yes that is somhing i have hught about and i understand that that kinda thing will come with the territory
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Good point. In BC, only shady agencies would hire a 18 year old because of legal constraints. (You cannot enter a binding contract before you are 19.)
It's still worth talking to the insiders all the same. As for working for an agency, would have to wait for that option.
"Grab some popcorn and cringe"
Don't suppose there's anything cringe worthy with your helpful PM or do you see yourself to be a more ethical pooner than the rest?
it was my understanding that i could choose to do this indy at my age and 19 for agency
Looks like there is one popular good advice: talk to a pro.
I imagine one doesn't make the decision of entering this profession solely based on logistics. I think you should try to befriend someone who is a professional and also have some understanding of your situation so that they can give you better advice.
Good luck to you.
I imagine one doesn't make the decision of entering this profession solely based on logistics. I think you should try to befriend someone who is a professional and also have some understanding of your situation so that they can give you better advice.
Good luck to you.
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Advice? Don't do it. Get an education in something that will serve you for years. School isn't your strong suit? I left when I was 16 with a whopping grade 9 education. I'm 56 and have been working at manual labour for 40 years.
Not fun.
Many of the people here are generally respectable and polite so much of what you are hearing seems pretty mundane. In the real world, it isn't.
I remember someone who posted here years ago. He drove around with in a van with a filthy mattress in the back. He would pick up SWs just to see how much crap they would put up with for the money. I don't believe he ever got violent, but he was a real douche bag. I'm not saying you would be working on the streets, but chances are you just might have to if the bookings aren't there. There are ladies here who have done it at one time or another.
You mentioned that you are aware that you may have to spend time with some less than attractive, much older men. Here's an experiment for you:
Go to a mall and sit in the food court. Look at the older guys going by. Not just the 30 somethings in the suits. Check out the guy who outweighs you by almost 150 lbs. (whatever that is in kilos) and is old enough to be your grand father. Picture him naked. Picture having sex with him. The reality of that situation is about 100 times worse than what you imagine.
Right now you are living in a nice (presumably) house with everything you need and probably some things you want but don't really need. Sounds pretty nice. I understand the need to be on your own with your own money and freedom. It's a great feeling. There are other ways to get there. They might take longer, but are less damaging and are more secure. Then you will be in a position to try this if you still want to and not do it because you have to.
Maybe some of the ladies should chime in on the more 'unpleasant' aspects of "the biz"? If she wants info, then she should be well informed and not just receive tips on how to get started. That isn't fair to her.
If not in this thread, then PM.
Not fun.
Many of the people here are generally respectable and polite so much of what you are hearing seems pretty mundane. In the real world, it isn't.
I remember someone who posted here years ago. He drove around with in a van with a filthy mattress in the back. He would pick up SWs just to see how much crap they would put up with for the money. I don't believe he ever got violent, but he was a real douche bag. I'm not saying you would be working on the streets, but chances are you just might have to if the bookings aren't there. There are ladies here who have done it at one time or another.
You mentioned that you are aware that you may have to spend time with some less than attractive, much older men. Here's an experiment for you:
Go to a mall and sit in the food court. Look at the older guys going by. Not just the 30 somethings in the suits. Check out the guy who outweighs you by almost 150 lbs. (whatever that is in kilos) and is old enough to be your grand father. Picture him naked. Picture having sex with him. The reality of that situation is about 100 times worse than what you imagine.
Right now you are living in a nice (presumably) house with everything you need and probably some things you want but don't really need. Sounds pretty nice. I understand the need to be on your own with your own money and freedom. It's a great feeling. There are other ways to get there. They might take longer, but are less damaging and are more secure. Then you will be in a position to try this if you still want to and not do it because you have to.
Maybe some of the ladies should chime in on the more 'unpleasant' aspects of "the biz"? If she wants info, then she should be well informed and not just receive tips on how to get started. That isn't fair to her.
If not in this thread, then PM.
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I would wait, your too young to make this big of a decision, and yes it is life altering. no going back,
I'm not saying its wrong, I'm just saying once your out there, and start, it will follow you for the rest of your life, your a hooker a whore,
think about explaining that to a guy you fell in love with, or your kids, yes your mother is a whore.
I don't think this what were in is bad or evil or even wrong, whats wrong is people's attitude how they approach this hobby..
it makes sense for some of us, a lot of sense, for others, they do it out of desperation loneliness stupidity its easy, it makes life bearable.
you would most likely do well, young is good,
but I'm sixty, would you like to suck my hairy cock.
its funny but I'm not really all that attached to money,
I have given my sp, a shit load of the colored paper, she seems to like it, its only paper there is more where that came from. just get a job and work go to school,
how much money one needs is more about your lifestyle then anything,
I give her some paper she sucks my cock. doesn't seem like a fair trade to me. but I'm seeing her this week,
my point there are more important things then money, friends loved ones mates, family loved ones,
its extremely hard for a sp to have family and husband while doing this, not impossible. but from experience meeting and getting to know several older sp's there family sucks, there kids are troubled, they have no happy marriage or home. I suppose there is some women out there that would say not true,
like I said its possible, but a lot harder, to find family home and happiness if your an escort, most are single or single moms and have loose relationships.
something to think about, its not all roses.
most sp's have been stalked and have bad clients.
let me get all drunk and randy and raunchy, and come over, I bet you I could change your mind about this pretty quick
like I said its not all that rosy,
but my sp and a few others have been in it several decades and made a brinks truck load of money.
you have to decide what your priorities are..
the best sp's are those that just like fucking lots of different guys. they realize that, that is who they are, and they might as well be smart and get paid for it.
I'm not saying its wrong, I'm just saying once your out there, and start, it will follow you for the rest of your life, your a hooker a whore,
think about explaining that to a guy you fell in love with, or your kids, yes your mother is a whore.
I don't think this what were in is bad or evil or even wrong, whats wrong is people's attitude how they approach this hobby..
it makes sense for some of us, a lot of sense, for others, they do it out of desperation loneliness stupidity its easy, it makes life bearable.
you would most likely do well, young is good,
but I'm sixty, would you like to suck my hairy cock.
its funny but I'm not really all that attached to money,
I have given my sp, a shit load of the colored paper, she seems to like it, its only paper there is more where that came from. just get a job and work go to school,
how much money one needs is more about your lifestyle then anything,
I give her some paper she sucks my cock. doesn't seem like a fair trade to me. but I'm seeing her this week,
my point there are more important things then money, friends loved ones mates, family loved ones,
its extremely hard for a sp to have family and husband while doing this, not impossible. but from experience meeting and getting to know several older sp's there family sucks, there kids are troubled, they have no happy marriage or home. I suppose there is some women out there that would say not true,
like I said its possible, but a lot harder, to find family home and happiness if your an escort, most are single or single moms and have loose relationships.
something to think about, its not all roses.
most sp's have been stalked and have bad clients.
let me get all drunk and randy and raunchy, and come over, I bet you I could change your mind about this pretty quick
like I said its not all that rosy,
but my sp and a few others have been in it several decades and made a brinks truck load of money.
you have to decide what your priorities are..
the best sp's are those that just like fucking lots of different guys. they realize that, that is who they are, and they might as well be smart and get paid for it.
i am in contact with a few sp through pm and text just to explain a little more i know it might be hard for some people to understand but i have had sex with my fair share of unattractive people for me what i like is making people happy it makes me feel good about myself to be with someone that is insecure or whatever we are all just people and as long as there clean and respectful i would be attracted to there attitude and personality rather then there looks
You are taking the right approach, good for you. And handling the peanut gallery well to boot. Props to you.
thank you woody as i said earlier i might not be the most booksmart or good at school but i do consider myself a good person and i love to listen
Hello newgirll,
Welcome!!!
When giving advice to a woman looking to enter the industry I lead with a few things:
* always have another source of income (or 2, or 3 haha...) in order to protect your standards and your safety - you must never need this.
* do not associate with any men - photographers, assistants, drivers, you name it.
* set your standard and stick to it - you will be tested and you will quickly learn that good clients actually find it incredibly easy to book with you
Also, decide what you are looking to achieve. Are you going into this profession for frequent, fun sex keeping things simple? Are you able to go deep with people, providing a compassionate ear and sometimes needed advice on relationships / career / life situations? Can you listen to people sharing their wounds and offer emotional support without it impacting you outside of your rendezvous? Do you have the necessary maturity to guard your heart when some connections become stronger? Or are you actually looking to marry / date through the hobby, as does happen quite frequently? These are things you want to think about.
I don't know you but if you are 18 you might want to gain a little more life experience so you can offer a better quality experience - even if you are only looking to offer sex. More maturity will also help you keep the various parts of your life separate.
This can be a very fun, life-giving profession to be in - done right. Done wrong, one can become miserable, start hating men and lose their mental and physical health in the process.
here is an e how on the subject http://www.wikihow.com/Be-a-Professional-Escort
Iknow that it seems that most escorts start out working for massage parlors. I don't want to give you in the wrong direction's It's a little like a fan of good fine dining .Trying to tell you how to be a chef . I think your best source of information would be the professionals in this area . One suggestion i would have is to drop into your local free sti clinic to get some information .The bonus is they often have free condoms and lube you can use . As a customer I would not know that side of the business I do not know of any escort Olney bulletin board services . have no idea if this will be helpful but got this off of a porn websight this woman is a Sanfrancisco prostitute and does a web cast on escort rights etc . This may have more to do with the politics of the escort industry . Her latest thing is that amnesty international is making a big push to legalize prostitution .
http://www.thewhorecast.com/
Iknow that it seems that most escorts start out working for massage parlors. I don't want to give you in the wrong direction's It's a little like a fan of good fine dining .Trying to tell you how to be a chef . I think your best source of information would be the professionals in this area . One suggestion i would have is to drop into your local free sti clinic to get some information .The bonus is they often have free condoms and lube you can use . As a customer I would not know that side of the business I do not know of any escort Olney bulletin board services . have no idea if this will be helpful but got this off of a porn websight this woman is a Sanfrancisco prostitute and does a web cast on escort rights etc . This may have more to do with the politics of the escort industry . Her latest thing is that amnesty international is making a big push to legalize prostitution .
http://www.thewhorecast.com/
Thank you very much Aellyn another sp that i have been chatting with suggested i read what you have to say and i appreciate what you had to say
Seriously I don't think there is any good advice any one can give you .You have all ready made up your mind for what ever reason.
To you making lots of money and affording nice things, a nice place and doing what you want is what is important right now. It usually is for any 18 yrs old girl.
You seem to have had your share of sex with different guys and you probably have figured out that that's all they want and want it for free .They are not interested in caring about you or for you or helping out with paying for stuff , he'll most of them just want to party and get layed and show off to there brows. No thought for the future and little respect for the girl that puts out.
Your still living at home can't seem to save any money from your work , what 18 yrs old is good with money . Do you know any of your friend that are on their own at 18?
Just a side note:If you have a full time min wage job you can survive on your own just can't have everything you want and spend the rent. I am 62 yrs old I lived with my parents most of my first 50 yrs,for number of reasons iits what I choose to do and there are lot of people still ding it to day or going back to live with their parents. It is part of life's decisions. Then I was on my own for the last 12 yrs .spent a lot of money living how I wanted , seeing escorts and having freida in this business. Then at 59 I lost everything and started over..I now have a job I enjoy but only pays me 2000 a month. If I managed my money I can make from month to month on that and even some time see a girl .most month miss manage lol
As for your choise to look into escorting I am telling you there are not very many happy and successful hooks , escorts , cortisons or what ever we politely call the girls we see and know .
You need to know some of the girls that were and still are in the biz after 10 or 12 yrs, not the new young ones that still might be hyped because they have lot of money and party all the time ..I knew them , I saw them and I know them now 12 yrs later .Their life is not the same ,most struggled to get out because of drugs , bad relationship , and personality disorders. Some made it back to a some what normal life others are still falling back into hooking to try and live or pay for a habit.
Those are the girls you need to talk to not some one that still is on this board because they still think it's good for them.
There are many down side to being in the sex trade Are you ready to lose your family and friends if they find out what you do to make that extra money you are spending.
They may love you but few can handle what you do and the stigma , out rage and shame they feel will destroy any thing you had before.Now again some girls were lucku there families and friends did eventual understand when they were in the biz for a number of years . Others never told them and they never found out. They were quite nave and unconcerned.
Even I as a 50 something single guy let the few friends I had know that I knew sone escort and also let my 82 yrs old mom know ..I let them fig the rest out for them selves
This what your facing and all the other things every one else has said
GOOD LUCK IN YOUR CHOICES .
If you are willing to look at the whole picture of this biz you will come up with a far better idea of the good the bad and the ugly Newgirl,because if you enter it you may run into it very quickly.
To you making lots of money and affording nice things, a nice place and doing what you want is what is important right now. It usually is for any 18 yrs old girl.
You seem to have had your share of sex with different guys and you probably have figured out that that's all they want and want it for free .They are not interested in caring about you or for you or helping out with paying for stuff , he'll most of them just want to party and get layed and show off to there brows. No thought for the future and little respect for the girl that puts out.
Your still living at home can't seem to save any money from your work , what 18 yrs old is good with money . Do you know any of your friend that are on their own at 18?
Just a side note:If you have a full time min wage job you can survive on your own just can't have everything you want and spend the rent. I am 62 yrs old I lived with my parents most of my first 50 yrs,for number of reasons iits what I choose to do and there are lot of people still ding it to day or going back to live with their parents. It is part of life's decisions. Then I was on my own for the last 12 yrs .spent a lot of money living how I wanted , seeing escorts and having freida in this business. Then at 59 I lost everything and started over..I now have a job I enjoy but only pays me 2000 a month. If I managed my money I can make from month to month on that and even some time see a girl .most month miss manage lol
As for your choise to look into escorting I am telling you there are not very many happy and successful hooks , escorts , cortisons or what ever we politely call the girls we see and know .
You need to know some of the girls that were and still are in the biz after 10 or 12 yrs, not the new young ones that still might be hyped because they have lot of money and party all the time ..I knew them , I saw them and I know them now 12 yrs later .Their life is not the same ,most struggled to get out because of drugs , bad relationship , and personality disorders. Some made it back to a some what normal life others are still falling back into hooking to try and live or pay for a habit.
Those are the girls you need to talk to not some one that still is on this board because they still think it's good for them.
There are many down side to being in the sex trade Are you ready to lose your family and friends if they find out what you do to make that extra money you are spending.
They may love you but few can handle what you do and the stigma , out rage and shame they feel will destroy any thing you had before.Now again some girls were lucku there families and friends did eventual understand when they were in the biz for a number of years . Others never told them and they never found out. They were quite nave and unconcerned.
Even I as a 50 something single guy let the few friends I had know that I knew sone escort and also let my 82 yrs old mom know ..I let them fig the rest out for them selves
This what your facing and all the other things every one else has said
GOOD LUCK IN YOUR CHOICES .
If you are willing to look at the whole picture of this biz you will come up with a far better idea of the good the bad and the ugly Newgirl,because if you enter it you may run into it very quickly.
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i have a very young mom she is in her mid 30's she had me at the age of 17 we have a very close relationship and she is very understanding of the choices i make because she knows im not impulsive and i do my research before i decide on things she also understands that i am an adult even it is a young one i would probably end up telling her within the first week of me doing it if i decide too if i dont tell her before hand.
You know what's weird? All the guys giving advice. Resercher has a good point: you don't look to the diners for advice about being a chef.
You know what else is weird? The partakers here who say "don't do it" because it'll tarnish your future, etc. Is that what you really think of the ladies you see, guys? It may not be for everyone but the women I know who've made a success of the sex industry (again that's not everyone who tries) are strong and independent. I don't feel pity, I actually admire them for doing what they want and not giving a damn what people think of it.
But I'm not a chef so don't listen to me.
You know what else is weird? The partakers here who say "don't do it" because it'll tarnish your future, etc. Is that what you really think of the ladies you see, guys? It may not be for everyone but the women I know who've made a success of the sex industry (again that's not everyone who tries) are strong and independent. I don't feel pity, I actually admire them for doing what they want and not giving a damn what people think of it.
But I'm not a chef so don't listen to me.
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