The delivery

[Privan]

First of all, prepare to be disappointed, this isn't a thread about your first thought on the topic.

Second, I've got two questions:

#1: Donations - how do you present them? I mean do you just take the money out of your wallet, use a plain envelope, a card of some sort, or just role up a truck full of hay and tell them it's wrapped around the needle?

#2: Voice mail - If you call up a provider and get their voice mail, what kind of message do you leave? Something like "Hi, I'm (name), and I'd love to meet with you, my number is 999-9999" or what?

Also, if any of the ladies out there have a particular preference about either of these questions, feel free to share.

 

[Privan]

Well I haven't read about the voice mail thing before, and I never looked up the donation thing before because I always just a plain white envelope, I simply asked it because I was going to ask about the voice mail.

 

[Fotura]

Hi,

1) Most of the ladies I've seen prefer to have it in an envelope and hand it to them after being greeted. Most try to make it as discreet as possible.

Money is always awkward so the sooner the transaction is done that's one less thing to think about.

2) I'm more comfortable with e-mail as first form of communication. Then I use the phone. Exactly as you stated, just say why you are calling. Most ladies here are professional so leave a message and your number so they can get back to you.

MHO.

 

[hitrack]

Privan if your gonna survive on this board you may need this. Download it and use it if anyone gives you any guff!!

 

[Privan]

I would like to point out that I explained the whole donation question was a side item. Yes I could have done a search for it, and I'm wrong for not doing so, but that wasn't the only topic of discussion. I was mostly concerned about the Voice Mail option because I always seem to have trouble talking over the phone and trying to leave a coherent message is even harder.

Besides, I wasn't really asking how to pay for it, I mentioned that I use a plain white envelope already. The actual question I should have asked would have been something along the lines of "Is it okay to pull money out of your wallet?" because at the time I was thinking if you've already got the envelope/whatever all set out and ready to go, what if you want to extend your time, how bad would it look pulling money out of the wallet.

 

[rigiddoctor]

do you see these ladies more than once?

Cash is cash. So long as the SP gets paid i don't think my time with her will be influenced in any way if i just give her cash or put it in an envelope.

You'd be surprised what simple manners will do to your experience. If you treat the transaction with respect, the SP will most likely treat you with respect.

Counting money out of your wallet in front of her is poor manners, IMHO. If you were in the US, the poor gal would either run from the room screaming that it was all a misunderstanding or toss you out on your ass... C'mon - how hard is it to place the donation in a blank envelope from the bank ATM machine?

Why not place the donation in an envelope with a nice card saying thank you... Next time, it might be her saying thanks in several different languages!!

Chivalry is not dead,

 

[rigiddoctor]

I was trained in the US of A

My experience in the 'Universal Secrets of Adulthood' taught me to be extra cautious about details... And to be religious, almost obsessive even, with the finer details such as real name, phone number, etc.

There are three things I'll put of my pants once I walk into a room with a beautiful woman - my donation (carefully counted TWICE and deposited into one of Hallmark's very finest), my meat & potatoes and a few Avanti's.

If she's deserving of a little something extra, I keep it tucked inside a jacket pocket. I'm known to tip, but then again I'm also known to be a repeat customer... To each their throne.