for.

 

[blueberrymuffin]

I rarely see that. Not sure which SPs you see. This forum has always helped me make the right choices.

Personally, that's pretty rude and insulting. Not to mention, a waste of time.

The ones that would move back and forth answering their phones, I never seen them again.

There's plenty of nice girls out there that give what you paid for.

 

[jnewton]

telling any new interests, to turn them off at the door or else.

Is this unreasonable?

Not at all unreasonable. I've only run into something like what you describe a couple of times and in each case, I politely asked that the phone be turned off. Sometimes it pisses the gal off, sometimes it doesn't. Anyone that gets pissed about it, that's the last time she has to worry about me asking her to turn the phone off.

Best experience I ever had with this problem was on an overnighter. It was thrown on at the last minute and she was scheduled to be available the next night and had posted an ad just before we discussed taking the trip. She had every reason to keep her phone running but instead, she turned it off at the start of the trip and the only time she turned it on was when I told her it was ok because I knew she would have messages because of her ad and her next day schedule. She worked the phone for a few minutes, turned it off, thanked me for letting her take the time to deal with her messages, and it was not on again for the rest of the trip. Classy, and a great attitude.

 

[sevenofnine]

Its dam rude for a lady to be texting or on the phone with another client while on your dime.
Dam rude.

The lady I see will take a phone call personal from family, but she is also very generous with her time.
Family and friends are a priorty right. So I don't mind that at all.
She has never once looked at the clock and said your time is up, when she has spent a minute or two on the phone with family.

But I have had ladies do just that, hussle my ass out the door as fast as they could while throughout the session constantly checking phone and computer and sending messages.

 

[badbadboy]

A few years ago mid session a SP got up to reply to texts three times and then actually answered an incoming call. Killed the mood entirely.

After the second text I asked if she would turn off the phone until after our appointment which she declined to do since "something important was happening". When the phone call came in, I got up got dressed and paid for the actual 30 minutes of play. I had booked for 90 minutes. She protested about the money and I said you should have turned off the phone because its just plain rude and unprofessional.

She has changed her name 3 X since I first saw her presumably because of the number of negative reviews started to effect her business.

 

[PlayfulAlex]

If you are seeing a lady who spend time on her phone then you are seeing the wrong ladies! The only time I have ever been on my phone in front of a client is if we are over on our time and I am checking in with security, and/or letting a friend know I will be late for whatever plans I have. Never during a session would I be texting or talking on the phone. Ridiculous.

Better known as...professionalism! :nod:

 

[PlayfulAlex]

mmmhmm! This goes well beyond cell phones... but I sense a blog about cell phones coming on....

http://vanesssav.wordpress.com/2012/02/04/sp-professionalism/

Nice blog post, Miss V...I concur 100%! :thumb:

 

[blazejowski]

... but I sense a blog about cell phones coming on....
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I wanna see a blog about that teeny tiny skirt you're wearing in your sig pic!
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